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My favorite quotes are: "Power concedes nothing without a demand. It never did and it never will". By Frederick Douglass---AND another: "Life is much too short to allow other people to make your decisions for you" from Steve Jobs ;!

STRAIGHT BLACK MAN!! I'm looking for a sincere, publicly aggressive but romantically submissive woman. I am a manly type man and I desire a woman who can appreciate a male/female role specific relationship.Full disclosure: I did not say Master/Slave relationship, I do not beleive God made men better than nor did He make women less than but we are certainly different! --If you live your life vicariously through other people (Oprah, Michelle Obama or any other person) I will not care for your personality. If you don't know the definition of virtuous woman I don't want to know you. Also, no Divas, Queens, Cougars or Princesses need apply, I think these type of women are obssessed with insecurities, trying to recapture your lost youth, dressing like you're 16 years old. I do not want to know you because you equate getting older as being a deficit. In my opinion, getting older does not mean you've lost anything. On the contrary, it means you bring MORE  to the table, PLUS...YOU TASTE BETTER!! Unlike popular opinion, I think a cougar ain't nothing but an older HO who adamantly refuses to close her legs and become a lady! Neither has she learned that a sexual experience normally doesn't last more than 20 minutes and should not be allowed to define her life! Also, we cannot BOTH like to eat p*ssy. There is nothing that compares to a mature, refined, dignified and secure lady. That  will do me just fine, thank you very much.

If you can't stand being alone, as in by yourself, why would anyone else want to be alone with you? I don't prefer being alone but I'm fine with it. In fact, I like me far more than I like most other people. Now, that does not imply I am conceited or vacantly in love with myself. Only that I'm comfortable and secure in my own skin and have no need for outside validation. Also, if you are under 40 I am not interested in you. No offense but your brain is not done yet and I don't desire an interpersonal relationship with a young woman. We would be incompatible.

If you live in the past, still blaming how you were raised or your last relationship for the problems you have today, we would not work. If you have not learned that God only gives us one day at a time and that it is our responsibility to learn how to be happy, it does not make you a bad person but it does exclude you from being someone I'd want to know. People who carry around duffle bags (I'm a Veteran) of their past experiences and want to dump them out on every table they sit down to make me tired and do not make good company. All they do is sing that old song, poor me, poor me, pour me another damn drink! I am a firm believer that people never get over bad things that have happened to them but that they must learn to get PAST them or these bad experiences will dominate the remainder of their lives. Consequently, you will be miserable and you will make everybody you interact with miserable. I've tried misery before, I do not like misery!

Now, I'm aware that these sound like harsh things to say but that's how I feel about them. I am not interested in knowing any woman obsessed with her children's lives as opposed to being focused on her own life. Neither am I interested in looking at your grown son or daughter everyday. If your adult physically able and mentally normal son resides with you, beleive me, you already got a MAN! ANY woman who starts her profile with the sentence "My kids are my life". I believe you and that means your life is already full. Please enjoy but it is blatantly unfair to invite someone into your life when it is already dedicated to other people. I applaud you in your dedication to your children but please don't ask me to join you. My kids are OK and I love them dearly but they are certainly NOT my life! An adult realizes that kids are going to grow up (At least they are supposed to)and one day have their OWN lives and we must allow them to do so. Any woman ( worth her womanhood) will tell you that the worst kind of man to have is one who's mother is constantly involved in his life. The same holds true for fathers and daughters. Let them have their own lives! I don't want to look at my own grown children everyday and they look like ME. Children have their very important place in our lives but they certainly should not dominate our lives. I believe that a major failure for today's young people (under 35) is that their parents refuse to hold them accountable nor demand they grow up. Most parents continue to carry them as if they are uterine housed toddlers. I don't carry my own grown children and I refuse to consider carrying yours. Let them walk on their own, I aint God and I can't save them from themselves! Worse yet, most of my kids bad traits they got from mimicking my younger inmature ways. I have to live with that millstone and I'd advise you to learn to do the same.

If you notice the word straight is in all caps. That is for emphasis. I am severally allergic to men. If I spend too much time around them I start itching. So out of concern for my dermatitis I ask that no men attempt to contact me. To clarify what I mean by a man: anyone who describes himself as: A woman trapped in man's body, transvestite, cross dresser, gay man, extra happy man, bisexual man, sexually confused, down-low brother, top man, bottom man, shemale, ladyboy or secret closeted men. In short, if you were born with a pen*s, I do not want to know you. Please do not ask me ";how do you know you don't like it if you have never tried it?" I have never been shot in the head before either but I'm pretty sure I would not enjoy that. Nothing personal. I'm just FUNNY like that. It has nothing to do with the lifestyles of gay people. This is my own issue and I have no intention of dealing with it. I have 5 natural brothers, I have been allergic to men all of my life and I rather like my allergy, thank you very much. I'm absolutely positive I will die WITH this particular disease. Please do not personalize my issues.