People come into your life for a REASON, a SEASON or a
LIFETIME.
When you figure out which it is, you know exactly what to do.
When someone is your life for a REASON,it is usually to meet a
need
you have expressed outwardly or inwardly. They have come to
assist
you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and
support,to aid
you physically, emotionally, or spiritually. They may seem like a
godsend, and they are. They are there for the reason, you need them
to be. Then without any wrongdoing on your part or at an
inconvenient time, this person will say or do
something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die.
Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up or out and force
you to
take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met,
our
desire fulfilled; their work is done. The prayer you sent up has
been answered and it is now time to move on.
When people come into your life for a SEASON, it is because
your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They may bring you an
experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something
you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount
of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season!
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons;those things
you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation.
Your
job is to accept the lesson, love the person/people (any way); and
put
what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas
of your life.
It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
