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The 10 Places on a Woman's Body a Man Should Never Neglect
When it comes to sexual intercourse and/or the act of foreplay, most men tend to focus the majority of their attention on stimulating one area; the main area some men would think. That "main" area is the vagynal region of a woman. Many men are quick to head finger or tongue first into a woman's vagyna, thus neglecting some other important and sexually sensitive areas of her body. Some men don't even take the time to stimulate the vagyna at all; they climb on top, press or shove themselves into a woman and thus become selfishly too quick in their efforts of achieving their own orgasm, and neglecting hers all together.
Most men think that if they can stimulate a woman's vagyna that her ultimate satisfaction is guaranteed. However, this is not the case in every case and there are many other places on a woman's body that can bring about ultimate stimulation, satisfaction, and/or climax without the vagyna ever being touched. Ten of these areas are detailed below.
1. The Breasts- Did you know that a woman's breasts can be one of the most, if not the most, sensitive and arousing part of her body? An intimate breast massage, when performed correctly, can be one of the most exciting and orgasmic joys a woman can ever experience; it also contributes to her good health as well. I'll explain. Did you know that regular breast massage can actually decrease a woman's chances of developing breast cancer? Many women don't even know this, so I know even more men are ignorant to this fact. Science has proven that underwire bras are one of the number 1 ways women actually constrict the flow of blood to their breasts and after a full day of wearing a standard issue bra, a breast massage, when performed correctly, can release and move around the blood so the natural nervous systems inside the breast can flow correctly; but, it's not quite as simple as one may think and it shouldn't feel like a breast exam when it's being performed. Most men would assume a successful breast massage involves a squish, a squeeze, and even a pinch, and is performed like on any other body part. Back, neck, and other massages are completely different than breast massages and should be approached as such. A breast is not a muscle so the massage must be done differently to be effective. A correct breast massage will provide pleasure, stimulation, health benefits, and in some cases climax for your woman. The breast can be one of the most sensitive parts on a woman's body, more sensitive in some cases than the clitoris or other regions. Sensual breast massages can deliver volcanic orgasms all by themselves even with no other form of stimulus. Some key points to remember about a successful breast massage is it can:
* Dramatically lower the risk of breast cancer.
* Release toxins that can easily cause other breast related issues.
* Instantly lower blood pressure without much effort.
* Put her in the mood easier and quicker than any other area.
* Be intoxicating and relaxing and can easily lower stress levels.
* Build trust and comfort between new couples.
A great breast massage involves soft circular hand motions around the entire breast, with no hard pulls, presses, or squeezes; using your fingers and fingertips to stimulate the areola and nipple sections of her breast. Using baby or body oil as lubricant can be a positive contribution to the breast massage, and can also take away some, if any, rough textures that may be present on your hands.
When men think of a woman's breasts they become like newborn babies with one agenda in mind; nipple sucking. Nipple sucking is good, and can be an awesome stimulant when done correctly, but it is not the only form of breast and/or body stimulation. However, when nipple sucking do not be too aggressive and "excited" to the point where it becomes more painful than pleasurable. Soft and gentle sucking along with ticklish licks and slight nipples can do wonders when using your mouth/tongue to stimulate a woman's breasts.
2. The Neck- Many men know about the basic erogenous zones, or places on the body which stimulate sexual feeling; however there are many women who have particularly interesting and unique spots that one may have never thought to touch. One in particular being her neck. Several pressure points exist in the neck and for this reason many women enjoy it being massaged to relieve tension in the head and certain parts of the body; this can also be an excellent stimulation point and is one shared by many women, though perhaps in different areas. While the skin on a woman's neck isn't always particularly sensitive it can still be an excellent erogenous zone for psychological reasons. The neck is a very vulnerable spot, instinctively most people are very aware of this and some even have difficulty being touched on the neck for many different reasons. Knowing how vulnerable a certain area of the body is and having this particular area touched can be very stimulating to a woman. Being touched or massaged on the neck can both feel good and induce many different types of mental stimulation relating to the idea of being dominated. This small representation of being dominated can make a woman feel soft, delicate, and sexually feminine, while feeling her man is strong, skillful, and masculine; it can also feel a little bit dangerous, which is also a source of stimulation for many women as long as this interaction is not taken too far. Touching, massaging, and kissing the neck are generally great spots for arousal on a woman and in some cases maybe more sensual than some of the more obvious ones.
