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main photo my url http://www.blackplanet.com/Big_Dad_A/ contact me Send a Note Add to Friends Secretly Admire Send IM Add to Favorites Remove from Favorites Sign Guestbook Report Abuse Block Member Report Spam personal info Here For: Friends Member Since: May 09, 2001 Sex: Male Dating Preference: Female Age: 55 Relationship Status: Involved/Partner Last Login: January 26 Education: Some College Coursework Completed Location: Harleyville, SC Race: Black/African American interests This member hasn't added any interests yet. schools This member hasn't added any Schools yet. friends (181) CHOCOLATEHYGH honeydew380 pinky140 nuage JUST2FINDU ReverendAlSharpton View All favorite links MrChocolateStuff	Recommend this profile to your Facebook friends. personal message WELCOME! The first Thing you see on this page is a Woman offering care. One has to understand that women are the care givers to the world. It`s through their hearts, where all home-training begins for all societies. It`s a never ending commitment that only they continuosily execute from their hearts, day in and day out. If one gives it any thought they will discover that their is no more precious gift in the world than a women. Once upon a time More frequently than we realize A little boy noticed his mother crying and asked her Mom why are you crying as tears also begin to swell in his eyes And she looked upon him with all the love her eyes could speak and said, "Sometimes Mothers Cry." And he replied "But I don`tunderstand..." His mother just hugged him and said, "And you never will" Later the little boy asked his father, "Why does mother seem to cry for no reason?" "All women cry for no reason", was all his dad could say The little boy grew up and became a man, still wondering why women cry. Finally he put in a call to God; and when God got on the phone, he asked, "God, why do women cry so easily?" God said: "When I made the woman she had to be special. I made her shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world; yet, gentle enough to give comfort" "I gave her an inner strength to endure childbirth and the rejection that many times comes from her children" "I gave her a hardness that allows her to keep going when everyone else gives up, and take care of her family through sickness and fatigue without complaining " "I gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any and all circumstances, even when her child has hurt her very badly" "I gave her strength to carry her husband through his faults and fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart" "I gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his wife, but sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him unfalteringly" "And finally, I gave her a tear to shed. This is hers exclusively to use whenever it is needed." You see: The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair." "The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart the place Where Love Resides." Laughter is a cure all. I`ve been fortunate enough to be able to elevate my emotions from whatever duldrum I may fall into through laughter. The first smile and things aren`t as bad as they did seem. But it`s the building on the feeling. Some may feel it`s surpressing one`s emotions and maybe so... BUT PLEASE DON`T TELL ME, CUZ I`M HAPPY. HAHAHAHA! But if this joke is offensive to anyone please let me know and it`s out of here. I hope to develop a comfortable setting not one of any type drama. And I have never heard you laugh, felt you giggle or marvel at the kindness of your heart. But your opinion means the world to me. So let me know cuz I have Much Love 4 U. Oh by the way I borrow this from a lovely twin page whom I should have saved as a friend. A :o) 4 U One morning a boy got up and was leaving the house with