Never under estimate the power of a Black
woman!!!
Listening to jazz
(especially the saxophone) and reading a great novel is
one of my past times. I enjoy the simple things in life. No stress
- no mess.
Listening to jazz (especially the saxophone) and
reading a great novel is one of my past times. I enjoy the simple
things in life. No stress - no mess...
If you are a Strong Black man who is intelligent
and ready for stimulating conversation and who has flavor and style
drop me a note or if you are daring come visit my Saxxy Guestbook
and by all means sign in and speak your mind. I promise I will
return the favor and sign your guestbook with a little flavor.
Keep it positive and keep it real!!
You only live once - but if you work it right once is enough.
In every relationship, friendship or marriage you have to keep
things fresh and new...
There will come a time in your life when all you can do is love.
You will have done all you can do, tried all you can try, hurt all
you can hurt, given up so many times that love will be the only way
out. That day will surely come. You cannot make someone love you -
all you can do is to be someone who can be loved - the rest is up
to them.
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The following is a passage from one of my favorite books "In the
Meantime" by Iyanla Vanzant:
~~Love and Relationships ~~
"Trusting yourself and honoring what you feel is not selfish. It is
the most self-loving thing you can do. This does not mean you
become insensitive to others or that you use others to get what you
need and want. Trusting, honoring, and loving yourself means
recognizing that you have a right to be happy. At the same time,
honoring yourself enables you to support and assist others without
anger, resentment, or obligation. You do it in love because you
want to do it. This is what relationships are meant to do, provide
us with structure in which we support and assist one another in
finding and sharing happiness. It is a MUTUAL support system, not a
CRUTCH".
So my brothers and sisters, if you have just recently ended a
relationship and it did not turn out the way you wanted, don`t beat
yourself up. Think of these relationships as your "meantime"
relationships because you will go through a lot of these "meantime"
relationships until you find "the
one".
Let the journey begin!!
Learn, grow and move
on.........................> ;>>>
Peace and Saxxy Luv to you
