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  • Sex:

    Female

  • Dating Preference:

    Male

  • Last Login:

    August 12, 2009

  • Education:

    Bachelor's Degree

  • Location:

    Chicago, IL

  • Race:

    Black/African American

  • Zodiac:

    Capricorn


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SLowly Surely I walked away from... Other peoples Ideas and expectations of who I should be. I want to thank you for stopping by and welcome you to my page. I have to say I have lived a good life. I have seen alot yet there is so much more I want to experinece. I used to think I was living a good life because I did what others expected of me. The Christians said ... "You have to give us all your money and have children in wedlock" Today the results of that is... I am still broke and divorced. Now a single mother of 3 Beautiful children. My mom said... " Dont go into the military if you die they wont ship your body back to me. Go to college" Today the results of those words of advise... I have a degree but no job in my chosen field yet. I have tons of student loans and I am finally joining the military after 20 years of wishing I could. My family said... " I should follow in their foot steps in corporate america where they are modern day slaves. Today I say I would much rather clean houses as a small business owner than punch a clock. I say all of this to share with you. The life you have been given is a good one. Filled with ups and downs promises and disappointments but it is yours. Make the most of it. DO YOU as Russell Simmons said ( by the way is a good book read it),. This life you have been blessed with will fade quickly and you will miss out on your most memorable moments if you march to the beat of someone elses drum. From now on I will be me. Beautiful,chocolate, intellegent, frisky, determined, hard headed, learned, sexy seductive, modest, silly, wise me. Take it or leave it. Fellas if I dont fit your idea of beauty you are better off with the next woman. I wont change what I cant change. .

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Life is beautiful!!!

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This thing we call life is so gorgeous!!! It is awesome and is Filled with many unexpectant moments that can either be apprecitated or detested. Today I choose to appreciate. Why? I am stronger and I am better I am happy I love God and I know he loves me. I have had quite a year. Ups and downs. heart breaks and disappointments and yet through it all I have learned to appreciate who I am, What I was created to be, and who I am destined to become. My children beautiful my life wonderful. I am... (continue reading)

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Reality Check

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I thought I had finally found my way back home. I thought I had found the love I was missing and learned he was missing me. Disillusioned? I might have been. I know I had to have been. Now, I know for sure he was not the one either. You ever stop seeing someone because you thought they were not into you? You tried to be everything they wanted and realized it was not you so you started being yourself and they loved you but now you see you dont love them as you thought you did. I met up again when... (continue reading)

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God will place good people on your path,

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Since I have been back I have to say it has not been so bad. The weather is not the greatest but we have had some good days. There are some things I need to do to move forward but I am on Track. I still cant see myself here forever. I ran into an old friend actually a few old friends. I did not reallize how many good people I knew here and they were all happy to see me. Especailly the special one. That man I was stuck on. You know the evil one used to ask why I did not pursue this guy. I really... (continue reading)

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