I`M QUITA AND I`M HERE TO TELL YOU A LITTLE ABOUT ME: I`M LIGHTSKIN 5`1 HAZEL BROWN EYES LIGHT BROWN HAIR (with natural highlights) WEIGH 160
I`M ON BP LOOKING FOR FRIENDS. I BEEN GONE FOR A LONG TIME SO I`M NOT TOO HIP TO BP AS IT IS NOW BUT I`LL FIX THAT!
ANY WAYZ A LITLE ABOUT ME: I`M A DOWN TO EARTH PERSON AND VERY CARING I`M SENSITIVE BUT ALSO AGGRESSIVE AND I`M CAN`T BE PLAYED FOR NOBODY`S FOOL. I`M SMART AND AS I ALWAYS SAY GAME RECOGNIZE GAME SO IF YOU COME THRU AND YOU WANT TO PLAY GAMES PLEASE ROLL THE F#CK OUT CAUSE ME, I DON`T HAVE TIME FOR IT BUT IF YOU`RE REAL WITH ME AND CAN STAY THAT WAY THEN I CAN WORK WITH YOU!! I HAVE A SIX MONTH OLD SON AND I LOVE MY BABY'S FATHER .
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Bottom line -- if I sleep with a woman I don't know or care about SEX is >NOT going to make me care. (I stopped doing that years ago) That kind of >sex is like scratching an itch. Once a man scratches, he's through. He ain't sitting around thinking about that spot that itched or how good it felt scratching it. He's moving on with his life until that spot itches >again and it don't matter which hand he scratches it with, just as long as he gets rid of the itch.
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>Too many women PRETEND they can handle a sexual fling, but wind up getting caught up and wanting us to romance and wine and dine them and pretend we're having a "relationship" when it's NOTHING but a booty call. Come on, ladies, y'all know I'm telling the truth.
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>Unfortunately, ladies, you are part of our problem. You sleep with us BEFORE you know us or what we're about. Having sex with a man does not automatically make that a "relationship". Many women will deny they think
>like this but I'm speaking from personal experience. Also, ladies know when their men are fooling around and still turn a blind eye by getting mad at the other woman. Now, what kind of sense does that make? Why should that
>woman make YOU (a total stranger) a priority in her life? IF HE DID NOT MARRY YOU HE IS STILL SINGLE. The "other woman" is not breaking up a "happy home".
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>Many women marry men who were cheating BEFORE they walked down the aisle and then are SHOCKED that a fancy wedding dress or an expensive walk down
>the aisle didn't change who he was. Why should he change? YOU let him know it was acceptable by sticking around that long.
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>Ladies, start living with your eyes OPEN. Most shady men give themselves away one way or another, usually before the first 30 days. Women have to stop "rewarding" unfaithful men by pretending it ain't happening. All of us
>Black Men (BM) do not cheat. I do not cheat on my lady so don't buy the hype. I know other BM who do not but many men WILL cheat if there are NO real penalties for it.
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>Stop jumping into bed with brothers YOU DON'T KNOW. That means fewer opportunities for men to cheat. Women have to STOP being so afraid to ask the important questions that would reveal his TRUE lifestyle. Worry LESS about what kind of job he has and what kind of car he drives and encourage him to talk about his past, particularly his past with women. OPEN those ears and listen. Does he put down his ex-women and blame them for everything? And don't be so vain. You are NOT a better woman than his last. If he dogged her out, you will probably be NEXT.
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>Observe him when you are with him. Do you have his home number? Work number? Have you seen where he lives? Where he works? Is he secretive? Did you ask if he's married or engaged? How does he treat other people? Listen to what he says, NOT what you want to hear. Stop INTERPRETING the meaning of what he says to fit your purposes. If he says, "I'm not lookin' for
>nothing right now" -- DON'T tell yourself, "Aw, he just scared of getting hurt. I can change his mind.." NO YOU CAN'T. He said exactly what the hell >he meant. BM don't have to lie when so many BW are already DEAF.
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>If you can't answer BASIC questions about a man DON'T OPEN YOUR LEGS. I could kinda understand back in the days when sex wouldn't KILL people but now? there's no excuse and if a BW takes that huge risk of sleeping with a
>STRANGER then she better protect herself -- sexually AND emotionally.
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>Show our ___ to the door if we pressure you for sex too soon. Don't be afraid to be alone. After you give our ____ some you will probably be alone anyway but now you feel like a fool. In other words, take your time and
>check us out. if we REALLY like you, we'll stick around. BUT if you decided to sleep with a man you hardly know, PROTECT yourself and keep your expectations to ZERO. We do not owe you a relationship or another date just
>because you had sex with us. That's not how it works, baby.
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>I have TOO many female friends who give me horror stories that could have been avoided if they'd done their homework first OR moved SLOWER before giving up the panties. I try as a BM to give them the best advice I can but
>that won't mean a _____ thing if BW continue to live in a dream world. You are TOTALLY RESPONSIBLE for your own sexual behavior the same as I am. Blaming the man won't change a ____ thing. BW have to look in the mirror
>and take SOME of the blame for what's wrong with BM/BW relationships. Let me end by saying....
