Why are people so afraid to admit that they want to be in love? People are so afraid of giving themselves selflessly to another that they build these impenetrable walls. Who are you hurting? Only yourself. By not letting anyone in you will never know the joys that love can bring. Yes, there are times when there will be pain when it comes to love; but the joy outweighs it all.
Everyone wants a NSA relationship. Are there not strings attached regardless? Once you let someone into your... (continue reading)
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It's me...Alecia J.. I have no sexually suggestive screen name to offer you, such as "LicMeAllOva", "SupaDupaHead" or "CumBackKitty". My true name is simply Alecia J. My page is for the Adult & Amorous. I have no exotic blends to speak of. I am a Nubian Goddess who loves her brown skin. If the choice were offered to me, I would still come back as a sista. The struggle that comes with my skin is a blessing and a source of strength. Give me my beautiful brown skin or make me a colorful butterfly..
I know many of you don't have time to read a long, drawn out bio...so let me KISS (Keep It Simply Sexy) you with some basics:
* I am a proud single parent. I have a wonderful, remarkable, teenage son and I also raised my extraodinary, uber talented, truly intelligent, little sister.
* I enjoy reading, writing, drawing and photography. I am an artsy chic. I currently write erotic poetry and short stories. Feel free to check out my naughty poetry at aleciaj.blogspot.com You can also read some of my rants and raves in my blog on here (at your own risk!)
* I have an EXCELLENT sense of humor!!!! Inquire within regarding my "Keep You Smiling" guarantee. I love to laugh and make others smile. I would like to add; I am a friendly person. I will speak to anyone. Friendship does not have a "look". I am the least superficial person I know. This to say, you see that hit counter? Probably five of those folks had the courage to speak. I don't bite (unless asked) so please speak! Also, please do not send me your telephone number in a note. I won't call someone unsolicited.
* Your mom will adore me, Dad will love me...Grandma will say you are crazy if you don't snatch this one up! Granddaddy will wish he was just a few years younger (LOL)
* Dub me sophisticated with a dash of ghetto. Yes, I can admit that. I can get dressed up and will feel very comfortable at any function. I keep myself updated with current events (I refuse to be in the dark). I can engage you in conversation about anything under the sun. If I don't know about it, I am not ashamed to ask questions or take the time to find out. You can also catch me on the weekends and invite me to Pookie and Nems bar-b-que and I won't be out of place. I can and will adjust to my environment and STILL keep being ME in tact.
* I am a BIG girl. Thick is so overused. I am 5ft and 5 1/2in. (I wear heels so I may appear to be taller) and a size 16 in jeans, 38D bra, 8 to 9 panty. I know the numbers are throwing some men off. But dammit I am shapely! Just wanting you to know I AM NOT PETITE. If you are not into big/thickey thick girls then you may want to push on quickly. We all have our preferences and I am not mad at ya!
* I am originally from Brooklyn, NY (home of the first black folks...not Africa as you thought, lol). Moved to Augusta, GA as a teen, have lived in Columbia, SC for five years. Basically, I have a pretty effed up accent (lol).
* Sometimes my light is on but I am not actually here. So don't take it personal if I don't accept your IM request or reply to a note immediately. If you send me a friends request and nothing else, I more than likely won't even look at it. LOL. I mean, I am not trying to just say I have 1000 friends and don't know who da hell ya be.
* I am not on here patrolling for booty. Also, I am not one of these chics that hand my number to Tom,Dick and Harry. To the heartbreakers, self-proclaimed "Playas" and the love em and leave ems; SPARE ME.
*I want to meet people from all over! A road trip is nothing to me. So feel free to leave me a message. Don't let distance hinder you from making a wonderful friend
