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Hey bp well I'm back once again I had two other pages on here by the names of PrimaLoca and ConstanziaC but I got bored and deleted them but now I'm back and decided to try this NEW blackplanet out.

Well lets start with a little about me i'm 29, 5'4 and a single mother of a beautiful little boy. He just turned 3 in August most of my time goes to him. I'm a mother first and everything else comes after. I'm just looking for some friends and cool people to chat with. I really dont have time for anything else. I'm AfroCuban, let me explain for those who don't know what that means. My race is black there is no denying that and my ethnicity is Cuban. Shoulder length hair, big brown eyes, and a cute smile. I`m really into poetry reading it and writing it when I have the time. Favorite poet is Gwendolyn Brooks. I love to curl up with a good book. Painting, Drawing and working on my art work. Hanging out with my friends and my sisters. Dancing and going Shopping. Stormie nights and cuddling. Just chillin and making my friends laugh. I love movies of all kinds and I love amusement parks and roller coasters. Favorite CD of all time is Love Jones soundtrack, favorite rapper is Jay-Z!!! I love to cooking and baking! Cuban culture, & Salsa dancing.


If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn`t want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that`s not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can`t "be friends." A friend wouldn`t mistreat a friend. Don`t settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don`t stay because you think "it will get better." You`ll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who`ve got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn`t marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently? Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. You cannot change a man`s behavior. Change comes from within. Don`t EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else`s man. If he cheated with you, he`ll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs. You should not be the one doing all the bending ... compromise is two way street. You need time to heal between relationships. There is nothing cute about baggage... Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you... a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals... look for someone complimentary... not supplementary. Dating is fun... even if he doesn`t turn out to be Mr. Right. Make him miss you sometimes... when a man always knows where you are, and you`re always readily available to him - he takes it for granted. Never move into his mother`s house. Never co-sign for a man. Don`t fully commit to a man who doesn`t give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others. Share this with other women and men (just so they know)... You`ll make someone smile.
 

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