AnuZena God is so Good to me!! - June 13, 2011 add/view comments (0)

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Please don`t just drop by to look at the pics (although that is what most of you all do anyway)...learn a little bit about the person on/in the pictures...what I have to say might be a little long but you might find it interesting and maybe even a lil funny.

I have had people ask "Where did you get that name from"?...and I say you remember that show on WB called Xena Warrior Princess...well that is where I got the name or idea...wanted something different and not freaky...and at the same time a name that might grab people's attention

AnuZena is a strong, beautiful, ambitious, intelligent black sista that knows how to handle and take care of hers. I am currently a part-time student, a full-time employee along with a part-time job. Living in the metroplitan area, you gotta have some sort of side hustle. I am basically a down to earth sista who likes to chill and have fun but at the same time tryin to make that money and get an education. I don`t know about ya`ll but money motivates me. Now what I want to be and what to do, I`m not so sure of right now. I want to do so many things and accomplish so many goals and put all these crazy ideas in my head out there. I don`t think you all want to know how many times I have switch my major and have gotten bored with jobs. I just want to do something that I enjoy but still be able to live the lifestyle I have grown to love. Feel me??

I know that you could probably care less and this makes one less question for you to ask but the following are:

Things that I like to do in my spare time:


Read, skate, bowl, travel, talking on the phone, going to comedy shows, plays, concerts, visit museums, and the movies. I also like watching and going to basketball and football games. I love going to baseball games, it is so much better to watch them in the stadium then on the TV. I also like to go putt-putt golfing, go-cart racing and street car racing.

I like all kinds of music to many artists to name.

Best feelings in the world:

Being in the presence of the Lord (Despite of what you might read on the rest of the page, I was born and raised in the church and I have slacked off in the past (who hasn't at some point?) but I hope to do better in the 08) Taking a long awaited dump that makes you feel 5lbs lighter (Okay so I know this might turn some people off but its the truth and you know you would have to agree...I'm just keeping it real) Spending other people's money (At least for me...lol...I don't mind spending my hard earned money, but when someone else offers to spend theirs instead, I am all for it...lol) Having that orgasm that you couldn't hold back no longer
I am on here looking to network with other people (lets put our heads together and help each other) this is how businesses grow and people become known (word of mouth) and to meet new friends who have good convo...I say this because my turn-ons and turn-offs below are for entertainment purposes only...if you so happen to think that you meet all of my turn-ons feel free to send a sista a note and we will go from there...Other than that I am not "looking" for a man...we straight?? cool...


Things that turn me on about men:


-when they smell good (When a man finds a cologne that matches his body chemistry (Oh my God, ain`t nothin like it.

-when they have nice teeth (I always acknowledge guys with a nice smile)

-when a guy has a great personality (I cannot stress enough, how important personality is to me)
-when a guy has good convo (Once a sista gets started I can talk(lol) and I would like to talk to someone who has input and is able to keep up with the conversation (Silence is only good @ certain times)

-when a guy is dressed well ( I`m not saying that he has to have the best of clothes or everything has to be named brand, just as long as he is matching and his clothes aren't wrinkled) I feel that appearance is very important. It shows me how much you care about yourself. Like I hate to see men that looked like they got dressed in the dark or got their clothes out of the dirty clothes hamper.

-when there hair looks nice or clean (Whether he just got a fresh haircut with a shape up or a fresh bald head or when the hair is nicely twisted/dreaded or even when the hair is freshly braided it just makes them look neater, I don`t know I just personally find it attractive)

-when a guy is confident with himself (This sista right here can't deal with a man who is "overly insecure" because he probably will have trust issues and whoever I am with I need the trust to be mutual...feel me?)
-groomed facial hair (I love facial hair but if you don`t have it it`s cool...some men look better without it.

-Honesty (I don`t know its just something about a real brotha that don`t have no cut cards and just tells it like it is...even though tactfulness is better in some situations)

-when a man is intelligent ( When I find out that a guy is in school trying to do something with himself whether it is college, trade school, or technolgy school I find that wonderful) I don`t mind learning from someone else especially a smart man who knows what he`s talking about.

-a true gentlemen (ain`t nothin like it when a man treats a women like she`s supposed to be treated)

-when a man loves God (I know that everybody doesn`t believe in God but I do and when I see that a guy loves God as much as I do, that is the biggest turn on)

-Last but not least a man who is physically fit ( Now I`m not saying that you have to be all muscle bound or anything just basically toned) But what I am saying is that if a sista is working out 2 to 3 times a week trying to keep in shape to look good for you or yall, I think that you can do the same thing.


Things that turn me off about men:

-basically the opposites above

-Fronting (Why front when we don`t even know each other??? Just be yourselfand keep it real)

-when a guy has a bad personality

-Bad hygiene (ex. dirty clothes, bad stank %#&@$! breath, funky crusty feet, excess tarter on teeth, etc.)

-too many Tatoos and piercings(If you have over 5 tatoos I think that that is to many...why mark up your body and be regretting it @ 60 tryin to laser surgery to have them taken off and more than one hole in both ears is a little to much for me)

-No goals (How are you supposed to succeed in life with no goals or dreams to strive for??)

