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"How Does Your Dad Inspire you?" Contest!

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Father’s Day is around the corner and it’s that time again to show your dad how much you appreciate him!

In the comment section of this blog post, in 74 words or less explain what inspiration you have gained from your father; tell us what you love most about him!.

Entries will be accepted until Monday, June 15th at 10am. 4 winners will be chosen and announced by Monday, June 15th at 5p.m. The Winners will receive a copy of “Be a Father to your... (continue reading)

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Aaron Lloyd
Aaron Lloyd is a freelance writer, screenwriter, and filmmaker. He has written about hip-hop music artists for over a decade, including Left Eye of TLC and A Tribe Called Quest. His articles have appeared in Rap Pages, Vibe.com and other outlets. Lloyd will write, produce, and release his debut film, a 45 minute short, in 2008. Aaron was a founding and executive board member of Black Nia F.O.R.C.E., a community and cultural organization and was co-owner of the writing service... (continue reading)

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In the age of hip hop, how do Black fathers relate to their children, as well as to their own fathers? How do they see and play their roles in both family and community?


Editor April R. Silver weaves together a seamless tapestry of essays, poems, lyrics, and interviews from both analytic and anecdotal perspectives- from the corner to the campus- to address issues of Black masculinity and fatherhood at the birth and maturation of hip hop culture. Be a Father to Your Child begins with a frank discussion of how family formation has changed since the 1960s, especially for communities of color. Individual sections then flesh out historical, sociological, and cultural contexts, examining the impact of welfare, child support, criminal justice, and employment policies on young men of color, Black men in particular. Key to this section is the role of hip hop as an influential cultural phenomenon that shaped the individual writer's conceptions of sexual behavior, family formation, fathering, and community building. Gripping firsthand narratives expound on statistical data to form a powerful composite portrait of the challenges facing modern African American communities, and how to overcome them. Be a Father to Your Child (Soft Skull Press/Counterpoint; Trade Paper; June 2008; $17.95; 978-1-59376-192-9) is a timely and accessible anthology that reaches across genres to understand how young Black fathers relate to their children, their fathers, and themselves.


"Buy a book, support a cause!" One of the main objectives of Be a Father to Your Child is to support the Black Men and Boys Initiative (BMB) of the Twenty-First Century Foundation (http://www.21cf.org/). BMB exists to provide grants for work aimed at "addressing the root causes of problems facing Black men and boys." BMB also seeks to "raise the visibility of critical issues facing Black men and boys nationally in a way that leads to substantive action." For this reason, the contributors and the editor Be a Father to Your Child have agreed to forgo their royalties in order to make the project a charitable cause. Royalties will be donated to support the BMB initiative.

Be a Father to Your Child Contributors:
Lumumba Akinwole-Bandele
Loren S. Harris
Shaun Neblett
Adisa Banjoko Lasana
Omar Hotep
James Peterson
Mo Beasley
Byron Hurt
Kevin Powell
Thabiti Boone
Timothy D. Jones
Rhymefest
Dion "Showtime" Chavis
Saddi Khali
Bill Stephney
William Jelani Cobb
Bakari Kitwana
Cheo Tyehimba
Davey D.
Talib Kweli
Kevin Williams
Steven G. Fullwood
Aaron Lloyd
Alford A. Young, Jr.

About the Editor:
April R. Silver is a widely respected social entrepreneur, activist, and writer. She is founder of AKILA WORKSONGS, Inc., an "arts and activism" multi-service company and is co-founder/producer of the country's first national hip hop conference (Howard University, 1991). A former television talk show host of My Two Cents on BETJ, she has been frequently featured, profiled, or quoted in Time, Newsweek, The Washington Post, Ebony, Ms., The Amsterdam News, and many other outlets. Silver resides and works in Brooklyn, NY.