a hand full of chicken wire. His father said, "Son, where are you going?" The son replied, "I`m going to catch me some chickens." The father said, "Son, you can`t catch chickens with chicken wire." But the son insisted that he knew what he was doing. Later on that day, the son came home with two chickens in his hand. The father thought, "I guess he knows what he`s doing." The next morning, the son got up and was leaving the house with some duck tape. The father said, "Son, where are you going?" The son replied, "I`m going to catch some ducks." The father yelled, "You can`t catch ducks with duck tape!" The son insisted that he knew what he was doing. Later on that day the son came home with two ducks under each arm. The father thought, "Shoot, I guess he does know what he`s doing!" The next morning the son got up and was leaving the house with a hand full of p_u_s_h_y_willows. The father said, "Hold up, son, let me put on my shoes!" TakeCare and One Love. There was a little boy visiting his grandparents on their farm. He was given a slingshot to play with out in the woods. He practiced in the woods; but he could never hit the target. Getting a little discouraged, he headed back for dinner. As he was walking back he saw Grandma's pet duck. Just out of impulse, he let the slingshot fly, hit the duck square in the head and killed it. He was shocked and grieved! In a panic, he hid the dead duck in the wood pile; only to see his sister watching! Sally had seen it all, but she said nothing After lunch the next day Grandma said, "Sally, let's wash the dishes" But Sally said, "Grandma, Johnny told me he wanted to help in the kitchen." Then she whispered to him, "Remember the duck?" So Johnny did the dishes. Later that day, Grandpa asked if the children wanted to go fishing and Grandma said, "I'm sorry but I need Sally to help make supper." Sally just smiled and said, "Well that's all right because Johnny told me he wanted to help" She whispered again, "Remember the duck?" So Sally went fishing and Johnny stayed to help. After several days of Johnny doing both his chores and Sally's; he finally couldn't stand it any longer. He came to Grandma and confessed that he had killed the duck. Grandma knelt down, gave him a hug and said, "Sweetheart, I know. You see... I was standing at the window and I saw the whole thing, but because I love you, I forgave you. I was just wondering how long you would let Sally make a slave of you." YOUR DAILY BREAD Whatever is in your past, whatever you have done... and the devil keeps throwing it up in your face (lying, cheating, debt, fear, bad habits,hatred, anger, bitterness, REGRETS!!! etc.)... whatever it is... You need to know that God was standing at the window and He saw the whole thing. He wants you to know that He loves you and that you are forgiven. He's just wondering how long you will let the devil make a slave of you. The great thing about God is that when you ask for forgiveness; He not only forgives you, but He forgets. It is by God's grace and God's mercy that we are saved. Always Appreciating You PERPETUATION OF THE MALE CHAUVINISM THIS IS AN ACTUAL ARTICLE FROM MAY 13, 1955 GOODHOUSEKEEPING MAGAZINE. WHICH REFLECTS A SINGLE INCOME FAMILY. HERE IS AN UPDATED VERISON OF A GOOD SPOUSE GUIDE FOR A TWO INCOME FAMILY. (RA) = read article 1. Have dinner ready. Plan ahead, even the night before, to have a delicous meal ready, on time for his return. This is a way of letting him know that you have been thinking f him and are concerned about his needs. Most men are hungry when they come home and the prospect of a good meal is part of the warm welcome needed. a. HAVE SNACK/APPETITEZER READY . YOU'LL NEED SUBSTANCE TO START THE BEST PART OF YOUR DAY. 2. Perpare yourself. Take 10 minutes to refresh. Touch up your make-up, put a ribbon in your hair.