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I am passionate about the experience of life in general. I LOVE to learn and experience new things. I also enjoy meeting new people. I believe God speaks to us in many ways and wants us to live a fulfilling life. I have been blessed, to continue to meet great people and try new things while remaining open-minded which has aided me in living a happy life. That's generally who I am in every situation and in every relationship. Now that I am a mother I am very passionate about my role as a parent. Children are very malleable and feed off our energy as adults. Being a loving and supportive parent is my new found passion. Needless to say I'm basically using BP as a mechanism to vibe with kool peeps with like minds and similar ambition. Having that said, .I`m always open for some good conversation .... so I`ll let you pick my brain if you let me pick yours.


I'm in the process of moving to North Carolina from New York so hopefully you guys can welcome a sister. What's some of the things you like about your city. My mom sent this to me in a email the other day thought I'll share it ...read it and tell me what you think.

In a brief conversation, a man asked a woman he was pursuing the question: 'What kind of man are you looking for?' She sat quietly for a moment before looking him in the eye & asking, 'Do you really want to know?' Reluctantly, he said, 'Yes. She began to expound, 'As a woman in this day & age, I am in a position to ask a man what can you do for me that I can't do for myself? I pay my own bills. I take care of my household without the help of any man... or woman for that matter. I am in the position to ask, 'What can you bring to the table?' The man looked at her. Clearly he thought that she was referring to money. She quickly corrected his thought & stated, 'I am not referring to money. I need something more. I need a man who is striving for excellence in every aspect of life. He sat back in his chair, folded his arms, & asked her to explain. She said, 'I need someone who is striving for excellence mentally because I need conversation & mental stimulation. I don't need a simple-minded man. I need someone who is striving for excellence spiritually because I don't need to be unequally yoked...believers mixed with unbelievers is a recipe for disaster. I need a man who is striving for excellence financially because I don't need a financial burden. I need someone who is sensitive enough to understand what I go through as a woman, but strong enough to keep me grounded. I need someone who has integrity in dealing with relationships. Lies and game-playing are not my idea of a strong man. I need a man who is family-oriented. One who can be the leader, priest and provider to the lives entrusted to him by God. I need someone whom I can respect. In order to be submissive, I must respect him. I cannot be submissive to a man who isn't taking care of his business. I have no problem being submissive...he just has to be worthy. And by the way, I am not looking for him...He will find me. He will recognize himself in me. Hey may not be able to explain the connection, but he will always be drawn to me. God made woman to be a help-mate for man. I can't help a man if he can't help himself. When she finished her spill, she looked at him. He sat there with a puzzled look on his face. He said, 'You are asking a lot. She replied, "I'm worth a lot".