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Well, I could go into this long drawn out spill about what I don't
like, how I want to be treated, and what I am looking for, but why?
Sometimes it's not really worth the trouble, because that is what
exactly what you will get. If there were anything you could change
what would it be and why? My honest question is why would you
change your past? It has only made you who you are now. If not a
stronger person, but a better person. You are wiser now and things
can only go up from this or that point that you have come to or
came to. God has put you here for whatever reason, and this world
would not be the same without you in it. So take the time to tell
the ones you truly love that you love them. Apologize when you know
that you are wrong. Sometimes you have to say "I'm sorry" if you
are not wrong. Not only do you ask for forgiveness from another,
but you must learn to forgive yourself as well. Just remember if no
one else loves you God loves you UNCONDITIONALLY. I love God
intimately, I abundantly love my daughter, and the rest of my
family. I love going to church, singing on the choir and being in
the presence of God. I cannot allow anything to come in between me
& him. I am too old to play games and too young to care about
anyone else's drama. I am an educated woman, and I am continuing
school. I love a smart man with common sense as well as a keen
sense of humor, and who can make me laugh. One last thing......you
are only as smart as the dumbest person you're with. LOL and this
is very true. The only way to the top is to get off your bottom.
******************THIS SECTION IS FOR THE SINGLE MEN
WOMEN************************* *** IF YOU ARE GOING THRU SOME SORTOF
STRUGGLE AND THAT SIGNIFICANT OTHER IS NOT SUPPORTING YOUWHETHER
IT'S FINANCIAL, SPIRITUALLY, EMOTIONALLY OR OTHER WISE, WHAT IS THE
POINT OF MAKING YOURSELF AVAILABLE TO THEM OR FOR THEM. TO LOVE
SOMEONE IS TO BE THERE FOR THEM AND SUPPORT THEM 100% AND THAT'S A
FACT. WHY DO WE AS MEN AND WOMEN HAVE A TENDENCY TO SELL OURSELVES
SHORT OR LOWER OUR STANDARDS JUST TO HAVE SOMEONE IN OUR LIVES WE
CAN CALL OUR OWN. WE MUST STOP MAKING OURSELVES AVAILABLE TO THESE
MEN AND WOMEN WHO WILL NOT BE THERE FOR US. WE NEED TO STOP BEING
WITH OR MAKING OURSELVES AVAILABLE TO MEN AND WOMEN WHO WOULD STAND
BY AND WATCH YOU STRUGGLE. A REAL MAN OR WOMAN WOULD NOT ALLOW
THAT, STAND BY AND WATCH YOU STRUGGLE ALONE, THEY WOULD DO WHATEVER
THEY HAD TO DO OR DO SOMETHING WITHIN THEIR POWER TO HELP OUT. IF
YOU HAVE DREAMS, GOALS OR ASPIRATIONS OF WHAT YOU (AS A COUPLE)
WOULD LIKE TO ACCOMPLISH IN THE FUTURE AND THEY ARE NOT BEHIND YOU
TO GIVE YOU THAT PUSH, ENCOURAGEMENT, OR DRIVE TO MOVE FORWARD, WHY
ARE YOU WASTING YOUR TIME? EVERYONE NEEDS SOMEONE TRUE ENOUGH, BUT
WE ALL NEED TO HAVE SOMEONE IN OUR LIVES WHO WILL GIVE THAT
ENCOURAGEMENT. BUT I WILL SAY THIS, THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH
ENCOURAGING YOURSELF, PATTING YOURSELF ON THE BACK. IF THAT IS WHAT
YOU HAVE TO DO TO GET TO THE NEXT LEVEL, THEN DO THAT. TRY TO
SURROUND YOURSELF AROUND OTHER POSITIVE PEOPLE WHO WANTS NOTHING
BUT THE BEST FOR YOU, AND I CAN TELL YOU IT AIN'T (YES I SAID IT)
ALWAYS FAMILY THAT WILL ENCOURAGE YOU, IT'S A STRANGER OR SOMEONE
YOU BARELY KNOW. *****THIS SECTION IS FOR ALL THE MARRIED MEN ON
THE PLANET***** -- IF YOU ARE JUST LOOKING FOR SOMEONE TO GET YOUR
FREAK ON WITH, WELL YOU HAVE HER AT HOME, YOU JUST HAVEN'T TAPPED
INTO HER SEXUAL DESIRES YET, IT'S NOT ABOUT YOU IT'S ABOUT HER.
--IF YOU ARE SEPARATED AND LOOKING FOR SOMEONE NEW, CLOSE THE DOOR
COMPLETELY ON THE MARRIAGE FIRST BEFORE YOU STEP INTO ANOTHER
RELATIONSHIP AND GET CAUGHT UP. SHOW THE NEW LADY A LITTLE MORE
RESPECT AND NOT DRAG HER INTO YOUR DRAMA, (YES MEN HAVE DRAMA TOO).
--PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE BE HONEST WITH PEOPLE AND NOT DECEIVE YOUR
FELLOW BROTHERS AND SISTERS, EVEN IF YOU THINK THAT THE TRUTH WILL
HURT THEY HAVE TO SHOW SOME RESPECT FOR YOU BEING HONEST WITH THEM.
--ALTHOUGH SOME OF YOU MARRIED MEN ARE VERY HANDSOME, ATTRACTIVE
AND LOOKING TO HAVE FUN, I WAN T A MAN OF MY OWN, I DON'T NEED YOUR
WIFE'S OR GIRLSFRIENDS PROBLEMS OF YOUR CRAP. I WILL NOT BE YOUR
WOMAN ON THE SIDE OR IN BETWEEN YOU WIFE'S CYCES WHEN YOU ARE NOT
GETTING IT FROM HOME OR YOU'RE HAVING PROBLEMS, SO PLEASE DON'T
LEAVE A MESSAGE IF YOU ARE INVOLVED, HAVE A PARTNER OR MARRIED.

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