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    Sep 24, 1999

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    Oct 24, 2008

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    Associate Degree

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    New York, NY

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    Black/African American


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Top 7 Lies that Prevent Powerful Results
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*Have you ever considered that most of what happens in your life happens because of the way you think? Your thinking directs your emotional
reaction, which in turn directs your behavior. The way you react to a situation is not just a representation of the events; your reaction also depends on what you
think the events mean. *

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*What you tell yourself, or what you think about your circumstances, may keep you stuck in a bad situation. That is why recognizing the lies you
tell yourself is very important. *

*These lies prevent us from being as powerful as we really are. *

*1. It`ll never happen.
**It`s true, we have all seen our lives change in a heartbeat-sometimes an upturn, and sometimes a downturn. But generally success is a longer road that takes daily work to make it a reality. It will happen. Don`t expect it to happen overnight, but expect it to happen. Don`t give up. Powerful Results come from taking baby steps, one after another, day after day, until
you reach your goal.

*2. Complaining is OK.
The Law of Attraction states that you will attract whatever you put out there. If you have a habit of complaining, you will attract more
complainers to you. Life reflects back to you what you are expending. Or as the Bible puts it, "you reap what you sow." One of my favorite cartoons, "The Far Side," shows the character contemplating Spring, and she says, "Time to go out in the garden to see if the bulbs I didn`t plant, didn`t come up." Powerful Results come from planting the seeds for what you want to grow.

*3. Fix It Later
Winners recognize that it doesn`t always matter how the hole got in the boat. It matters that it gets fixed so that you can get on with the fishing.
However, it DOES matter if you keep running over the same rock day
after day, and you are patching the same hole over and over. It is important to find the SOURCE of the hole and stop allowing it to happen. Powerful Results come from creating a lifestyle that supports your desires.

*4. Having an *idea* instead of a plan
Did you miss becoming a doctor, or dancer, or chef, or actor, or travel
agent because you were "absent" the day they were handing out those
careers.
Of course not. All of those careers require that a person choose to go
to school, sometimes for many years. If you don`t purposefully choose the
path to go down, something else will choose it for you. "Those who don`t
create their future, must endure the future they get." Powerful Results come from creating a plan and getting into action.

*5. Ignoring your talents
Thomas Leonard, founder of Coach University, suggests that you "perfect or customize what you want out of life so that it fits you perfectly."
This means using your natural talents in a way that works best for you, in all that you do. So often we put ourselves into a role or get so busy responding to life`s daily crisis, that we end up frustrated with busy work instead of taking the time to sort out what we`re good at, let our strengths help us, and then be willing to ask for help with the rest. Powerful Results come from customizing whatever you do so that`s it`s a better fit for you.

*6. Having Elusive Goals instead of Do-able Goals
An elusive goal is "lose 10 pounds." There`s no strategy or plan associated with that. A do-able goal is "walk 30 minutes each day," or "stop snacking after dinner." That`s a plan of action that has measurable results.
Powerful Results come from specific actions that have measurable results.

*7. Adopting a "what I do doesn`t matter" attitude.
It`s easy to say to yourself that other people and circumstances
prevent you from doing something. It`s easy to think that they are more powerful than you are, so your puny contribution won`t matter in the long run.But this attitude tends to paralyze you, and keep you out of the action of creating
better circumstances. Powerful Results come from being honest with
yourself, listening to yourself, then doing what needs to be done.

"A king who knows doesn`t die!!"



"The king turns in his crown before dying."



The higher the monkey climbs the tree the more you see it`s butt!!



