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Peace and Blessings,



You have just entered the Hive of the original Black Queen Beautiful Educated Entrepenuer.



Mature Crowd ONLY.



Don`t come to me with that freak stuff, believe me you can`t even come close to what I`m working with. But if you are SOLID do share some of yourself and sign my guestbook.

What do I mean by SOLID you ask???

A SOLID PERSON IS:

1ST & FOREMOST---ONE WHO IS STABLE 2ND----------ONE WHO HAS A STRONG, INQUISITIVE NATURE

3RD----------ONE WHO IS OPEN TO LEARNING AND TEACHING i.e. RIDES THE TWO-WAY STREET OF SHARING

4th----------ONE WHO IS OLD ENOUGH TO HAVE BAGGAGE BUT WISE ENOUGH TO HAVE SORTED THRU IT!!!!!!!!!

a note about baggage:It represents the sum total of your experiences and relationships and how they impacted on you. Sooooo sort thru the contents of your bags, discard unnecessary items, then clean, fold and repack the balance-NEATLY. You will now have a lightweight bag with which to travel.



5th---------ONE WHO IS ON THE JOURNEY OF LIFE---EVER MOVING, LEARNING AND LAUGHING. I am a firm avocate of the power and beauty of NET-WORKING because when we fail to communicate we fail to learn and when we fail to learn we fail to grow......... Sharing is a tool I use to grow and so I would like to share the following piece of prose I came accross while buzzing around the Planet. Read it, especially at those times when you doubt that "one can make a difference". One SONG can spark a moment..........One FLOWER can wake the dream.........One TREE can start a forest.........One BIRD can herald spring.........One SMILE begins a friendship.........One HANDCLASP lifts a soul.........One STAR can guide a ship at sea.........One WORD can frame the goal.........One VOTE can change a nation(or maybe not).........One SUNBEAM lights a room.........One CANDLE wipes out darkness.........One LAUGH will conquer gloom.........One STEP must start each journey.........One WORD must start a prayer.........One HOPE will raise our spirits......... One TOUCH can show you care.........One VOICE can speak with wisdom.........One HEART can know what is true.........One LIFE can make a DIFFERENCE.................... AUTHOR UNKNOWN





In the spirit of LEARNING and GROWING I`d like to SHARE the following well written piece I came accross....



An African proverb states, "Before you get married, keep both eyes open, and after you marry,close one eye."



Before you get involved and make a

commitment to someone, don`t let lust, desperation, immaturity, ignorance, pressure from others or a low self esteem make you blind to warning signs.Keep your eyes open, and don`t fool yourself that you can change someone or that what you see as faults aren`t really that important.



Once you decide to commit to someone, over time their flaws, vulnerabilities, pet peeves, and differences will become more obvious. If you love your mate and want the relationship to grow and evolve, you`ve got to learn how to close one eye and not let every little thing bother you.

You and your mate have many different expectations, emotional needs, values, dreams, weaknesses, and strengths.



You are two unique individual children of the CREATOR who have decided to share a life together. Neither one of you are perfect, but are you perfect for each other? Do you bring out the best in each other? Do you compliment and compromise with each other, or do you compete, compare, and control? WHAT DO YOU BRING TO THE RELATIONSHIP???

---Do you bring past relationships, past hurt, past mistrust, past pain. You can`t take someone to the altar to alter them.--- You can`t make someone love you or make someone stay.

If you develop self-esteem, spiritual discernment, and "a life," you won`t find yourself making someone else responsible for your happiness or responsible for your pain.

Manipulation, control, jealousy, neediness, and selfishness are NOT the ingredients of a thriving,healthy, loving and lasting relationship.

Seeking status, sex, wealth and security are the wrong reasons to be in a relationship. WHAT KEEPS A RELATIONSHIP STRONG?????????



Communication, Intimacy, Trust, A sense of humor, Sharing household tasks, Some getaway time without business or children, Daily exchanges (a meal, shared activity, a hug, a call, a touch, a note) Leave a nice message on their voicemail or Send a nice email, Sharing common goals and interests. Growth is important. Grow together, not away from each other, giving each other space to grow without feeling insecure. Allow your mate to have outside interest. You CANNOT always be together. Give each other a sense of belonging and assurances of commitment. Don`t try to control one another. Learn each others family situation. Respect his or her parents regardless. Don`t put pressure on each other for material goods. Remember, for Richer or for Poorer.

If these qualities are missing, the relationship will erode as resentment, withdrawal, abuse, neglect, dishonesty, and pain replace the passion.

"Nurture your mind with great thoughts, for you will never go any higher than you think."

The grass withers, the flower fades, But the word of God stands forever. Isaiah 40:8



Shall we make a new rule of life from tonight: Always to try to be a little kinder than is necessary. "The difference between `United` and `Untied` is where you put the `I`."



Author UNKNOWN





I will continue to add POSITIVE pieces to my page from time to time.

Peace, the QUEEN

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