When we believe we are losing control, we grab on tight. If we want to avoid pain, we hold on for dear life. When we are in fear of losing, looking bad or being abandoned we tighten our grip. When our greatest fear comes upon us, we clench our fist and teeth and close our eyes and hold on. We must learn how to let go. We have the capacity to live through any adversity if we simply let it go. We can not stop time or destiny. Whatever is going to happen has already happened; we must learn how... (continue reading)
Wherever you are in your heart and mind at the onset of a relationship is where you will be at the end. Whatever you bring to the start of the relationship is what you will have to clean up in the end. You can not begin a relationship in dishonesty and deceit and have hope to experience an honest end. If you run into a relationship to get away from another, you will run into another to get away from this one. If you enter a relationship in fear, anger or grief, you stand a chance of finding... (continue reading)
