Born and raised in CHICAGO, IL yet I have been down in HOTLANTA for 16 years... Normal, sane, giant sized (6'6, really)man, solid but working on gettin' fine again, SELF EMPLOYED(no, I don't sell drugs), don't smoke, don't drink, no kids, no tattoos, fresh breath(that's important)NORMAL cool peeps...Workin' 2 be DEBT-FREE(I know, it's a fantasy, dang gov't!)... Recently DIVORCED(Feb 08) & NOT LOOKING 2 JUMP IN2 ANYTHING SERIOUS RIGHT AWAY & no I ain't bitter or angry either...I want to BREATHE 4 a min..I got a Bernie Mac, Katt Williams, W. E. B Du BOIS, REV JEREMIAH WRIGHT, MALCOLM X, Marcus Garvey, Tavis Smiley, Michael Eric Dyson MINDSET... DOMINANT personality, but believe in working as a team.. NOT A FOLLOWER.. FOCUSED & ON MY GRIND...I DO NOT live at home with my parents, no roomies, NOR do I want to move in2 ur house, NOR do I want your monies, NOR do I want your ride... I TAKE CARE OF ME & NOT LOOKING 4 A FEMALE 4 the HOOKUP... Straight shooter... Not a thug, not a nerd, not mentally or physically abusive, nor a HO(but I am a stud), not going through a midlife crisis, I AM SIMPLY A NORMAL REAL DUDE..
U can also hit me up on Myspace http://www.myspace.com/forevab lack OR Hi5 http://www.hi5.com/friend/prof ile/displaySameProfile.do?user id=34083073 OR Yahoo IM awdayum
Ok for SOME of the women on BP:
1.If U R one of these women who is concerned with the amount of women on a man's page, then please keep it movin..I am only interested in befriending confident strong minded high self esteem havin' women...
2.If U R angry with your baby daddy or ex, take it out on them, not the next man...ORRRRRRRRR if U R bitter/angry cuz of PAST relationships with men and U R determined to treat every other man like shyt, then move to the next profile..
3.I meet more women who quick to say they can`t meet any `GOOD` men & they know they are a 'GOOD' woman...Major clue here, WAIT til someone ELSE determines U R a 'GOOD' woman be4 U TELL THE WORLD that U R a 'GOOD' woman..Always remember it must be something about YOU that keeps attracting these so called `BAD` men...
4.If a man sends U a note and U don`t want to be bothered, real simple DO NOT RESPOND. MOST men will take the hint and leave U alone.
5.If I asked U 2 B on my friendlist, that means I am looking at U as a 'FRIEND 1st and 4most'! Now as a FRIEND be brutally HONEST & FORTHCOMING bout ur life...Nobody is looking 4 love online, but don't HIDE IMPORTANT aspects 2 ur life.(i.e.- kids, hubby/cutt buddy/maintanence man, any mental problems, drug problems)
6.I AIN`T horny, desperate, or lonely, nor am I gay or on the DL, no I ain`t a playa, nor am I online lookin` 4 booty, I do have a life, & nor is there anything wrong with me...Don`t be so judgemental when U meet a man online...That`s real..Now`s what your story! .
7. I am NOT here to impress U with my command of the English language or THESAURUS, nor will I be speaking ghetto fabulous...We all express ourselves in the manner in which we are comfortable with at the time. So don't be quick 2 judge someone based on their means of 'expression' ONLINE...If U R REAL, then U know how to express urself PROFESSIONALLY, PUBLICLY, & PRIVATELY or in ANY situation...
8. I am Not in2 alternative 'lifestyles' (i. E.- Swinging, Orgys, BDSM, WitchCraft(Wiccan), Voodoo, Amway, MLMs, Noni & Monavie Juices, Bi-sexuality, Beastility, Foot Fetishes..
9. MEN are VISUAL CREATURES! So yes while U may have a fabulous personality, witty, got a great sense of humor, got yo sh*t 2gether(job, career, educated), mentally strong and tough, REAL MEN still want to see what U look & are built like...That's REAL TALK! If a MAN does not notice or mentions ur looks, build, & curves AT ALL, then he's either gay, fronting, or faking the funk...By NATURE MEN will ALWAYS NOTICE ur LOOKS and BODY FIRST!! So can dat B.S. U only want men loving U 4 ur mind..Cuz trust me NO MAN will be telling U daily that ur mind is beautiful..br />
10. Ok if U R beautiful, fine azz hell, been gorgeous all ur life and have been used to men telling U what U want to hear, have men catering 2 ur oversensitive ego, or used to men being SUBMISSIVE 2 U, then PLEASE move on 2 the next sukka..
Now if U R REAL, HAVE SELF-CONFIDENCE, NOT LACKING SELF-ESTEEM, AIN'T ON NO DRAMA SHYT, U R HAPPY, NO HIDDEN AGENDA, Str8 4ward, NO BULLSHYT, & SANE , then holla at a brotha....
NO IMs PLEASE!! I prefer NOTES
