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  • Member Since:

    August 30, 2000

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    Single

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    Arts, Entertainment, and Media

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    Winston Salem, NC

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Hello Kings and Queens



This page has been

created to encourage

more positivity and

success in our

relationships. Women

are valuable, precious

and worthy of honor.



Please read and share with others.



Thank You



M.D. Samuels



The following list is in my book" Kings and Queens, A Royal Priesthood"
It will be available for sale May 2005.
My IM is successblessed_2000@yahoo.com







1.God must be first in your life.



2.Love yourself. How can you love her if you don`t love yourself?



3.Excersize! Take care of your spirit, soul and body. She wants a healthy body to hold and she wants to live a long life with you.



4.Keep yourself neat and clean. She wants to be proud of you. She wants to show you off to her family and friends.



5.Cherish and adore her! She is special. Treat her that way!



6.Respect and honor her.



7.Know that she is special and important.



8.Help her to RISE to her fullest potential. Encourage, edify and exhort her to be her best. She has GREAT potential. Never pt her down.Use CONSTRUCTIVE criticism.



9.Laugh with her and not at her.



10.Enjoy her company.



11.Communicate (Listen more)



12.Share your heart. A real woman wants to know your heart. She will not intentionally hurt you.



13.Share your hurts.



14.Never ever hit her. NEVER!



15.Share your dreams. Have a plan to pursue your dreams. Never give up!



16.Esteem her. Never put her down.



17.Edify her. ( Lift her up) Show her off to your family and friends.



18.Encourage her to grow.Be and stay in her corner.



19.Show her that you care.



20.Stand up for her.She needs your strength.



21.Fight for her. ( This does not mean physically)



22.Protect her. She needs to feel secure with you.



23.Make every attempt to make her feel comfortable and secure.



24.Buy her flowers.( Every woman does not like roses) Find out what she likes.



25.Buy her BIG gifts.



26.Buy her small gifts. ( A $3.00 gift can be special if truly given in love. Sometimes it is the thought that counts.)



27.Cook for her.



28.Hold her hands.



29.Lightly kiss her.



30.Smile alot.



31. Laugh at her CORNY jokes.



32.Have a sense of humor. Women need good laughter and fun to relieve the stress and just enjoy life with that special someone)



33.Be serious but with balance.



34.Be confident! NOT arrogant.



35.Tell her she looks good.



36.Tell her what you like to see her in.



37.Tell others she is special and important.



38.Be honest!



39.Be loyal and faithful.



40.Make love to her mind.



41.Learn foreplay. (It`s a daily thing and not always physical)



42.Have goals and plans for your relationship.



43. Develop your leadership understanding and skills.



44.Plan for a GREAT future.



45. Never continually stop projects and start new ones. Learn to finish projects.



46.Take her on a 1 to 3 day vacation sometimes.



47.Take her on a vacation at least once a year.



48.Have oneday a week that is just for her.



49.Visit her on her job with flowers, roses and gifts.



50.Take her on a picnic for lunches.



51.Make her a gift with your hands.



52.Read to her.



53.Volunteer to help her.



54.Wash her car.



55.Help around the house.



56.Be humble and meek. It does not mean weak.



57.Go to the doctor annually.



58.Write her a poem.



59.Pay off one of her bills.



60.Go to church with her.



61.Become interested in her activities.



62.Invite her into your activities.



63.Give her space and time.



64.Be positive.



65.Be proactive.



66.Be productive.Be results oriented.



67.Continue learning and growing.



68.Pay your bills.



69.Massage her back.



70.Massage her tired feet.



71.Hold her in silence.



72.Cuddle watching television.



73.Walk on the beach,in the park or someplace nice.



74.Stand as your own man.



75.Open the car door for her.



76.Let her read to you.



77.Pull the seat out for her.



78.Open doors for her.



79.Play her favorite games.



80.Take her to professional sports events.



81.Take her to the BEST restaraunt in town.



82.Take her to dinner at least twice a month or once weekly. (PAY FOR EVERYTHING!)



83.Improve yourself.



84.Never take her for granted



85.Celebrate her.



86.Pay attention to detail.