-A bad grill (Having a bad grill is usually a big turn-off for women. if you have a bad grill and you have the money to get them fixed....you should....that`s just my opinion/advice....if you don`t then don`t worry about it...Also, I`m really not feelin the gold and platinum teeth either...I could really care less about how much you paid for them....If you have money like that spend it on something worth having or invest it...this is just my opinion)

-Scruffiness (If that is even a word...lol) It's okay sometimes, because everybody has some lazy or bad days...but when your everyday look is being scruffy, that is a problem for me. Now don't get me wrong , some men can get away with it because it fits them and their look, but for most men it makes them look like they are homeless.
-Talking about SEX (Now don't get me wrong I probably think about sex as much as the average man, but please don't let THAT be the topic of our first conversation. We will talk about favorite positions and what I am open to in due time. I know you have to have something else to talk about...)
-Ex-Girlfriend Residue (meaning don't try to holla if all you gonna talk about is your ex-girlfriend, or you still have feelings for her. Now if you just need somebody to talk or vent to, I can be here to listen, but what do I look like getting with a guy who is not over his Ex?)
-First Dates (When a guy wants the first date to be him cooking dinner and me coming over to HIS place to eat...now thanks for the effort of cooking for me, but that comes later on down the line...at least in my view...)
-Smoking (Sorry just can`t get with it) I don`t smoke and never have (just never really had a desire to, plus I was afraid that I might like it, so I just stayed away from it) Cigarettes are horrible all the way around, Marijuana make your clothes, face and hair stink...And Black & Milds I don`t care what flavor make your breathe smell like %#&@$!.

-the intoxication of too much alcohol on a regular basis (Can someone say ALCOHOLIC!!)
-Cheap brotha`s (not selfish but cheap there is a difference but the two combined is a sin...enough said)


I Noticed...


During the past few years of me dating I have noticed that men are selfish...and to a point there is absolutely nothing wrong with being that way...I`ll admit I`m a little selfish myself, that`s probably why I don`t have any kids right now...because with kids you can`t be selfish...once you have one, it is no longer about you, it is about them...sorry got off track...back to what I was saying...yeah so to a point its nothing wrong with a man being selfish...and I am saying this because if you are reading this I just want to let you know that I could care less what type of car you drive, how much money you make, or where you live...cuz for real just because you have a nice ride that you to took the time to save money to get doesn`t mean you gonna let me drive it...riding in the passenger seat of a nice car is cool, but it would still be cool if it was a bucket long as we get where we can get SAFELY...just because you make a lot of money does not mean you are going to spend it on me or pay my bills (right?)...and this is why I have 2 jobs...and if you got your own house or apartment that is great, but its not mine and it doesn`t mean that you are tryin to let a sista move in or be up under you all the time...if you live with your parents that`s cool...but if you over 30 and you are: not in school, not separated, don`t have a kid, not saving for a house and your parents are not sick (mentally or physically)...then there`s a problem. Basically what I am saying is that you don`t have to worry about me coming off the first date or the tenth, with my hand out...Just like you would like a woman to plan a nice date to take you out a sista likes the same...

Little Advice for the Ladies


-If a guy has taken you out (I mean really have treated you like you supposed to be treated) 3 times or more...Its time to treat him for a change (besides his birthday)...if you have the money, take him to a sports event, out to dinner, to a concert, play or comedy club...or surprise him with a weekend getaway...if you don't have money...offer a full-body massage, cook him dinner, run his bath water offer to wash his clothes or his car and one day actually listen to him (especially if he is one of those men that like to hear themselves talk)...LOL


-Also when a man has taken you out to a nice resturant and he is paying, you are supposed to cover the tip...if you don`t already know. Regardless whether he`s paying with plastic at least offer.

- Compliment the man you are dating at the time. Men love to get compliments because the majority of them (not all) have gone out of their way to impress us, let them know that you noticed. It doesn't have to be a material compliment like car, house, or jewelry...you could compliment on their cologne, or their hair cut, cuz you know men be real sensitive about their shape-ups...lol


These three pieces of advice that I have shared should definitely win you some cool points...lol


Things That I Want To Learn To Do:


Ride a motorcycle (I don`t know I just think that it would look real sexy if I have on a leather jacket and pants with some heals riding a bike...lol...plus I heard its a rush)


Drive a stick (For some reason it seems that guys are so amazed by women who drive sticks)


Play pool (I tell you a sista sucks at pool...if I could just hold that stick right...I might be able to win some money for a change...lol)


There are other things that I want to learn but I cant think of them right now.


The Last Little things about me:


I have the type of personality that I can basically get along with anybody except for overly conceited people. I also love to talk and hang with people who have a good sense of humor, I`m always ready for a good laugh. I`m single, have been for a while and I don`t have any kids. Well I really don`t know what else to say, so if you like to know more about AnuZena just send me a note or I`d really appreciate if you sign my guestbook. Thanks and God Bless

Feel Free to IM me, I am very easy to talk to... just don't come to me with no bull%#&@$!...have some decent conversation...Thanks

Although I refused to get a myspace page because it is crackspace you can see more pics of me there
www.myspace.com/beautynsideand out

Kalydoscope4U@yahoo
TastyCaramel81@aol

Its been real...Holla @ your girl

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