BellaLatina1981 You can catch more bees with honey then you can do with vinegar...its called surviving!!! - May 11 add/view comments (0) |
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I love to laugh and hate to cry. I want to believe that life is fair, even when it's not. I believe in fate and destiny. I'm family oriented, attentive, opinionated, sincere, optimistic, spontaneous, and thoughtful. I despise deceitfulness and believe that actions speak louder than words. I'm patient, but don't push me to the limit; understanding, but don't push my buttons. I appear to be brutally honest, but I expect the same in return. I'm reckless and I sometimes think that my heart is too big for my own good. I'm full of bad habits that I never want to break. I'm a bit of a girly girl, but I can hold my own. I try to keep things simple and try to avoid all the drama.I love people, and chances are I'll love you. I'm honest to a fault. I'm outgoing and make new friends everywhere I am. I absolutely LOVE hugs and the whole concept and act of being affectionate. I'm dedicated, passionate, and faithful to the people I care about, I guess that's me in a nutshell---a very large one
I have a handful of friends who I call family and I am extremely thankful for them. With them I have learned that life its only 10% and the 90% its what we make out of it. I would love to fall in love again, and I hope that love will find its way back to me, and when it does, I pray to be the love that will stay and last a lifetime. ONE THING I LEARNED THRU EXPERIENCE IS THAT DESTINY IS WHAT WE MAKE IT. WE'RE ALL MEANT TO WALK A CERTAIN PATH AT A CERTAIN TIME IN A CERTAIN DIRECTION FOR A CERTAIN PURPOSE. YES DESTINY IS WHAT WE MAKE IT,BUT WE'RE HELPED ALONG. BUT FIRST AND FOREMOST IT'S A BLESSING FROM GOD, WHICH HE IS THE FOUNDATION OF EVERYTHING,HE'S THE EXTRA PUSH WE NEED TO TAKE US WHERE WE'RE MEANT TO GO. "GO AHEAD AND QUOTE ME" I'm incomparable by all means..........Don't try to put me in a category because I will never fit., I will never blend in, I will never belong. Don't try to define me with your simple words, I will never be, I will never uphold, I will never confirm. I was born in Mexico east ofAcapulco Gro. (La Costa Chica) I know I don't look full Mexican or Mexican at all, and that's because I'm not. The African blood from the ancestors in my family came from the black slaves brought to Mexico by the Spaniards during the 300-year colonial period. The African presence is in the Mexican Identity, It's part of my history, my blood, and I am very proud of it. Thats where I get my good looks from, from my nubia's sunkissed descendants. "Afromestizo" esa es mi gente mi sangre y mi decendencia. My father's the most beautiful man I've known, and my mother's my back bone, by their side I was able to confront some of the worst/hard times of my life. Being a single mother of two beautiful girls, I look for hope and purpose and direction, with them I learned to dream, to think big, to believe that anything is possible and that even the sky don't present any kind of limit. I was raised in the streets of LA (Cali baby) that's where my bitter/sweet attitude comes from and the Latina in me its just an extra dosed of passion. (BP) I'm not here looking for love or to meet the love of my life. I'm a very simple yet complicated woman who knows what she wants and won't stop until she reaches the top. As for my soulmate I don't know if such a concept even exists anymore. After a while you learn the subtle difference between holding a hand and chaining a soul, and you learn that love doesn't mean security, and you begin to learn that kisses aren't contracts and presents aren't promises, and you begin to accept your defeats with your head up and your eyes open with the grace of a woman not the grief of a child, and you learn to build all your roads on today because tomorrow's ground is too uncertain for plans, and future have a way of failing down in mid-flight. After a while you learn that even sunshine burns if you get too much. So you plant your own garden and decorate your own soul, instead of waiting for someone else to bring you flowers. And you learn that you really can endure, that you really are strong,and you really have worth. And you learn and learn with every goood-bye.
I'm Funny,Flirty, Goofy, Intelligent, Down to Earth,Independent Woman. What can I say I love knowing I need no one else, but me to get me what I want. I guess that's why I won't fight over something that's not meant to be. It's something I learned to accept the hard way, so situations I can't control, I let them unravel themselves. Also I cant say that I regret anything I have done, because I learned so much. I learned even from people that didn't like me.The people that hurt me. A wise woman once told me " LOVE its not finding someone you can live with, LOVE its finding someone you can't live without, cause when the sun goes down its a long and lonely night." Only you know of the people you have to let go in order for God to bless you. Love yourself and live your life like there's no tomorrow.
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