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  • Member Since:

    May 08, 2008

  • Sex:

    Male

  • Dating Preference:

    Female

  • Age:

    33

  • Relationship Status:

    Single

  • Income:

    $50-75,000

  • Location:

    Fayetteville, NC

  • Race:

    Black/African American

  • Zodiac:

    Scorpio


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R. Kelly -You Saved Me - &autoplay=1


 
 THIS IS GREAT.  

 
 
 


Every man is free to rise as far as he's able or willing, but it's only the degree to which he thinks that determines the degree to which he'll rise. Thinking is easy, acting is difficult, and to put one's thoughts into action is the most difficult thing in the world.4real.

For those who have asked what is behind my name: 4REAL pretty much sums up what you get from me as a friend or more and what I expect from you in return.

4 - stands for physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual states of being. 4real

REAL - not artificial or fake, being no less that what is stated, worthy of trust, without question.

REAL RECOGNIZE REAL

 

 

NEVER NEVER LAND

I sometimes find myself in Never Never Land. Look at this pic when you play my LYFE JENNINGS selection. Its crazy but true ladies, your men sometimes do find themselves here. In NEVER NEVER LAND no one has to grow up or grow old. Look closely, can you see him.

 

HEAVEN

If all goes right we will walk through theses doors. 4real

 

 

SOMETHING TO THINK ABOUT

THERE ARE NO MISTAKES, EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON.  These are just some of the quotes that define the processes of our lives, our ups and our down, our failures and our successes.  Understanding these quotes has made me aware of three words that have propelled me to success in most aspects of my life.  These three words are insight, hindsight and foresight.  Understanding these words will allow us to accept the turbulent time in our lives and use them to grow rather the repeat them over and over again.  BLAH BLAAA BLAH I can go all day with this so I'm gonna make it short.  

INSIGHT represents all the things in our lives that we are currently going through i.e. a bad relationship, a wrong decision, going left when you should have went right.  

HINDSIGHT represents what we have learned from our insight as we look back on the situations that we were going through after we went through them. 

FORESIGHT represents using what we have learned through hindsight from our insight and using what we have learned to recognize and correct the actions or decisions that were incorrect. 

Ultimately what I am trying to say is life is not perfect.  We must accept that things will go wrong in life and that ever decision we make will not be the correct decision.  We must not be afraid to face turmoil in our live but have the courage to embrace them, learn from them and use them to ultimately improve ourselves.  

Last thought I want you to take with you is that history has showed us that if you do not learn from the past you will be forced to repeat it.  Its alright to mess-up as long as you only do it once. 

 

 ONE OF THE MOST INSPIRATIONAL PEOPLE I'VE EVER LISTENED TO.  MR LESS BROWN

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DEESA
DEESA

Female, 32, Raleigh, NC

Posted September 27, 2009


Listen in to the archives...Poetry in Motion


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Female, 28, Fayetteville, NC

Posted July 06, 2009


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Female, 26, Greensboro, NC

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Female, 30, Raleigh, NC

Posted September 26, 2008


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shantel23

Female, 30, Dalzell, SC

Posted June 25, 2008



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shantel23

Female, 30, Dalzell, SC

Posted June 22, 2008



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Female, 50, Fayetteville, NC

Posted June 20, 2008


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tsm508

Female, 39, Greensboro, NC

Posted June 08, 2008



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Female, 39, Greensboro, NC

Posted June 01, 2008





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