"ALREADY COMPLETE"

by: Mr_LoveJones6_9

Just because no one has been fortunate enough to realize what a goldmine you are, doesn`t mean you shine any less. Just because no one has been smart enough to figure out that you can`t be topped, doesn`t stop you from being the best. Just because no one has come along to share your life, doesn`t mean that day isn`t coming. Just because no one has made this race worth while, doesn`t give you permission to stop running. Just because no one has realized how much of a woman you are, doesn`t mean they can affect your femininity. Just because no one has come to take the loneliness away, doesn`t mean you have to settle for a lower quality. Just because no one has shown up who can love you on your level, doesn`t mean you have to sink to theirs. Just because you deserve the very best there is, doesn`t mean that life is always fair. Just because God is still preparing your king,doesn`t mean that you`re not already a queen. Just because your situation doesn`t seem to be progressing right now, doesn`t mean you need to change a thing. Keep shining, Keep running, Keep hoping, Keep praying, Keep being

exactly what you are already; complete.



Oh, that You would bless me indeed, and enlarge my territory, that Your hand would be with me, and that You would keep me from evil.



LOVE


GOD IS THE UNFAILING,UNLIMITED SOURCE OF MY SUPPLY. I DESERVE TO BE PROSPEROUS AND HAPPY.I AM NOW PROSPEROUSAND HAPPY.

Li pi dous pase siromyel

Fi sa-a genyen fos

tankou zang Gabriel

komwen fe she de pul

shak fwa ke mwen we-L



Black Honey! Ayayaye!

Li pi dous pase siromyel!



*smile*



Happy New Year.



~MUSE



Love, Love, Love ... I want to talk about L.O.V.E



What is love....hmmm good question.



Love is that warm fuzzy feeling you get whe n you think of that special person.



It`s when you talk to the person and learn more about yourself, him and the world you live in. It`s when you want to share everything good and bad with that one person.



Love is patience, understanding. Love is when you hear love songs on the radio and want to share it with your lover.



Love is running out of the office to go home to your love. Love is intense yet soothing. Love is rough yet smooth.



Everytime you think of your lover you smile. When you fight although you are pissed off with them you still feel lucky and happy to have them.



MMMM LOVE...



What would you do for love?

Being open to all the possibilities is the only way to realize and accept the answer...Becareful who you give your heart to!!!!!

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Metamorphosis




I am entering my cocoon. The larva must go into it`s cocoon in order for it to emerge intothebeautiful butterfly. Which is what it was destined for.



Sometimes life presents certain people and situations to help you better yourself. We go thru life learning and paying back karma.



Sometimes it is important to stop and look at your reflection in the mirror. Make sure you like what you see. If there is anything there that makes you uncomfortable or unhappy then it must be changed. If you continue to ignore it then life will put you in a situation where you will have no choice but to change.



Life gives us enough challenges without having to go and pick up other peoples` troubles. Superheros are for comic books and television. So it`s best to stay focus on you. Even with your child you can not take on their problems. YOu can only guide them and pray the go on the right path.



What you wind up doing when you put on someone`s else`s issues onto yourself ismess yourself up. You step away from your path and get on to someone else`s. That person will not thank you for doing so. Instead they will blame you and curse you. Here you were thinking that you were helping them out and instead what you have really done was takentheir power away from them. What you are saying without even realizing it is "you need me, you can`t make it without me."



You owe it to yourself and those you love and care for to let them resolve their issues so they can be empowered!



So for all of you that i`ve taken your power I release it and know that at the moment it wasn`t done purposely but blindly. The blindfold is now off and the world looks and feels different.



May the ancestors continue to bless you all!



Ashe!

I m Sending Unconditional Love to You.




Your Divine Right




I Have The Right...



I have the right to my basic needs fulfilled.

I have the right tomy desires.

I have the right to feel my emotions and to express them freely.

I have teh right to personal choice.

I have the right to make decisions that honor who I am.

I have the right to make decisions that honor who I am.

I have the right to draw boundaries and say "no."

I have the right to love freely.

I have the right to be loved.

I have the right to speak my truth.

I have the right to see the world as beautiful.

I havethe right to my dreams.

I have the right to what my inner teacher offers me.

I have the right to a personal relationship with God.

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