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TO BE BLESSED WITH ANOTHER MORNING ALLOWS YOU THE OPPORTUNITY TO CORRECT THE MISTAKES YOU MADE YESTERDAY.



I DON`T HAVE TOO MANY FLICKS(PHILLY TERM FOR PIC) BY MYSELF BUT I`LL BE UPDATING SOON. OTHER FLICKS OF ME ON MYSPACE UNDER SAME NAME. TOLD I DON`T HAVE ENOUGH FLICKS. OKAY, WILL UPDATE



I have only sisters, 5 nieces, plenty of aunts, female cousins, my Nanny (grandmoms), and Moms. I`m from a predominately woman based family..a family full of beautiful, intelligent, headstrong, tough, and self-reliant women...so I`ve learned a lot from these women. And b/cuz I`m a man I know how we are and how we can be, so.......

I`ve Been Receiving A lot Of Hits And I`ve Been On Some Pages With Some Profound $%@~ About Men....
So, Ladies I Had To Put This On Here..I`m Not Saying That You Already Don`t Know This, But Hey, If It Can Help So Be It.....
Ladies I`m Going To Tell You The Difference Betw. A Boy That`s 25+, A Regular Man, And A Real Man...


Do Keep In Mind These Are Just A CoupleExamples..


A 25+ Boy Will Sleep With Women Just To Impress His Boys Or Reach Some Set Number..He Uses The That Fact He Has Children To Define His Manhood. He Takes Your Car B/cuz He Doesn`t Have One& Returns It On "E" When You Gave It To Him On Full.


A Regular Man, May Love You,Tell You HeLoves You, & Even Marry You, But In That Same Relationship He Degrades You, Tell You Things To Belittle You, And Cheats On You..(Someone Is Probably Reading This And Says This Is All Men) WRONG!!!


Now The Real Man..
THis One Thing Sets Him Apart..I`m Not Saying The Others Above Don`t Have It..They Just Haven`t Called Upon It Or Think It`s Not Cool To Display It.

A Real Man, Before Anything Else Understands ThePower & Blessings Of GOD. When You Know This You`re Not Afraid Of Doing The Right Thing, Which Also Includes Truly Loving A Woman, I`m Not Talking About Worshiping The Ground She Walks On(Because Ladies I Know You Need A Man That Can Say No To Dumb@%$*).
But Simply He Sacrifices So Others Can Have (No I`m Not Referring To Some Fool Who Will Just Give You Money To Blow On BS, Or Put Up With Your BS Knowing It`s Wrong, I`m Talking About A Person Who Will Expose You To Things That Will Make You A Better Person). These Are The Men That Make Change, These Are The Men That Understand The Importance Of Unity, Respect, And Family..To Some Who Read This... This Dude May Sound Boring Or Too Righteous, But These Men Will Protect You From Harm, Can Be Freaks In Bed Too, Say Things To Make You Laugh, Do Fun Things Like Bowling, Jet Skiing, Go To The Movies, Playing Pool, Ride Motorcycles, Etc.

On The Real.. A Real Man Can Come From Anywhere,The Suburbs, The Streets, It Doesn`t Matter. My Point Is This For All Those Who Say They Want Thugs..A Thug Don`t Have Anything Positive To Give. They Take. I Know B/cuz At One Point That`s What I Was About. A Man`s Purpose On This Earth Is Not To Rob, Sell Dope To Get Money To Flash Around To Pull Women, Smoke Weed All %@~ Day,Sleep With You & Your Best Friend, Complain About Not Having AJob, Or Take Care Of Someone Elses Children When He Has Some Of His Own. I`m Not Hating On My Brothers, I`m One.. I Use To Do Some Of This@*%~, I Saw It & Glorified It..But Like The Cliche` Says; GOD Doesn`t Like Ugly. I Was Put ThroughSome Unbelievable Things To Get Me Where I Am Now & Where I`m Trying To Go. And That`s Why I Can Briefly Explain The Differences.


LadiesYou Deserve More, I`m Not Going To Lie, As Men We Are Spoiled! And Before You Start Testifying And Saying Amen..It`s You And If NotYou, It`sYour Fellow Women Who`s Doing It. We Have Fault In The Matter Too, Because We Allow It. But A Man Can`t Do The Things He Do Unless You Allow Him & Also Accept Him For Being That Way. A Thug And A Badboy Is Exactly What He Is. Hell, I Still Have Badboy Tattoed On My Back...Now I Just Have It To Apply To Something More Positive...If You`re Curious I`ll Tell..But That`s Not What`s This Is About...


Why Did I Type This? GOD Blessed Me With Some Positive Women & Some Crazy Women That Opened My Eyes To Some Things..Besides..I Love You All..You Possess A Power We Need(LOVE) W/O This No Man Is Complete. Sad Enough, That`s Probably Why There Are So Many Thugs, Nah, Wannabe Thugs..For Real,It Can`t Be That Many In The World.

I Can`t Glorify The Things I Use To Be Proud Of..Now I`m Proud To Say, I Have True Friends, And HardlyNo Stress..I Make A Difference In Peoples Lives Now, And It Makes You Feel Whole.

Women There AreGood Men OutThere, But You Attract What You Want, Not What You Need. In Other Words,You Make The Final Say Of Who You Give Your Number To & Who You Sleep With. I Don`t Mean To Be Harsh. But It`s Simple. A Man Who Only Cares About His Well Being Are The Two Examples I Mentioned Earlier(These Men Are Selfish, I`m Not Saying They Don`t Do %#@` For You,But You Also Know It`s A lot That They Don`t Do, That They Should.

The Last Example I Gave..This Man Is About Others, Because He`s Secure & StrongEnough To Know He`ll Be Okay Regardless. ThisMan Is Unselfish...And True Love Is Unselfish. So, All I`m Saying Is Know Who You`re Dealing With.

Love You..I`ve Typed Enough. And Just In Case..If There Is Any Woman Who Doesn`t Understand & Took This The Wrong Way & Wishes To Criticize Me..Go Ahead. I`m A Big Boy. I Rather Be Criticized For Trying To Show Love, Than Be Liked For Kicking BS.

I really believe therelationships that don`t work were only designed to either improve our lives or theirs so we can become better halves for the person we`re suppose to be with.

Need any advice, want to vent, pose a question, or anything, holla, I have to give back what I learned over the years.

FOR THOSE THAT MOSTLY BE ON MYSPACE....Have page on there under same name....drop me a line or something on there if you wish...

May Everyone Take Care And Be Easy!
And Most Importantly May You And The Ones You Love Be Blessed!

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