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Well Im back from Iraq and not in a casket thank you lord. If you're interested in knowing who I am, here ya go. I'm Dark brown Skin Tone, 5;7 Black Curly hair, dark brown eyes, Stocky Not a fat boy. I'm a single parent, Pisces, 44 Years old, (Yes Old Man) I have a son 9 year old son. Love to dress nice, hats, suits, nice shoes. I do club sometimes, but not often. Prefer house parties, anybody out there that knows me knows how the house parties at my house go down, LOL. If I do go out, and walk in the club and the guys are wearing the same %#&@$! they had on all day I.E. Long white T's, Baggy jeans, Air force 1's, then I have to exit because that's not my type of club. Grown and sexy only put on some dam clothes lol. I'm painfully honest, don't believe in lies, why tell lies. I think a person should be 100 no matter what. Tell your spouse, sex partner, whatever, the truth. The truth to me is sexy it shows confidence in yourself even if you were wrong. To be totally honest that %#&@$! turns me own and that's real. I love a woman that can be real at all times even if it hurts. If she's honest I'm not going anywhere. Tell a lie I'm out the door. That trait almost seems impossible in 2010. I love for my woman to look good when we go out. No such thing as overdressed in my eyes. I'm not a jealous man. I'm very confident in myself. I love when other men look at my women, she is with me. Don't want anything that no one else wants to look at. Show the cleavage; Show the legs, the tight jeans, Phat booty lol I love it. Oh yea My favorite I sexy sista in a Wife Beater DAMMMMM!!! Don't bragg on myself because everything that I have accomplished was not on my own it was through GOD. It can all be taken away tomorrow. But at this point of my life he has blessed me, If I ever get the privilege of being a part of your life as a friend or more, I will be there not to bring you down but encourage you and bring something to the table. I'm sure you can do badly by yourself. There are several good and bad points about me. OK First I will give you the good points. I am well-mannered, smart but not a genius, wild but not crazy, confident not arrogant, cool not cocky, rough but gentle, hesitant but never scared, loved by all, Sensitive but far from a punk, Want to save the world, But cant and unfortunately people take my kindness (Softhearted) as a weakness. Far from weak. When they do that they get the side that I don't like to show, Realizes and appreciate a good woman. This is while she around not when she's gone.!!!, Hard Worker, But play hard, Funny, compassionate, loving (sometimes too hard), loyal, helpful, sympathetic, accepting of others, I can admit when I am wrong, good at compromising, and emotional, I do not hold grudges. While I know everyone needs time to heal, I am a true believer that a hard heart hinders you from growth. Count your loses and move on. Learn from your disappointments. I'm a good listener and only offer my advice if I'm asked. I'm always trying to think of ways to be more successful, But still happy for what I do have now. Now for my bad points. I have a smart mouth, sarcastic, nosey (I call it seeking clarification), I'm very opinionated, emotional and moody (at times). I can have a high dose of self esteem at times and like anyone else, I can be insecure at times. And I work to dam much. One of my young soldiers talk to me the other day, he is going through problems with his girl. It's rough on a soldier to continue a relationship when we are always away trying to save the world and we can't save our dam relationships sad. But anyway back to what I was saying. He said his girl asked him how does he define love and he didn't have the answer. I thought for a minute and asked him did he consider love as a emotion or a act? Well he thought and said an emotion. Now that's the answer most of us would reply with. I said to him that I think it's more of a act. Let me explain. When you love someone you can tell them all day but unless you show them, act upon it they really don't feel loved. IE opening doors calling them on your lunch or texting just saying I'm thinking about you, Putting their feelings first, buying a outfit because you seen it and said he or she would look good in this. Cooking dinner and running there bath water, lighting candles, dropping rose peddles and burning incense. ETC., ETC. these are some of the actions that shows love. Its not what we say to that person. If there are no actions behind what we say I think you just care about that person you don't really love them. but hey that's just my opinion. I am Strong. I am handsome because I know and accept my flaws. I am a lover because I am a fighter. I am fearless because I have been afraid. I am wise because I have been foolish and I laugh because I have known sadness. Author unknown. I have no problem meeting women I just like to network. I'm a successful black business man, a single parent, and a soldier. I lived In Harlem New York, Nurnberg, Germany, Naples, Italy, Ft Lee Virginia, Fort Campbell Kentucky, and Fort Leonard Wood MS. I currently live in Winston Salem, NC. I' would say that I'm a little different than most guys, not saying I'm better, just different. I'm not into watching sports all day on TV. I'd rather been doing something constructive.