3. The Feet- While some women may find feet repulsive in general, others greatly enjoy a little attention to a part of their body which receives a lot of daily wear a tear. This is often a tender spot, and though the skin is toughened from constant use, when touched it can induce feelings of tenderness and caring that can in some cases be an excellent stimulant. Many pressure points can be found in the feet and some of these, when touched the right way, can stimulate feeling in completely different areas of the body which can produce very interesting forms of arousal. A foot massage, when done correctly, shows a woman that you are attentive to her needs and that you care enough to bring ease to areas of her body that may be stressed or in pain. Oil or lotion works as a great lubricant to help your hands glide gently up and down a woman's feet, using a little pressure to work out the tension, but being gentle enough for it to become more of a turn on and less of just a simple act of compassion to her. Compassion is great but attention is an awesome turn on like you would not believe.
4. The Stomach- The lower stomach is a very tender spot on a woman both physically and psychologically; not only does this part of the body lead to one of the most important erogenous zones, but it is beneath this skin that a woman carries her children which can cause a woman to feel very protective of this section of the body, even when she is not pregnant. Teasing this area with the hands or mouth gives the promise of moving toward an incredibly erotic spot and can be therefore used as a way of building up that tension, which can eventually produce a more fulfilling sexual experience. Running your fingertips across the lower stomach of a woman can be a bit ticklish for many women, but stimulating nonetheless. Slowly kissing around a woman's lower stomach and right above her %#&@$! not only builds sexual tension and arousal, but it's also comforting to a woman when she feels that you can be gentle with the area where she carries life inside of her, even when she is not pregnant. Always remember Attention! Attention! Attention! Pay attention to those places that have been too many times forgotten.
5. The Hands- Like the feet, hands also have many pressure points in them which can awaken feelings in other parts of the body. This kind of indirect stimulation can in some cases be more arousing than going directly to the source. Touching the hand can also stimulate psychological feelings that are sexual; it can be viewed as tender and endearing, a sign of not only physical attraction but of adoration and though this may only be noticed by the subconscious, can still be greatly alluring. Hand massages work as great stimulants because they show that you are taking the time to pay attention to a part of her body that is commonly overlooked. It shows that you care and that you have a strong desire for being involved in whatever method it takes to please her.
6. The Inner Thigh- Bordering on a major erogenous zone without actually touching it can be a great way to tease a woman and in doing so stimulate her mentally and sexually. The skin on the inner thighs is often quite sensitive to the touch and may be very ticklish, so it is a good idea to be very careful when interacting with this part of the body. Laughter can enhance or ruin a sexual experience depending on how both partners feel about it, or assume it's meaning; be careful to pay attention to how she not only reacts physically to more ticklish spots but also how she feels in general; some women do not enjoy being tickled and will find this a complete turn off, while others will find it fun and exciting. If caressing does not work in this area a firmer touch or grip might be needed or perhaps use of the mouth and tongue rather than hands and fingers; experiment to find out whether or not this spot is the right one. For many women it is, and they may not even know it yet.
7. The Knees- While touching the inner thigh might be a way of teasing a more sensitive area, simply by not touching it the knees bring about much of the same feeling only at an even greater distance. A woman's knee may come into various contact with many objects throughout the day; bumping a desk, another knee if seated closely to another person, or even a friendly pat. Though none of this contact feels sexual it borders the thighs which when touched do produce sexual feelings. Lingering around the knee with the hands or mouth is a form of teasing with touch; it is personal but you have not crossed into strictly sexual areas; the buildup of such desire can produce strong sexual feelings and greater stimulation and climax.
8. The Ears- Not only do some women greatly enjoy a light kiss, or even bite on the earlobes but it is also here that her audio stimulation will take place. Many people have tried or at the very least know about "dirty talking" during intimate encounters, however many often forget that it is not so much which words are chosen, but how they are spoken. Know how to speak in a deep and sensual yet non-robotic manner, and also know which words will sound sexy and which words, when spoken, do not excite as well. This is an important part of a woman's sexual experience and this knowledge can be useful in stimulating a woman hours before you are able to be in a physical interaction with her; the waiting alone can be an erotic experience as it creates a pleasurable sexual tension in the mind and body. Leaving erotic and sensual voicemails work wonders at building up that pleasurable sexual tension, and the anticipation that comes from it may cause her to climax at the point of hearing what you said to her. Orgasms come in many different forms and not just from touch and/or sex alone.
