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Often someone will ask you these two simple questions: Who are you? and What kind of person are you? And more often than not, you will miss the opportunity to answer. If you cannot answer these questions succintly without mentioning things that you possess or have accomplished, maybe you just need to take the time to write it down and memorize it. Because when the time is right, your answer better be a clear one.

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  • Bp, I will be gone out of here for a while. Law School is time consuming. I had a nice summer chatting with and adding new friends. Check back on with me every now and then. or add me on facebook at http://www.facebook.com/TheGov ernor





  • If you`re having difficulties finding someone for whatever reasons, my advice to you today is that you should consider dating yourself for a while. Please read on to find out how

    Most too often, soon as you find someone you forget about yourself. It`s all about him/her. But remember, yourself is all you`ve got to begin and to end with. So why not take care of yourself first then him/her? A relationship is a 3-way street that involvesyou, yourself and that other person with each partner worthy of qual treatment. However,most of the time, you tend to neglect yourself for the benefit of the third person. You buy him/herthings; take him/her out; satisfy his/her needs; and stupid things like that. But younever think about giving yourself all those good treats.
    But consider this: Yourself never lies to you or about you (I hope not); the only one to keep your secrets secret; loves you til death do you part; cares about you more than your own mother; and many more good stuff I could go on to say and that only you know of. And you think that someone else deserves better treatment? You`re a fool to believe that.


    The benefits of self-dating are numerous. Once you start dating yourself, you`ll be more appreciative of you, discover qualities that you didn`tknow you had, be more caring for others, less aggressive, more confident, brave, outgoing, smart, secure. All in all, you`ll be a HAPPIER Person.

    Here`s a dozen of the many things you can do to for a healthy relationship with yourself. There are NOT the 12 commandments of self-dating so feel free to add to or remove from them as you see fitting your situation. However, once you`ve done all these, you`ll pretty much be ready for a relationship withanyone else if necessary.
    1. Take yourself out more regularly to the best restaurants and the hottest nightclubs in town;
    2. Take yourself out to the movies to see all the new releases, some plays or theatrical events;
    3. Be truthful to yourself and don`t try to cheat, lie toor fool yourself;
    4. Keep yourself in good shape by exercising, running, walking or jogging;
    5. Keep yourself fresh and clean by buying yourself new clothes and shoes, nice colognes or perfumes; by keeping yourselfup-to-date with fashion. In other words, be mindful of the appearance you`re projecting of yourself;
    6. Move yourself out of mom`s house by getting yourself an apartment, duplex or house;
    7. Often take yourself out for a romantic walk at the park. Take yourself to a quiet place for a picnic orto read or just to enjoy the company of yourself;
    8. Teach yourself how to do things, some new tricks or a new trade. In other words, educate yourself;
    9. If you`re working, help yourself finda job tokeep the moneyflowing both ways;
    10.Have fun with yourself;
    11. Date yourself for as long as you feel comfortable around yourself;
    12. Most importantly,if you`re a Christian or you believe in some Holy Scripture (whatever it is), do as it says: Love yourself.

    P.S: Take time to know yourself first before yougo for the sex. lol.

    Do all the above and read on to see how easy it is to find the third partner.

    You know people don`t always want to see you in a healthy, drama-free relationship (especially women) with someone else. As soon as they spot you in all those places with yourself, and are bathing in a poll of happiness, even those who didn`t want you for whatever reason, will holla at you. You should know why. But be careful. If you must bring someone else into the relationship, make sure it`s someone that can and will bring more happiness than you already have with yourself. Otherwise, don`t even try it. Also remember, the relationship is not yours alone, so listen to yourself, he/she might have something tosay in the matter.


    You might have already noticed that the more you have to offer the more difficult it is to find someone compatible. Therefore, it`s only wise to seek a person who has as much, or the potential to offer as much as you do. For, otherwise would be foolishness. As it is said, birds of like feathers flock together. The only person that can flock with you is yourself. Did I really have to say who? Please read the small print below.


    Small print: This is for entertaiment purposes only. It is not intended to cure loneliness, stress, depression, sadness, fix abusive relationships, broken hearts, loss of trust, black eyes, find you a man or a woman. However, you might experience an unprecendented increase in self-esteem and self-confidence. After you have applied the above recommendations, if you find that you have fallen too deep in love with yourself, please see a psychologist while you have the chance. You might have caught Narcissism - a severe disease that may develop once you are too fond of yourself.

    This page is intended to help others who may have thought that they were out of luck finding a partner. Whether you`re a man or woman, you`re not spared from feeling leftout. But you should know that, only at the right time will the right person come along. So you might as well spend the time preparing yourself. Don`t feel like you`ve been left behind or that you are unwanted. If you feel this way it maybe because under reversed circumstances, you wouldn`t want yourself either. If you`re one of those people who feel this way, do all the above, and tell me how you feel later. I`ll be here and will be glad to know how things work out at the end. Now go on. Have fun with Yourself!

    About me:
    I decided to remove this part because I heard that it intimidate people. Thanks to those who have brought that to my attention. If you wish to know something about me, ask and I might tell you if I think it's in my interest to tell you. Keep in mind that my about me is on a need to know basis. Just because you're a woman, or just curious to know doesn't entitle you to knowing anything about me



    By the way, I don`t think I need to tell everybody that I am a 1000% straight, do I? So fags, wanna be fags, gays, bi, bi-curiouses, freaks, Transexuals, DLs, Transgenders, Transvestites, etc, please keep it to yourself. I don`t get at you, visit your page, or try to holla, so I demand the same from you. Keep your fag comments to yourself.


    Leave me a comment or something, or justhit me up on yahoo messenger "manofblu" or whatever. PS. Don`t ask me to sign your GB if you didn`t sign mine. I find this very selfish. Or if You`re a DUDE, please DON`T IM ME!




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