(RA) b. QUICK RELAX. SHORT SHOWER PUT ON TERRI CLOTH BATH ROBE AND SLIPPERS NOTHING ELSE REQUIRED. THIS WILL PUT A SMILE OF THEIR FACE AND MAKE THEM RUSH DEY AZS HOME WIT THE KIDS. 3. Be gay and interesting for him. His boring day may need a lift your duties is to provide it.(RA) c. SET THE TIMER ON YOUR CELL AFTER STARTING DINNER ON YOUR WEEK TO COOK OR BUY BUFFET DINNER, AND HAVE BODY RUB (baby oil, fragrance lotion, massage oil) IN SPOUSE TERRI CLOTH ROBE POCKET. SPOIL EACH OTHER EVERYDAY. LEAVE NO ROOM FOR THE INTIMATE OTHER TO FILL. 4. Clear away the cluster. Make one last trip through the main part of the house just before your husband arrives. d. TOUCH UP THE SHOWER AND BEDROOM. TRAIN THE KIDS TO KEEP THE HOUSE CLEAN AND PICK UP THINGS. THAT'S WHERE YOUR SPOIL/AFTERNOON INTIMATE TIME COMES FROM. MARRIAGE IS A LIFE LONG DATE. 5. Gather up schoolbooks, toys, paper etc. and then run a dust cloth over the tables. e. TRAIN THE KIDS WELL TO PROTECT YOUR INTIMATE TIME. HAVE THEM SET OR START THEIR HOMEWORK AFTER HAVING THEIR SANCK/APETITZER WITH THE STOVE TOTALLY OFF LIMITS WHILE DINNER IS COOKING. HAVE THE KIDS ALSO AWARE OF THE TIME THE COOK NEEDS TO RETURN TO THE KITCHEN. AND THEY CAN GET HELP WITH THEIR HOMEWORK AT THAT TIME FROM YOUR SPOUSE. 6. Over the cooler months perpare and light a fire for him. After all, catering for his comfort will provide you with immense personal satisfaction.(RA) f. WHEN YOUR SPOUSE COME IN HAVE SOMETHING WROTE ON YOUR THIGH OR BODY SO THEY CAN HELP BATHE IT OFF. AFTER THE SHOWER RUB EACH OTHER DOWN SO YOU CAN MAINTAIN YOUR YOUTHFUL APPEARANCE. 7. Perpare the children, encourage the children to be quiet.(RA) g. YEAH RIGHT, LET'S NOT DISTRUB THE KIDS WHILE THEY ARE BUSY (wink). 8. Greet him with a warm smile and show sincerity in your desire to please him. h. RELAX AND THINK OUT LOUD ACROSS THE BED WITH YOUR ROBE ON. 9. Be happy to see him. i. SHARE A 100 KISSES PER DAY (50 apiece for beginningers, mix in bites and lip pinches if ya luv em you'll find where to apply your other 50. :oP ) 10. Listen to him, his topics of conversation are more important that yours.(RA) j. YALL TAKE A POWER NAP OR A SANDWICH, BEFORE FINISHING DINNER AND HELPING THE KIDS WITH THEIR HOMEWORK. 11. Make the evening his. Never complain if he goes out without you. Instead try to understand his world and his need to relax.(RA) k. MAKE THE DAY YOURS. NEVER COMPLAIN MAKE SUGGESTIONS, DONT START SOMETHING YOU CANT HOLD OUT WITH OR TAKE YOU AWAY FROM FAMILY. SOMEBODY WILL RUB THAT BODY DOWN FOR YOU. 12. Your goal: make sure your home is a place of peace where your husband can renew himself.(RA) l. A GOOD BEDROOM DOOR LOCK WILL SECURE THAT FOR BOTH OF YOU. 13. Dont greet him with complaints.(RA) m. SET THE FACTS ON THE DESK AND DISCUSS THEM AFTER SPENDING TIME WITH THE KIDS. 14. Dont compain if he stays out all night.(RA) n. DONT START NOTHING YOU DONT WANT TO YOUR BABYBABY TO DO. YOU'LL DO IT TWICE AND GET BY BUT IT'S ON THEN.THREE ANIT THE MAGIC NUMBER. YOU DONT WANT A FRUSTRATED SPOUSE OUT DOING WHAT THEY THINK YOU DOING. 15. Make him comfortable. Have a drink ready.(RA) o. THAT'S COOL, WARM OR HOT OIL FOR THE BOTH OF YOU. 16. Arrange his pillow take off his shoes. Speak low and pleasant.(RA) p. BE RESPECTFUL OF EACH OHTER AND SLOW DOWN YOUR SPOUSE WITH TEN KISSES IF NECESSARY, OR BETWEEN TOPICS. 17. Dont ask him questions, he is the master of the house.(RA) q. ALWAYS BE ACCOUNTABLE TO YOUR FAMILY IF NO ONE ELSE. TRUTH ONLY, NO BULL JUST FACTS. EXPLAIN WHY ONLY WHEN ASKED, ONLY TO KEEP YOUR SPOUSE FROM FALLING IN THE SAME SITUATION. 18. A good wife always knows her place. r. A GOOD SPOUSE ALWAYS KNOW THEIR PLACE. Big Dad A Please become a link in the Chain of Hope by clicking every day on the "Fund Free Mammograms" button and encouraging others to do so. 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