9. The Forehead- When a woman is enjoying a kiss, all surfaces of her skin become very sensitive and enjoy being kissed. A gentle forehead kiss can cause an excitement and anticipation in a woman that you may not be able to see, but trust me it's there. Forehead kisses are endearing and compassionate. They show attention, care, and concern, but they also heighten arousal because of the control involved with forehead kisses. When a man is able to control his urges and a woman's responses, that lets her know that he is well able to control the happenings that take place during an intimate encounter. When a man can grab a woman by her shoulders, or hug her, and place a soft kiss upon her forehead while not delving into anything sexual and not allowing her to as well, he can show a woman that he is a man who is tender, gentle, and endearing but also one who can take charge and take control and that knowledge can cause a woman heightened arousal and stimulation.
10. The Lips- Hitch was right. Most women decide on the future of a relationship based on their first kiss. Whether you are ramping up for your first kiss, or re-vamping your kiss experience with that woman you care for, planting the perfect kiss can win a woman's heart and stimulate her sexually as well. When kissing create a sexual tension by getting close enough to her to kiss her but not kissing her at all; your kiss will have more meaning and impact once you decide to go forward with it. When a woman wants to kiss you but can't, or is trying to wait until you go forward and kiss her, she gets aroused from the wanting and desiring. It is your responsibility to increase her wanting and desires for you. Also you have to kiss with your eyes. Now you don't have to stare a woman down when you kiss her but when she knows that you are paying attention to her as you kiss her, it makes her feel beautiful and wanted. Not every passionate and great kiss happens with your eyes closed; no matter what the movies may tell you. For a woman, seeing that you think she is beautiful can be a lot more believable than hearing you say it. And as few women feel they are physically perfect, when a man is clearly attracted to her visually, she can't help but to feel loved and adored. You also have to respond to her and although this sounds easy, many men have complications with their responding. It only means that if she isn't slobbery, she probably won't want you to be, either. Same with aggressions and tongue. The more assertive she gets with her kiss, the more she'll appreciate your aggression. Also you have to use your entire body when kissing and not just your mouth. For many women kissing is an emotional experience and a woman responds to a man who uses his hands to stroke her face, his arms to hold her, and his chest to envelop her. A woman's lips when stroked and kissed will definitely heighten her need for you.
Many more unique locations on a woman's body may be found through careful exploration; it is important to remember that these spots can produce strong sexual feelings and should not be discounted simply because they are not the normal spot/spots a man attends to when having a sexual experience with a woman. A great deal of an enjoyable, sexual experience depends on both physical and mental stimulation and for that reason almost nothing can be discounted when trying to create a pleasurable experience. Such things as setting, aroma, and sound can be equally as important as touch when trying to arouse a woman. Knowing what your partner enjoys and taking the time to show them how much you enjoy pleasing them will often produce exciting, frequent, and memorable sexual experiences.
The 10 Definitions of What Every Woman Wants
1. Touch Without Motive: This is when you can simply touch your woman with no hidden intention, and nothing sexual as the motive. When you can walk up behind your woman and gently massage her shoulders while you place a soft kiss upon her cheek right before you whisper "Good morning". That in itself will cause that woman to want, need, and desire you in a way that only "sexual" touching cannot. We as men have to learn how to hold, caress, and comfort our women with the strength of our arms and warmth of our masculinity. Your woman should be able to simply lie with and/or under you without being mauled 5 minutes later. Emotional touch yields far better results than sexual touch alone.
2. Attention Without Obligation: Attention without obligation is the most simple to form as habit out of all the definitions I present. Basically it means to be attentive to your woman without feeling that you have to be. Men tend to show affection and/or some form of attention after a heated discussion has taken place as to why he doesn't already. This will last until the effects of the discussion wear off, and then he's back to his normal way of response. It is in a man's nature to show real attention to and passion for those things which are most important to him. We pay attention our favorite sports although we have no obligation to the team, yet we can't pay that same degree of attention to our women just because they deserve it? I question why that is.
3. A Safe Place Without Worry: Our culture has produced women who have become strong, independent, self-sufficient, and very well capable of handling their own business and taking care of themselves, without a man to do so for her. Times have definitely changed over the past 50 years and the June Cleavers of the world are a dying breed, although they still exist, and I respectfully commend the homemakers. I say all of that to say that still, no matter how self sufficient and/or successful, every woman desires to have someone there, that she has enough trust invested in, that she can run to and find escape from the stresses of her day to day life. A quiet and serene atmosphere, equipped with dinner, a bubble bath, and a peaceful night's sleep in your arms is sometimes all that woman needs to feel safe, and without fear, anxiety, or worry.
