Some of the things i look for in a woman.. Friend or otherwise..
Before i delve into my diatribe, let me say this..I know i am going to come across as crass to some, down right rude and obnoxious to others but i like to focus on the good that is me..A good friend..loyal, the ones who knows me knows this to be true...Passionate about the things i believe..no nonsense kinda guy and a comedian :-)
I have to say this.. Because ignorance runs rampant on this site.. I was never one that tried to fit into a clique.. Or beg for a friendship..( I have alot of acquaintances but very few friends, I just dont meet someone and pin the label of " friend " on them after a month of becoming acquainted..I am one to tell you like it is..I dont mince my words..I am not going to tell you what you want to hear i am going to tell you the truth, alot of people dont deal well with that..The truth..) And I am surely not going to start at this stage of my life.. I say what I say because this is what I believe.. I dont ever force anything on another person.. So if you were to read and disagreed with what I have to say.. We can have a healthy debate about whatever that might be.. Just come at me correct.. :-)
The ignorance just dont seem to stop..
I am going to assume that maybe it`s ..Kenny Lattimore singing in the background..Rain doing a dance on my zinc roof and candles burning the reason why gay brothas feel the need to hit me up..But alas..No..This here dude is straight, so look elsewhere..
I doubt seriously that a man can change a woman that considers herself a lesbian..Same applies here..I am straight and aint no man gonna change me..
Explaining the name..I would like to think that the 6ft4 is self explanatory..
The rudebwoy you ask ?..
Jamaican men when greeting each other refers to each other as rudebwoy..It has nothing to do with being rude..As is defined in Websters Dictionary..
Saying this will get me disliked even more by some, but anyone that knows me ...knows very well i am not overly concerned about what others think about me..
But..If there is one thing i cant stand is people..( and by people i am referring to both the male and female species ) being hung up on the physical appearance of others..Why should it matter that dude is handsome and looks like Boris Kudjo..Or the woman looks like Halle Berry or whomever..
Women seeking men with washboard stomachs and they themselves have a washing machine in front of them..
Men seeking models with a perfect 10 attached to their bodies when they themselves need to go sign up at Bally`s..Now, let me say this, in no way am i bashing people of size, all i am saying is how can one put so much emphasis on another person`s physicality when they dont measure up..I just dont get it..And guess i never will..
People..looks fade..
I have learnt..
Sure it feels good to walk down the street with someone by your side that looks good, but more often than not, it`s all about showing off what you have..I will bet the woman or the man for that matter that is involved with someone that dont look all that great in their face share the same happiness that couples that are so called good looking share..Not to say one is going to go out seeking someone that resembles a gorilla but dont be so caught up in looks, you might miss a jewel..
I am a flirtatious individual by nature, i will give you a compliment and keep on moving..
Now..
Why is it that if you givea woman a compliment on this site some think that you want to sleep with them or have some other interest in them other than just extending a COMPLIMENT?
* Especially when that person lives half way across the country..I dont work for any of the major airlines.. *
I would think the response to that would be some men make it bad for others, so if that`s the case let me make this perfectly clear..
Virtual p**** does nothing for me so..
If I offer a compliment.. These are the options.. Just say " thank you " blah blah blah.. Or DELETE the note..
All I was doing was offering a compliment. Not trying to propose..
I am the father of 4 beautiful children * beautiful only because I " straightened " out their azzez when they were lil ones.. Now we are cool.. Yes.. I did type 4.. And no...I dont have 4 baby momma`s.. The 3 eldest are from a failed marriage.. Both parties are to be blamed.. But oh well..
And my youngest.. Well..I love her no less than i love the others..
Listen..
U half crazy?.. Mention that..
U full crazy?.. Mention that too..
Bipolar?.. Tripolar?.. Yup.. Mention that too..
You have done time in jail for maiming your ex?.. Yup.. That`s nice to know too..
Your ex have a gun and have done time in Federal prison?.. We wanna know that too..
Inquiring minds want to know the good and the bad too, cuzz I am damn well sure all a yall aint playing with a full deck,some a yall have water sloshing around in yall heads and acting like everybody else crazy..
Now..
Can someone elaborate on just what
" Men are intimidated by me " means?
Oh.. I think I figured it out..
You are 6`4.. Weigh 400 lbs.. Work out with World class body builders and wear a size 14 shoes?...Because that`s probably the only time that I am going to be intimidated..
I have to mention this.. I dont have a problem with a woman with some lbs on her bones.. I know how some of yall are.. More sensitive than an aroused clit..
Continuing..
While it matters not to me if a woman has A Special training.. A 2 yr degree.. A 4 yr degree.. A Masters degree...A graduate degree etc.. Why is it that people with a 10th grade education requires a man to be educated.. Have a corporate job.. Drives a nice car and owns his own home..
Now that may sound like pure ignorance to some.. But here is my point.. What does it matter how educated the person is?...I have encountered some people in my time that are way more " educated " than alot of people that has a degree.. If he makes you happy what difference does it makes if he graduated high school or college..
And why do people with a Masters education spell every other word incorrectly in their profile.. That is suspect people.. Very very
suspect.. Hhhmmm
Intelligence isn`t necessarily gained attending a place of higher learning.. With that said.. There is alot that can be said about having an education.. I just hope none of my kids ever read this portion of my profile:-)
I know my gripes may sound like I am attacking some but I really do have a very low tolerance level for bullshyt.. I welcome those that dont come with the bullshyt :-)
Do i have some issues ?...Sure I do..Which one of us dont..I have no problem admitting to them nor do I have a problem with people pointing them out..I just dont think mine are that major..
Desperation has gone through the roof and hit a new high on BP..Why do some women think that by showing their %#&@$! on this site it will lead to them quickly find themselves a man ?..A good fugg can only hold a man for so long..Is there anything else that come along with that ?..For your sake and his, have something else to offer, it makes for a better and longer lasting relationship..
Let me say this..well..I am only referring to certain females..Keep yall clothes on...Half naked pics says one thing "what i am looking for is some dyck ..Ladies, serious now, you think if you have pics on your page showing your %#&@$!, showing your size 38 DD'S..showing your legs up to where your thong begins, showing off your Brazlian wax etc etc..a man is going to have an interest in you, well other than to " bed you " ? If he says " Woman you are the woman that i have been looking for all my life " ..His azz is lying.. Well..then again, maybe not, he might just happen to be the thug dude that you have always been wanting in your life, you know, the one who has 10 different women, 7 kids, smoke weed and drink Hennyon the weekends with his boys and the only time that you count is when Jennifer has her kids for the weekend..Marcia is on the rag, Pauline is pissed off at him because he didn't show up last weekend..blah blah blah..Then he remembers you..He is coming to get all that you have to offer him..And need i say what that is ?.."
Is setting up yourself for ridicule one of the things you think about when posting those kinda pics ?..
And then yall quote scriptures from the New and the Old Testament on yall pages..
I dont get it..
Just say it..sure half naked pics are suggestive but it screams out that all you want is a fugg..Excuse my French..
No decent man..and believe me when i say this..NO DECENT MAN..will ever take you serious..Then again.. i will presume that those really aren`t seeking a decent man.
And how about we seek a friend first with the hope that the friendship you cultivate with that person leads into you two having that relationship that you have always yearned for ?
