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A Few BAD Men


I recently had a heated discussion with what I39;m going to call an Angry Black Man in one of the groups on BlackPlanet that I belong to. Believe it or not it started after I sent my heartfelt condolences to the entire Black Community in reference to the passing of MLK39;s daughter, Yolanda. I39;ll probably post a synopsis of that exchange here in the future, however my inneranger at that exchange led me to this He started spewing to the effect of what do u as a white man know about how... (continue reading)

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11/15/07 - I may be somewhat redundant here, but I'm going to add some new knowledge and insights I've gained over these past few months of active particiapation on BlackPlanet.
I'm going to keep what I already have because for the most part I like it and am not up for a COMPLETE rewrite, yet I want to update what I have....
-----------> I know that people are people and I know that every woman and every man essentially goes thru the same thoughts, desires, aspirations, wants, needs, pain and pleasure. There *is* only one race which of course is the HUMAN RACE... but unfortunately for the world today, many whites from days gone bye haven't felt that way. Yes I know there are still some that feel that way, but the percentage of prejudiced and racial WHITE people today I would ponder is 75% or more percent less than there were just 25 years ago!
Now to be honest I'm kinda pulling those numbers out of thin air, but I don't think I'm too far off in my estimation; and if I'm even remotely corect a 75% improvement in just 25 years... ain't too bad.
Now a certain relatively small percentage of black folks on here - similarly - automatically dislike, distrust and take ofense to me - just, because of the color of MY skin, and the way I look at it is they automatically see me as the "enemy" even though I've never done anything negative, wrong or unjust to any black/African person anywhere, but all they see is the color of my skin.
Whether its a white person disliking/distrusting blacks, or vice-versa its the SAME BASIC EMOTIONS AND THOUGHT PROCESSES!!!!!
A saying I made up a month or so ago: "Colors are not inherently bad - only people can be!" 
The world is becoming a better place each and every day... and every day an IGNORANT OR RACIST white or black person "passes on" the world becomes that much better! 
Thats all for now....
Out/In (repeat ;-)) Etc.
Opposites Attract... are complementary, and "fit" together

****************************** ****************************** ********** "Before slavery, black and white were just colors. Why is it that slavery is over and colors still define us??? I long for the day when men are known by the quality of their character and not by the quantity of their melanin." ****************************** ****************************** **********
To ME, a Woman, regardless of her color, is an amazing creature. From what she "goes thru" just being a Female, to what she's capable of if shes treated and appreciated properly...


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Great posting I saw on another Blog: A white woman, about 50 years old, was seated next to a black man. Obviously disturbed by this, she called the air hostess. "Madam, what is the matter," the hostess asked. "You obviously do not see it then?" she responded. "You placed me next to a black man. I do not agree to sit next to someone from such a repugnant group. Give me an alternative seat." "Be calm please," the hostess replied. "Almost all the places on this flight are taken. I will go to see if another place is available." The Hostess went away and then came back a few minutes later. "Madam, just as I thought, there are no other available seats in the economy class. I spoke to the captain and he informed me that there is also no seat in the business class. All the same, we still have one place in the first class." Before the woman could say anything, the hostess continued, "It is not usual for our company to permit someone from the economy class to sit in the first class. However, given the circumstances, the captain feels that it would be scandalous to make someone sit next to someone so disgusting." She turned to the black man and said "Therefore, Sir, if you would like to, please collect your hand luggage, a seat awaits you in first class." At that moment, the other passengers who were shocked by what they had just witnessed stood up and applauded. ****************************** ****************************** *****


-----> I'm VERY attracted to the "Sistas" in a very preferential kind of way. I want to say this once and just one, here: My attraction is a PREFERENCE not an experiment.


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Hope to make some new friends..... Holla, specially if you're an open minded Sista thats not racially ignorant ;-) As someone I respect alot says on one of the groups I belong to:
"We're ALL members of the Same Race - the Human Race"

PS - I'm currently living in the Ft Myers area of Florida

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