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whats up people let me get straight to the point. im attending Northwest shoals community collge my major is all business and i have two beautiful young men whose ages are four and 18 months and i would die for them and i kill anyone who %#&@$!s with them, enough said. Everytime i turn around im being asked if i have a man and no i do not. why? because i have not found that man who loves me for me, who loves ever blemish on my body and every dent on my booty,lol, who loves my two young men as though they where his seeds who makes me euphoric or maudlin when i see him(in a good way) who makes me smile when i am sad, who makes me cry when im happy(in a good way) i want that man who has goals, i want that man who gets me to my zenith no matter where we are and will not berate me. i want that man who corroborates with me as i would do the same for him, who is not afraid to show me his gentle side,loves to read, loves poetry, and can kiss me so good that there would not be a need for makeing love and he would never have to fanticise about another woman because i will be every fantasy he will ever want...................To Be Continued.
Lessons LearnedShare by Okirie Okirie (notes) 7:39pm Wednesday, Mar 21 I believe this can apply to both men and women.... If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you any differently? Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else's man. Oh Lord!? If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs. You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street. You need time to heal between relationships............. .........there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary. Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr.. Right. Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and your always readily available to him- he takes it for granted. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others. Share this with other ladies..... You'll make someone SMILE, another RETHINK her choices, and another woman PREPARE. They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them. Pass this on to at least 10 woman and 5 men. BY THE WAY, THIS WAS WRITTEN BY A MAN, SO TAKE A HINT..............No commentsReport Facebook 2007 . . . . how many of us can relate to this Fascination Her teeth are as white as the meat of an apple Her lips are like dark ripe plums I love her. Her hair is a midnight mass, a dusky aurora. I love her. And because her skin is the brown of an oak leaf in autumn, but a softer color, i want to kiss her.-Langston Hhughes Changes Fickle comfort steals away What it knows It will not say What it can It will not do It flies from me To humor you. Capricious peace will not bind The severed nerves The jagged mind The shattered dream The loveless sleep It frolics now Within your keep. Confidence, that popinjay, Is planning now To slip away Look fast It's fading rapidly Tomorrow it returns to me.
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