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Hello Black Planet;



It`s Funny how times flies? I once read when you get to the end of your life and think to yourself, "My, the time really went fast," that signifies that you lived an interesting life.

Time seems to drag when you are in a space you really do not benefit from.



Wow, I cannot believe that more than 100 (BP old point system) thousand people have observed my page. I guess it`s time that I become more aware of my self-pictures and what I express.

I still reside in New Jersey. [central] I am very fond of the Garden state. My interests are spiritual, education, fitness, and developing sincere relationships with affirmative people.



Spiritually; God has blessed me. Actually, I have been blessed my entire time here on this planet. However; since, my spiritual rebirth God has revealed that with: prayer, patient, faith and determination, we (I) can take advantages of the things that once empowered me and do and fulfill our purpose.

I have truly learned that all things happen for a purpose.



Although, God does not inflict pain upon us, he allows adversities to happen to get our attention. Many times we do not recognize the message. And as a result, we repeat the experience.

I am not preaching; actually, I am still growing, but in every aspect of my life, I give God the glory; even in my moments of insanity.



It took me a long time to find my path. I went to college (Central state, Rutgers, and a computer school (Chubb), yet nothing, as far as work or school did I enjoyed.

I was more interested in high wages but loathed the work and the monday thru friday monotonous tasks.

So; again, I went back to school [Rutgers] to peruse a different path. (Eventually earning a Masters)


However, I could not seem to find my niche. I never stop trying. At times my social life became my priority and everything else was tedious. (Big mistake! They were superficial times and eventually I had to face what I truly wanted out of life!)



Also, it was a distressing way to live, and even socially I was not satisfied. I learned: 1) Everything in life is not intended to be fun. You can not reap the benefits until your put in the time and work.

2) Short cuts only bring you back to point A and sometimes you end up behind the point where you initially started. [making your path even more complicated].

3) Settling is nothing but the road to complacent and possible being a part of someone else`s plan.

4) Time is the most valuable resource, once it is gone, you can not get it back.



We have to find what is going to make us happy and that is not material things. At the end of your life, when money or material things will no longer matter, right before we make that finial transition, you should want your life to have had meaning.

Please, do not get me wrong, I still love a new car, home, nice clothes and etc, etc. My point is those things will come once you get on the road and recognize your true path.



My fitness goal was comparable to my career. I did not enjoy all of the work but sought after the benefits. However, everything in life seems to follow a similar outline.

What you put into it, is exactly what you get back. Sure, I spent a lot of time in the gym, often neglecting schoolwork, work or whatever and whoever. I kept thinking, once I got a 6-pack, a bigger chest, everything else will fall into place.



Repeatedly, I would reach my fitness goals, however, I still did not feel content. Friends would be critical and their validation was important to me. [At that time]. Often, I would get frustrated and my weight constantly went up and down. Now, I am on a new path and it's working and feels great.



I feel great and I have learned my "outline" and the pattern that things seem to follow for me. A low self-image leads to low self-esteem, which leads to no productivity. Life is not all about looks nevertheless the way you look and treat yourself is a true reflection of how you feel about yourself. The trueTemple is the body and you must respect it!



Iam still single and there is no "OUTLINE" for that. (LOL) Maybe, it is just not in the cards for some of us. [no, it`s not about being jaded]. I am having a great relationship with myself. Me, myself and I have enjoyed great dates, sex and experiences. Perhaps, it's me but I am at a point in life where my interests have shifted. If I meet someone, "great" if not "great." I have so many goals and it makes no sense to waste time on someone who is not going my way.



Warning, I will forward offensive notes to BP terms of services. I welcome each and every opinion, however, I have a low tolerance for BS. I am not attracted to anyone under the age of 24. Yes, many of you are mature; I felt that way myself at that age. But, there are life lessons that one can only get by way of time.

Actually, I am doing you a good deed. Take this time to experience, grow and find your path. This time is a great space and I treasure that time from my life deeply. Hind site is 20/20 so enjoy this era, it goes quickly.



My dating preference is 25-45. Also, those who send notes with the intention to insult; I take into consideration the time, effort and energy you took to write and send such a note. [And that is a compliment within itself]

I change my pictures often; to me pictures are forms of art and the way I sometime choose to express myself; occasionally, I may be a bit explicit but never vulgar.




If you do not approve or approve of the way I express myself that's great; however, my choices requires no critical reception; please, endure that as you observe.



On behalf of contemporary technology, such as Black Planet, I have met some amazing people from around the globe. I enjoy traveling and encounters with positive people.

Regrettably, I have met a few people I did not vibe so well with, [or our time ran it`s course] nevertheless, that's life and in spite of all, I consider everything, a learning experience. I am a visual person and as a result, I prefer to see anyone I may prospectively communicate with.

Please, save your justification, for not sharing your self-picture!



No, it is not all about looks, however, this is a computer-generated bar and I prefer to see anyone I may share any personal information with.

If you are reluctant to share your picture in a public form, I do understand and respect your choice.



Alternatively, you may send your picture to Bigdnj2002@aol.com or yahoo; I do not share pictures sent to me with anyone nor do I save them, however if you wish to communicate with me, your picture, is a prerequisite and that's not negotiable! (LOL)



Also, there is another page where someone is using my pictures and some person actually copied some of my writing and posted them as his. So, to those people, thank you; Imitation is the highest form of flattery; therefore you are my number 1 fans!



We all are put here for importance; yet, many of us never tap into the resources that allow our blessing to expand. To all my fellow Black Planet Sisters and Brothers; May you be happy, May you be filled with Joy, May you reach all of your goals and find the balance, happiness, that we all seek. May we all put God first and take on life lessons with poise and courage.



Peace to all and heed

the words of Jesse Owens

Find the good. It's all

around you. Find it, showcase it,

and you'll start believing in it.

Now show some love.

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