4. A Point of "Weakness" Without Concern: Women are the strongest of all of God's creations, and we know this, rather we admit to it or not. The feminine nature has a tolerance for pain that far surpasses any level that a man can imagine. This strength is not always present in the physical sense of build and/or muscle mass. This strength is more prevalent in a woman's capabilities physically and emotionally. From child birth, to monthly menstruation, to dealing with heartache, single motherhood, and so many other things that women tend to face more often than the average man does. With that in mind, commend your woman on being strong but also be strong enough to be her point of weakness when she needs you to be. All it takes is you being there, and her knowing that no matter what she may face and/or have to be concerned with, she has a man she can run to, let her guards down with, release her weary soul into, and find refreshment with. Women thirst for men who are strong enough to handle and take care of her when she feels the need to be weak, looked after, and cared for a little more than the normal amount of "caring" on any given day.
5. Prayer Without Ceasing: I believe that a woman admires and esteems a man who knows how to pray over her, and their family if they share one together. This is neither a question of religion nor a question of the god that you may serve. This simply means that you should know how to go before the Lord in prayer for your woman and family. To simply lay your hands upon your woman's head, right before she wakes and right after she lies down to sleep, and say a soft prayer is an amazing feeling for that woman to experience. Some women have never experienced it, and therefore they won't understand this point. But there is truth to it, and once it is experienced her love for you will blossom immensely. And just a side note; for a woman to see you lay your hands upon the head of a child who was fathered by another man, who may or may not be in the picture, is a most beautiful sight to behold. For that, she will fall even deeper for you. For you to take the accountability upon yourself, before God, for a child that's not yours by the standpoint of blood, will soften that woman's heart for you to degrees I cannot even comprehend. I just know it to be true.
6. Compassion Without Question: A woman should never have to question rather or not her man has compassion for her. Compassion is not love, compassion is not "deep sex", and compassion is not sacrificial. Now compassion does involve love because it is birthed from it, but it goes beyond love, not to say that it's stronger, it's just different from it. Deep, slow, melodic sex has nothing to do with compassion, although compassion can lead you to that. Sacrifice is with reason, compassion must come without it. Compassion is a man's ability to cry with and for his woman when she's hurting. Compassion is noticing that your woman is hurting without her even telling you. Compassion is the two of you sharing such an emotional connection that God himself speaks to you concerning her well being. Compassion is having a heart that feels your woman's heart rather close or from a distance. Compassion is when you can feel that woman in your very soul, and the feeling causes you to cry because of the depth in which you understand her, and thus understand yourself.
7. Passion, Foreplay, and MorePlay: Most women, not all, require more than the act of sex to be completely satisfied. The act of sex can be a beautiful experience rather intense or soft, extreme or normal, fast or with a slower pace. The atmosphere and acts surrounding the actual intercourse mean so much more than the intercourse itself. My own personal definition of intercourse is the act if entering into a course of pleasure that will ultimately blow that woman's very mind, each and every time. When you involve passion, foreplay, and moreplay the act of sex becomes addictive to a point that she will crave you, desire you, want you, need you, and chase that ultimate high every time that she is with you. And it is your responsibility as a man to supply that high and so many others every time she shares her body with you. When a woman has sex with you she allows you to enter into her, and that in itself is a privilege that we as men take for granted. Just think about it for a moment; a woman is allowing you to enter into her. That indeed is amazing to me. Therefore you have to be passionate with and attentive to her body, utilize the elements of foreplay and stimulating all of her senses. Moreplay is simple; take her beyond your orgasm. It's selfless and not selfish. Meaning, do not let the scene conclude just because you have an orgasm. Take her further and allow her the pleasure and opportunity of sweet surrender to those sexual things unfamiliar.
8. For You To Just Listen: This is self explanatory, and so easy to accomplish yet we as men tend to have a problem mastering this act. Sometimes all your woman wants is for you to listen. Give her your ear, undivided attention, and patience as she talks with you about anything from how her day went to where she feels she is going as a woman, to where she sees your relationship headed. If more men took the time to listen to our women, we would better understand them, value them, esteem them, and our women would be much happier than they are. All it takes is you listening to her, responding when you need to or not at all if she doesn't need you to. It is possible to listen without response, and sometimes that works best. Sometimes all she needs to do is vent, so let her.
