1bigfinegurl Stop this black on black crime!!!! It's getting old! - October 15, 2011 add/view comments (0)

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    Friends, Casual Dating, Networking

  • Member Since:

    May 18, 2005

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    Female

  • Age:

    41

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    Divorced

  • Last Login:

    January 31

  • Education:

    Some College Coursework Completed

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    Nonprofit

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    Columbus, OH

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    Black/African American

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    Gemini


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12/30/10  Thanking you for making me feel like a woman....with your caressing ways,long conversations, your gentle hands and un-guarded heart. You know how to make me feel good just like a man should. I respect you in every way, your manliness is what I crave. When Im down you know what words to say, a grown a** man who does his thing. You work hard and know your worth a teacher,leader, friend or lover. Your swagger keeps me wanting more. I can never get enough of your style, whether you rocking dreads, ceasar or a low-fade. You look good in a white tee or Coogi. Tall, Dark, Short, Fat, Carmel or Butta just knowing you holding it down makes me want to love you!! You are the true man of my dreams...KEEP DOING YOUR THING

12/2/2010 You say real recognizes real but yet I'm here and you can't see me for who I am. I tell you I'm a different kind of girl and you say Im like all other chicks. You got me all wrong cause I'm not hard up for no d***. Please believe what I say, I'm different in everyway. Try not to compare me to those chicks, who lied and left you for other sh**!!!!

I'm Me....what you get is what you see. If you don't like it please move on. I am fearfully and wonderfully made, yes I am a big girl as you can see but guess what I'M ME!! I love who I am; a queen much more woman for just an average man. I'm Me the woman God made me to be. Big lips and thighs, bubbly brown eyes. To you I may not be a dime, but to him I'm one of a kind. Sorry if I don't meet your expectations but for that special man I'm his special present, a gift from above just for you to love. I'm Me,love me, cherish me and enjoy who God made me to be.

Do you really think you will find Mr. or Mrs. Right on BP? What has happened Black People? I am so tired of butt shots, breast shots, showing your womanhood to some man who just wants to screw or have a one-night stand! I'm not knocking your game do you boo if that's all you have to offer. Have we been reduced to just sex? whatever happened to mind blowing conversations? romance and courtship? That's the real orgasm!!!!

Here`s what I am looking for....
A friend.. someone I can kick it with from time to time, someone who appreciates the fullness of my hips butt and thighs... a friend... who is there for me when I need HIM to be.
A MAN who sees the beauty in me..
Someone who understands that in me lies a treasure chest, a heart of pure gold. I am not looking for anything other than just a friend, a decent, intelligent, god-fearing, insight giving, I got your back having, let`s go out and kick it, MAN!!!!

The MAN I am looking for is someone who is mature, adult, single, divorced or separated...no drama from ex`s or baby mama`s. I like men who can handle being with a big *** sista.


But realize this.... that I am a LADY!!!! so Respect me, Cherish me , Honor me, Hold me, and LOVE ME... and watch me become the woman you need me to be!!!!


There is more to me...... Don't stop at what you see, because there is more too me. Look into my heart and hear it beat. Take time to wonder what it is that attracted you tome. There is more to me.... Look at my glow, the intensity in my eyes, there is more to me than you know, a heart that's full of unconditional love,a mind that is eager to learn, a spirit that soars, there is more to me than just the picture you see. Love Deeply

 

 

Can someone help me understand why we women are saying there are no good men? I don't get it, maybe if we really stop to see that it is us ladies who aren't so good!! What has happened? Where did we go wrong, how is it that all our good brothers are gone? When are we going to see that it is our KINGS who makes us strong, we are to support them love honor and cherish them, then and only then will we reap the benefits of having a good man... I guess Im tired of women saying where have all the good men gone. And men, my Kings, you must play your part. You must be honest, loving and caring from the start. We understand your plight, we know it's harder for you than it would be for us, but trust in us when we say we got your back, because without your back we wouldn't be!!!

 

March 2010,

 Why are you hiding behind that mask? you know the one that makes others think your an Angry BLACK MAN.What happened in your past that keeps you hidden from me? Come from behind that mask, it's scaring me. I do not like what you've become, hard, calleoused and overcomed. I know you've had it hard, but with me you can put down that guard. I am your lady, your lover and want to be so much more.... But you keep your heart outside our door. Come from behind that mask and let me see the wonderful man I know you can be.

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