All_grown-up looking to make friend inbox me this for all the queens out there :) - November 18, 2011 add/view comments (0) |
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.whats up blackplanet im old to this site lookin to build something real. let me tell yall a little bit about my self.....IM 30yrs old from longisland new york have great heart and soul laid back guy with a big heart that stand at 5"7 145 pds i dont ask for much but resepct and understanding. im single just waiting for the man up stairs to bring the right in one my life. because times have change now these days u dont no who is who and good relationships is hard to come by in the world we live in .it its very sad that people cant see at the end of the day everybody needs to be love no matter how u look. because it seem like whats going on now these days people are look for looks and what u can do for them. what ever happin to it being from the HEART? the times has realy change from then to now were is the real love and respct. when are people going to love they self to the point they can love others . love is not a game and hearts shouldnt be played with because there still some people out there that have feelings and who realy wants somebody in there life thats going to realy love them for there realy are only god could judge us people!
i guess only thing people want to do is judge ur pics and not read were u coming from or try to get 2 know the real you........ well to keep it 100% im not up here for the b.s or some games i love myself and have alot of love to give why because i have a good heart i know its the internet but you never know what u can bump into on here but its like people on here wanna judge not saying everybody and dont think about at the end of the day everybody need somebody :) sometime i wish things was like the 90s when u could right a love letter..... when it wasnet about what a person could do for you it was about making each other happy and making ends meet together being 50% 50% wow this world then turned up side down with all the mess thats going around now its sad just remeber in life everybody not bad there are still good people out there u just need to try and understand them and give them a chance and stop walking pass or making up a reason why u cant deal with it because its not what u used to meaning ur pass what other did and treated u wrong... I WANNA SHOW THE REAL SINGLE FEMALES OUT THERE THATS GOOD AND REAL SOME TRU LOVE THE WAY I SHOULD COME FROM A REAL MAN........ ONE LOVE girls out there for you me!
Believe me most girls go through a phase of liking the bad boy. But once you've been hurt by a couple of them the fun sorta disappears and you endlessly search for that nice guy! Theres many girls that will like you as much as theirs many girls that prefer badboys. Its all about finding her! Women dont enjoy being treated badly at all, they like to think their badboy would never hurt them and they can save them from their wild life and live happily ever after. But it doesnt happen that way. Bad boys are cowards that hide behind an arrogant exterior, get what they want from a woman then leave. And they leave a trail of destruction as they go as well. I'm sure theres alot of
So what do women want? Ideally, they want a guy who falls in the middle ground - is nice, sweet, caring, but also is confident, independent, etc. When women say "Nice guys are hard to find", they are talking about the middle ground guys, who admittedly are a bit rarer than your average nice guy/jerk. Oftentimes, if they can't find that middle ground guy, they'll work on averages...get their physical needs from the extreme right, their emotional from the extreme left, and that will give her a middle ground of sorts. Or, women will start from the extreme right, the jerk end, and then try to bring the guy down to middle ground by "changing" him. They start on that end because that is what is attractive to them.
Have you ever heard woman say I just want a nice guy and then watched in disappointment and she do the OPPOSITE and dating a bad boy, a jerk or a guy who treat her bad? Are women LYING when they claim to want a nice guy? When woman says it . However most guys confuse nice guy with being really, really nice to a woman and that's where the problems begin and why nice guys finish last.
Drop the games. Nobody likes a partner who plays "head games". This is deceptive, and will hurt anybody who trusts you. Be real, don't play games, and good men will respect you and may even pursue you. Playing head games will only make good men run away. Remember the communication thing? That is especially true here. If you like a guy, don't push him away and act like you don't like him. Tell him. Yes, there are some men who do like the thrill of the chase, but all good men genuinely want to respect you and your wishes, and will leave you alone if you insist on it. Remember, men communicatedirectly, if you act like you don't want him, he'll think you don't want him.
.The joys and pains of relationships are never as pronounced as during Holiday periods. With Thanksgiving and Christmas fast approaching, use these seven steps as building blocks to strengthen your relationships. You'll have a more satisfying and joyous Holiday period, and so will those close to you.
Commitment Freedom Respect Support Equality Healthy conflict resolution Trust its unhealthy with out thoses .so in life watch how pick ur soul mate..
allways be urslf Leave acting out of your relationship. It's important for each of you to be dealing with the real you and not a make believe person. This sounds very simple but it is amazing how many people are playing games in their relationships. They may be acting like they don't care about certain things when they are really bothered. Or, they may be indicating that they care very much when they really don't. Both of these are dishonest and can cause problems for a relationship in the long run..
The Real You Let you partner know the real you. It is the only thing that makes sense. It is difficult to keep up a role and in time you will drop the role and the real you will immerge. When that happens it could confuse your partner and even cause him or her to end the relationship. Help your relationship to last by being real at all times. It may not always be pleasant but once things are worked out it will be better for both of you. It's good to do things to please your partner and fine if those things involve a change in you, as long as the change is real and not an act. Keep it real and stay happy and healthy    ... MY SON TO THE LEFT ME TO THE RIGHT .
why do people judge others?
whether we like to admit it or not, people usually dra conclusions about a person from their looks. this affects how people treat each other. people often judge or misperceive other people's appearances in a less then equal manner before they even know the true nature of tht person. every day people make assumptions by what others can see physically. people judges others because of the way they dress ,the language that they use ,the type of job they have , their physical looks, the type or car they drive or the way they dress. however, in most cases, you may be making judgments about someone without even knowing a person at all, its wrong to judge someone because one can realy hurt someone's feelings or it may back fire on you and you may be the one to end up getting hurt. the worst part about judging someone is the fact that most people's judgments are wrong, considering most people judge in negative manor.
WHY IS IT THAT DISRESPCTFUL PEOPLE GET THEY WAY AND WHAT THEY WANT IN LIFE?? BUT SOMEONE WITH RESPCT GET THE RUN AROUND AND THE SHIT END OF THE DEAL CAN SOME TELL ME Y????????????????????????? |
