I was reading an article today about how as a parent you should have the "sex talk" with your children at an early age. That got me to thinking: How the hell do you have a sex talk with your kids that you probably never had yourself??!! I wonder how many people in this world (or on Blackplanet) had parents who sat them down and went over what we use to call 'the birds and the bees"??? Please feel free to comment. I know i never got the talk...I learned it the old fashion way...through trials and... (continue reading)

I will never understand how out of the billions and billions of people on this earth, one cannot find their soulmate, the one, Mr./Mrs. Right, etc. You think it would be easy given the demographics on earth. Yet the person that you're meant to be with or share the rest of your life with still eludes some (even myself) to this day. You make up to break up over and over again until you get to the point where you're burned out. Is this what God had planned when he introduced the concept of LOVE to... (continue reading)

A friend and I were having a debate over whether males get lonely and if they like cuddling. As a man secure in his masculinity, I'll say I don't mind cuddling with my girl. I actually enjoy and am NOT afraid to admit it. But do we as a society have such a stigmatism against a man showing an affectionate side that we prevent men from showing their emotions?? What's your two cents?