Be a Father To Your Child: Real Talk From Black Men on Family, Love, and Fatherhood" (April R. Silver, Editor)
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Posted March 01, 2010


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Female, Age Private, Long Island City, NY

Posted November 25, 2009


Thank You

The Ninth Circuit WE did not come this far by sight alone, we came by faith and we came by might, we came in unity TMP-2010 The Renaissance. Do you remember where you were and what you were doing a year ago? Earthquakes have aftershocks and so do global events. We are not the same people we were a year ago. This year during the day that is otherwise known as Thanksgiving, lets show some love to our community. We move this world. The things that are transpiring are all a manifestation of past events. Rallies, marches, protests, boycotts and turning out to support those who at times appeared to want to be anything but a brother or sister. If nothing else, we have turned around and recognized who we are. We should no longer question, where is our leadership. We know that we are moving together. The global expression of admiration for our country as a result of the 2008 Election was a tremendous testimony, an acknowledgment that a small step, is a victory in a battle that is not over. We are now in a Renaissance. The individuals, groups and churches that reached out to the victims and survivors of Katrina, those who represented with Jena6,The protests for the murder of Sean Bell, and numerous other protests and marches. People came out and supported us because they could see we supported each other. We can keep on doing so by uniformly in one spirit, changing our spending, viewing and listening habits. Boycotts and moratoriums will be as effective today, maybe even better in the current financial climate. We must continue to move in the spirit of our ancestors, this is not something new, that's why it is called a renaissance. We are sitting on the threshold of a new horizon in our empowerment as a people. If some asks where is leadership direct them http://www.visionaryproject.org. Black Press and media, locally continue to grow in our community. This is so vivid especially around the BP. To lead it takes many things other than intellect or courage, it also takes tact. To lead means to be ready to stand at the forefront and bring it. It doesn't take much to sit back and criticize the efforts or shortcoming of our brothers and sister. If we are unhappy with those at the front then step up, A huge heartfelt thanks goes out to Ms. Rihanna for opening and sharing a very painful and personal experience.This young woman stepped up and told her story when it would have been more convenient to let the incident fade from the spotlight. She didn't do it to slander Chris nor did she do it for money. She genuinely did it to warn batter victims male or female that you don't have to go back and you don't have to hide it. are acting on and communicating about who we are and taking stock of what our needs are. Not just as individuals but as a whole, as a people. More venues for communication create greater platforms for spiritual and economic growth. to reboot the movement. If even for a moment the day after the election with some apprehension a few may have woke up and feel like this is my country, this is my world. The feeling may have only lasted for a fleeting moment if at all, but it was intoxicating and humbling all at once. That feeling is what many who are not African American know and take for granted. Feeling Free. When you are free,the sun stands boldly in the sky, the air is sweet, the rain was sweet, we looked at one another,we smiled at one another if only just because. We said "good morning" and we really felt it and meant it. Who knew of legal discrimination and legal lynchings and riots. Them that knew how to bend and follow closely enough to grasp Elijahs disciplines. Those who remember Fannie Lou Hammers determination, Garvey's vision and Medgar-Evers heart. Those of us who thirsted for Brother Malcolm and Dr. Kings speeches and snacked on Panther news bytes. Those who believe in what?BELIEVE IN OURSELVES. This is how we should feel every time we open our eyes. If you believe,, an assassins bullet will not kill your dream, that's if you believe. For myself when I sit at the table, PRAY and break bread, I plan to give praise and thanks for everyone of God's Blessings, I for one, intend to remember the sacrifices my ancestors made to bring me this far. I will enjoy watching the elders wearing their crowns, share their stories of how our forefathers and mothers did more with less to get us here. Breaking bread, lets join hands and thank the Lord by whichever name you know him by. Acknowledge and embrace the young folk who are ready to pickup the torch, handle them as you would that young oak tree. Remember it will give you shade when it grows. Plant your seeds of wisdom deep, give sun and rain in good measure, but let them grow. Those who are not happy with the messengers get your act together and stand. Remember In all things apply strength, patience, courage love, mercy and thanks to the Creator
TMP


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