I just started BLOGING so check out my blog on BP! If I get good response, I'll post regularly perhaps... Also, I messenger on YahoO! if you want to IM me: ID: sooblak
I love movies, dining out, anything outdoors, I LOVE to travel and have been all over the world. I make friends easily, value integrity and take my Christianity seriously. If God isn't the center, nothing else will prosper.
(1) Ladies, why do you say you want a good man, but when you get him you think all that respect stuff is weak? Or you try and force YOUR will on him? Huh?
(2) Why are so many women on BP :
(a) fat??? BBW stands for Big, Beautiful Women. That 2nd B is not necessarily a given, and is quite often being misrepresented. If you sloppy wit it, you know u aint cute, so STOP it, please!
(b) gay??? and you aint fooling me by saying you're bisexual but NO MEN can reply to your page?
(c) Broke??? I guess professional women don't hang out here? Or what?
(d) baby momma's? ?? you got HOW many baby daddies? It's a reason why none of them fools ever married your a$$.
(e) haters??? I hate that word. If you're caught up in who doesn't like you, clearly you're doing nothing positive with your life.
(3) Fellas - thug life is not cool. Pull your pants up and get a job. Having women take care of you is SO backward. You ain't the man.
(4) Guys - please quit lying to these women saying you're single, you're fixing to leave your wife, you love these women, all just to get you a piece. The next guy who steps to them real has to deal with the issues and lack of self esteem you left behind when you broke her heart.
(5) My lesbian sisters - quit trying to turn out the straight women. Ya'll like Jehovah's Witnesses, always want another soul for the "family". Give it a rest, trust me its plenty of lesbians and bisexual curious women out there for you to play with.
(6) God isn't a joke - quit saying you love God and then say you love to smoke herb. Um, hello? If I need to explain this one, you going straight to hell!
(7) 30 & up ladies - I know you been hurt, but please. PLEASE. PUH-LEEZ, can u try and leave the baggage behind? I?m not him.
(8) Especially the men: Fix your credit and invest in SOMETHING - ask me how if you haven't a clue. It's important to create wealth, not just consume resources. The Bible says a wise man leaves an inheritance for his children's children [Prov 13:22]. You working on that Brother?
(9) Liars - hate ya'll
(10) Baby momma's who care more about how much you can take from dad's pocket than making a place for him in his child's life - to you I say from the heart: Yuck Fou!
(11) Ladies of BP - if I can see your a$$, your breast, God forbid your nature's wonder on your page, please don't demand respect from those who reply. Respect yourself and people will have no choice but to fall in line.
(12) Fella's - I know this is my personal opinion and everybody aint gonna like this, but if your suit is pink, red, orange, yellow, green, sky blue, violet, purple or any variation of the above and you have gators to match, you are NOT dressed to impress. You look like a monkey in a parade.
(13) A few things I personally don't like:
ONE-CLICK notes, I won't respond. I'd rather you didnt say anything rather than shoot me a "click".
Nail-biters and bad table manners, I can't take you noplace.
Red lipstick and red nail polish. Hmmm, lets just say it aint my thing.
Wide heels. I know they're more comfortable, but I'd rather see a flat if you're going for the comfort thing.
Hair neat [notice I didnt say done] - at least be presentable on the regular. Women who ALWAYS keep the butta whipped, kudos, love that!
"Chest-do" - its a condition where your stomach stick out more than your chest do! Ugh!
Fag hags. If all your friends are gay men, is it really a WONDER you're single?
Loud is cool, but have an "indoor voice". If you love to make scenes, argue or get loud in public, know this: I'm a low-key kind of person, we won't gel.
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(14) Black people - if you do not know how to tip, please do the world a favor and stick to McDonalds. For those who are simply ignorant and did not know, here is a quick lesson: for good service 15-20% is standard tip. This means if your meal cost $50, you should leave MINIMUM $7.50 - $10. Excellent service 25% or higher. Eating out is the only service still able to be received on the honor system. Why is it that WE abuse it? Get some class. And if you disagree with me, you probably don't belong in a fine dining establishment anyway.
(15) White people - if you're on BP, and if you're reading this, IT APPLIES TO YOU - quit describing yourself as "light-skinned", come on! Believe me, its plenty brothers on here that want you just the way you are. But it does raise the question: if a brother wants white women, why is he on BP?
(16) Ladies how do I say this? Um, LESS IS MORE, when it comes to makeup that is. If you must wear makeup at all, and you're not sure how to do it right, go ahead and consult a PROFESSIONAL - take the time to go get the right colors, and learn how to blend and what works best with your complexion and so forth. Otherwise you'll think you're looking sexy and really just looking like one of the RINGLING BROTHERS!
(17) I heard tall, black and bald was in now. Big time sex appeal. OK, I aint got no problem with that. Thing is ladies: IT DONT APPLY TO YOU! ! ! Is it me or does BP have an over abundance of x-Tall, x-Black and/or x-Bald women on here?!?!?!? UGH!
(18) How come women think just because you don't want THEM that you must be gay? No, it's not me, it's REALLY you, honey.
(19) "Tigg ol Bitties" - I finally decided today that I just don't like em.
(20) And for all you ladies who think you're so smart, think about this: a woman can fake an orgasm for the sake of a relationship, big whoop. A man can fake a whole relationship for the sake of an orgasm!
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Area Rug: $87,784
Mahogany Pedestal Table: $25,713
19th Century Credenza: $68,179
Pendant Light Fixture: $19,751
4 Pair Curtains: $28,091 (WTF??!!)
Pair of Guest Chairs: $87,784
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