87.Ask questions. ( Never be a know it all)



88.Ask for her help.



90.Always strive to walk, talk and live in love. (1 Corinthians 13)



91.Never make a big thing out of small things.



92. Pray for and with her.



93.Celebrate her womanhood.



94.Strive to give her your undivided attention.



95.Strive to keep your word. Be a man of honor and INTEGRITY! If you don`t intend to keep your word don`t give it.



96.Be real. Be yourself. (She wouldn`t be with you if she wanted someone else.(Provided she is an honest and real woman.)



97.Enjoy LIFE! No one wants to be around the living dead.



98.Be unselfish.



99.Lift others up.



100.Be wise and understanding.



101.Tell her you love her...often.



102.If you are going to be with her. Be with her.



103.When you go out with her, make sure you look good from head to toe.



104.Learn to MATCH your clothes/outfits.Women appreciate a well dressed man.) PLEASE VISIT MY OTHER PAGE ON BP. SUCCESSDRESS



105.Take a drive to a new place on the spur of the moment.



106.Read to her sometimes.



107.Rest in her arms.



108.Go shopping with her sometimes and don`t complain.



109.Show her off to your friends and be proud of her.



110.Make a video or audio tape and share some positive and good things with her. Be creative and even funny.



111.Be involved in doing something together for other in your families, communities and city.



112.Improve your speaking vocabulary. Learn to clearly and concisely express yourself. anywhere to anyone anytime under any situation.



113.Read!READ! READ!



114.Show respect to her parents and yours.



115.Learn a little about different things.



116.REMEMBER, to Always do those things that won her to keep her.



117.Accept and love her unconditionally.



118.Don`t try to change her. Let her change herself.



119.Draw her a hot bath with her favorite frangrances. Put rose petals in the tub.



120.Lease a limo one night and dress in your best suit(dress to make heads turn) Tell her to dress up,

REALLY DRESS UP .Don`t let her know about the limo. Take her to dinner, athen to the theater or a concert then after for desert.



121. Be strong, bold and courageous.

(Read, meditate on and study Joshua Chapter 1 ine the bible. This will give you clues.)



122. Be a decision maker. Women do not like to be with men who are vacilltators, (meaning wavering/double minded). The want to be with men who are not afraid to make a decision. They understand that you can correct a wrong decision.



123.If she has children, encourage them to be mature and well rounded. Be a positive example in their lives.



124.Learn to use all your faculties, including listening to that small still voice. It will save you a lot of pain and heartache.



125.Give your total self to her. She will be more open to give her whole self to you.



126.Be an asset to her not a liability. Help her to climb the ladder of success even if she is

higher than you. If you sincerely help and not hinder her, if she is a good woman she will help you to rise too.



127.Buy her an outfit that you would like to see her in. (PLEASE NOT A CLOWN SUIT!...LOL) Look at how she dresses, even look at fashion books with her to see what she likes to get an idea.



128. When you are together. Pay attention to her not other women. Also when watching television or at the movies. Don`t bring up the idea or thought of you want to be with Halle Berry or whoever it is. She needs to feel, hear and know that she is NUMBER ONE!



129.Give her a surprise party.Invite her closet friends and family.



130. Wash her hair then after you mess it up..LOL. Pay for her to go to the hair dresser.



131.Fall asleep with your head resting on her lap. She has an instinct to nurture. Let her nurture you.



132.Make sure she has her needs met as best as possible. When you are out about town call her and ask if she needs anything while you are out.



133. Send her an e-mail letter/card

occasionally. Mail her a card just to let her know you care.



134.Keep your hair groomed, teeth brushed, nails trimmed and clean.

She will appreciate it.



135.Buy a cologne that she likes to smell on you and leave it at her place. When she smells it. She will think of you.



I`ve got more coming...smile.





I`ve been asked why I`m still single. I`m not looking for the perfect woman but the perfect woman for me and the destiny before me. I don`t need baggage or drama in a relationship. My focus is laser and I intend to fulfill my destiny. I need a destiny focused, real, down to earth, godly, focused, balanced and loving woman. Then I need God`s confirmation and seal of approval.


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