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My friends been houndin me about gettin on BP, so there I did it. I'm from Chicago. I'm Black and Rican, never been in jail,& traveled the world. I've played football, basketball, and baseball, making time for the kid now. Ladies, if you have man troubles, leave me out of them. Such as sneakin to use the chat, etc. No time for ANY drama at all. You tell the truth and you will get the truth! If you are "SINGLE", just want to BS, or hang out, holla. If you have a man and HAVE NOT left him, holla when he`s dust. Don`t get me wrong, I`m real nice, just old enough to avoid the BS. Oh and by the way that is me and my boy. NO BABY MAMA DRAMA. Single father, something some of these other guys should try! Not a woman hater people, just learned to weed out the bad ones. Times have changed, very few men(or women) are true nowdays. Women that need me to support them, please roll on, I work for my son, I think that's enough. While you're putting out your do's & don'ts, DON'T tell me what I need to bring to the table, when all you are bringing is headaches, drama, lies, and still want me to take care of you. Wrong man. We do for each other, you can't find the middle, then go to the end, door is always open. Until then, Peace! If you have 3 million guy friends and have slept with them all, please keep going. Some people never grow up! After a certain age, I assume high school should be left behind if you're over 30!

If YOU like excessive attention, a certain salary figure, someone to be jealous so you KNOW they care, flirty as hell because you really have low self-esteem, but hide it, show all your "goods", but don't want someone to look or comment (Oprah AGAIN!), or REALLY think you are special because 10 guys approached you in a club for Christ's sake, or just HAVE NO IDEA WHAT A MAN IS SUPPOSED TO BE (after dealing with boys, STILL and over 35?!). WHEW! We are not on the same path in life! True women are beautiful in their own right, color, age, a lil extra, or built like Keira Knightly. They do not need to be told! PLEASE UNDERSTAND, I'm 40. No more time than you for simple games, you want to play a game with me, atleast do something different than I've seen already! I'm a MAN, if I have to PROVE it to you, you already lost. Learn the definition, find a role model, before you start mud-slinging! I am a TRUE Leo. Never threatened by a cub, no longer hunt the water buffalo that is already wounded, I let a cub roar as long he is in his own territory, even if his territory is close. I'm loyal and protective UNLESS you let me get bit in the back. Above all, if you put me in a cage, and choose to get the "bright" idea of #@$%&@ with me, MAKE SURE THE GATE IS CLOSED! AGAIN, if I REALLY took a CLOSE look at you, I could find a hundred things wrong, so don't PREACH unconditional, if you don't know what it means. We ALL have our imperfection, and poisons in life. Lil stuff is what it is, irrelevant! I don't pass judgement on what any of you do, shopping isn't a man thing, for some of you it's your poison. Would you like someone trying to change that? Except people for WHO they are, and WHAT they do, maybe that's why I can get along, it's why we are all individuals and GROWN. Be smart in your own choices, I try to be in mine, but the world is the world. LOGIC! Far from conceited, a thug, baller, desperate, or mini-pimp so that is CLEAR as well. Once again, find the true meaning of MAN! Sorry this was only to the self-proclaimed women that JUDGE from the gate, maybe YOU'RE not alone by choice, COULD be the attitude. I don't owe you anything, so don't take it out on me. Just like I don't make others pay for the retards I have encountered. I apologize for past men (not my place), but I do sympathize. Own up to YOUR issues. This was mine! Don't ask for things you aren't willing to give. Look for a perfect man and your plan has flaws. Overcome the flaws and have a perfect relationship, that's how people STAY together! Otherwise it's back to business. One!