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>SEX DOES NOT = A RELATIONSHIP
>GIVING A MAN A READY-MADE FAMILY WILL NOT MAKE HIM COMMIT IF HE DOESN'T WANT TO A MAN WILL NOT RESPECT A WOMAN WHO DOES NOT RESPECT HERSELF OR HER BODY IF YOU TRADE SEX FOR MATERIAL THINGS YOU ARE PROSTITUTING YOURSELF
>IF HE DOESN'T TAKE CARE OF HIS OTHER CHILDREN WHY WOULD YOU HAVE A BABY WITH HIM?
>IF YOU REWARD A DOG WHY SHOULD MEN STOP BEING DOGS?
>BRING MORE TO THE TABLE THAN YOUR BODY. NO YOUR ______ IS NOT MADE OF GOLD.
>IT IS ONLY AS GOOD AS I THINK IT IS. BELIEVE THAT.
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>BW are going to have to raise their standards if they expect BM to do it. The question is, are my beautiful BW up to the challenge? Are you willing to be strong and stop taking the easy way out?
Your Birthdate: February 4
You have an extraordinary character - moral, responsible, and disciplined.
Your sincerety and honesty shine through in almost every situation.
Driven and focused, you rarely let your emotions get the better of you.
You're level headed and rational. People count on you to look at things objectively.
MY VIEWS ON LIFE: I BELIEVE THAT LIFE IS WHAT YOU MAKE IT WHETHER IT BE GOOD OR BAD OR SOMETIMES EVEN IN BETWEEN BUT THEN AGAIN YOU HAVE NO CONTROL OF FATE SO IF FATE PUSHES YOU IN THE WRONG DIRECTION ITS UP TO YOU TO MAKE IT RIGHT CAUSE IF YOU KEEP TRAVELING THE WRONG PATH THEN YOU WILL REMAIN LIFELESS
MY VIEWS ONLOVE: I BELIEVE IN LOVE I REALLY DO, I BELIEVE IN ALL THE FACES OF LOVE BECAUSE THEY ARE TRUE. I`VE LEARNED SO MUCH IN MY PREVIOUS RELATIONSHIP. I WENT THRU SO MUCH. THERE WERE SO MANY THINGS THAT I TOLD MY SELF I WOULD NEVER DO BUT I DID BECAUSE I WAS IN LOVE. LOVE IS SO POWERFUL WHEN ITS TRUE. I WAS FAITHFUL BUT MY PARTNER WASN`T AND I THOUGHT THAT IF YOU LOVED SOMEONE YOU WOULDN`T CHEAT BUT THATS NOT TRUE SOME PEOPLE JUST CAN'T BE FAITHFUL NOT MATTER WHAT YOU DO AND ITS NOT YOUR FAULT, ITS BECAUSE THEY HAVE LOW SELF ESTEEM AND ARE VERY INSECURE WITHIN THEM SELVES. THE ONLY THING THAT I HATE ABOUT LOVE IS THE FACT THAT YOU DO ALMOST ANYTHING AND CAN SOMETIMES STILL COME OUT AT THE BOTTOM AND THAT IT CAN BRING YOU DOWN TO THE POINT WHERE YOU JUST FEEL, LOOK AND ACT WORTHLESS WHEN IN ACTUALLITY YOUR NOT, YOU`RE ALWAYS BEAUTIFUL. I HATE HOW LOVE CAN TAKE CONTROL OF YOU BUT I LOVE THE WAY LOVE FEELS IN THOSE HAPPY MOMENTS, THOSE CUDDLING MOMENTS AND THOSE ALL NIGHT LONG CONVERSATIONS AND MAKING LOVE UNTIL DAYBREAK AND SLEEPIN IN EACHOTHERS ARMS ALL DAY LONG. I BELIEVE IF YOU LOVE SOMEONE YOU WILL BE REAL WITH THEM IN ALL ASPECTS OF ANYTHING! IF THEY NOT SMELLING GOOD, TELL THEM THEY NEED TO TAKE A SHOWER, IF THEY NOT EATIN RIGHT TELL THEM I MEAN JUST BE REAL WITH THE PERSON YOU LOVE, THEY'LL APPRECIATE IT!
THESE ARE MY FAVORITE EVERYTHINGS...LOL
WELL I THINK I`M DONE NOW ANY QUESTIONS PLEASE FEEL FREE TO ASK!!
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TO MY BABY'S FATHER: BABY THANKS FOR SAVING ME FROM MY HELL WORLD! YOU MEAN THE WORLD TO ME AND I LOVE YOU WITH ALL MY HEART!!
ITS ALWAYS AND 4-EVER
MY SON: GOD KNEW I NEEDED YOU! YOU ARE THE JOY OF MY LIFE AND I WOULDN'T EVER TRADE YOU... I THOUGHT THAT I WASN'T READY FOR YOU BUT I WAS MORE THAN READY.....LIKE I SAID YOU WERE THE GIFT THAT I NEEDED AND LONGED FOR.....MOMMY LOVES YOU BABY
MY BIG SIS BUTTER525: B!TCH I LOVE YOU TO DEATH, YOU THE BIG SISTA I NEVER HAD. STAY BEAUTIFUL.....LOVE YA
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