Oprah wrote this about men... but I have chosen to direct this to men and women : " If a man/woman wants you, nothing can keep him/her away. If he/she doesn't want you,nothing can make him/her stay. Stop making excuses for a man/woman and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant tobe. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man/woman before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man/woman was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend." "You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you... a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals... look for someone complimentary...not supplementary."