9. Responsibility Without Conflict: This one is age-old and most needed in today's relationships. Men, and I use the term loosely with this definition, have become lazy and we have become more caught up in hip hop fantasies, and video games than we are in being a responsible, hard working, and mature man. Men lack responsibility from the simplest things like taking out the trash, cutting the grass, and washing the dishes, to the more serious issues such as providing financial stability, emotional security, and taking care of your children rather you are with that woman or not. What happened to us, as men? And where have all the real men disappeared to? The men who know how and when to be aggressive. The men who know when it's time to compromise and when it's time to be immovable. The men who know how to be soft, sensitive, and attentive, but they also know how to take charge, and take care of home. Why is there a conflict between men and women when a woman questions our lack of real responsibility?
10. Love, Without Condition: Love without condition is the most powerful form of love there is. In today's society we use the word love too loosely, and we don't really mean it when we say it. Love without condition is the hardest form to master because human nature tells us to hold grudges, be unforgiving, cheat when not satisfied, and be all for self. There is no greater feeling to experience, but there is no harder emotion to develop. We tend to be too cynical and judgmental at times to develop this form of love. Love without condition overpowers our very nature in the fact that you will die for that person if you have to, and you will live for that person because you want to.
The Man's 2-Technique Guide to Making Love; without Having Sex
Many men tend to not understand the fact that women are emotional beings, and the total opposite of us in our thinking, actions, and reactions. As men, we sometimes tend to respond to the needs, wants, desires, and concerns of our women the same way we respond to one another; with a distant concern that's friendly, yet sometimes unapproachable, unreliable, unrealistic, and/or uninvolved. Most men don't embrace the problems of their male associates or friends, while most women show sympathy, empathy, care, and concern when one of their female associates or friends has a problem. We as men have to learn to deal with our women differently than we deal with one another. We also have to learn how to properly love them and show them affection without always expecting or insinuating sex. There is a vast difference in the amount of time men and women spend thinking about sex, and sexually related situations. Women tend to think more about making an emotional connection, than they do making a physical one. An unhidden revelation that all men should take heed to is the fact that developing an emotional connection with your woman would make the physical one you have with her so much better and more exciting. Listed are two simple techniques that men can use to help them develop that most important emotional connection. These are not techniques that men could and/or should use to manipulate sex. These are techniques that men could and/or should use to make the most important aspect of the relationship better; the emotional one. Because after sex, if there is nothing to hold on to, then why hold on? Men, don't believe the myth that sex will keep a woman with you. Most women would settle for mediocre sex and a beautiful emotional connection, than awesome sex and a lifeless emotional disconnection.
Technique 1- The Direct-to-Connect-Effect
The Direct-to-Connect-Effect is when a man makes it a point to take the time to share his thoughts and feelings directly, without reservation and without preparation, with his woman. Without reservation, meaning don't hold back how you feel and what you think about things that involve her and even those that do not. She wants to know you, and how you feel about things that may not even involve her. A woman feels that if you're letting her in and giving her the opportunity to really get to know you, she then has no reason to not do the same for you in return. Believe it or not most women don't want the relationship to be all about them; they really do want to know more about you. Without preparation, meaning don't let this time taken be so scripted that it's expected and without any real spontaneity. Women love it when their man is spontaneous, and you will get a better reaction if you simply let your woman know that there are some things that you would like to talk about with her; some feelings and/or thoughts that you would like to share. She may be totally surprised by you taking this approach with her, and that's a definite good thing. Also, when you talk with her don't let your words flow so robotically out of your mouth that they sound more like a practiced speech than they sound like your truest thoughts and feelings. Sometimes "Umm" "You know" and "I mean" work so much better than seemingly practiced and flawless rhetoric.
How does this technique help out when it comes to sex you ask?
When a woman feels as though she shares an uncommon but wonderfully welcomed emotional connection with her man, she is more inclined to open up the floodgates of her emotions, during sex, thus making the sexual experience so much better for her and him. When women feel pressured to have sex, they feel obligated to have sex, or they have sex to keep you off of them for the next 4-5 days, and there is no emotional attachment, that emotional detachment will cause her to be unsatisfied with the sexual relationship. When a woman is unsatisfied, especially emotionally, you will know, and in the end every aspect of your relationship (including the sex) will suffer because of it. Also, an emotional connection helps a woman come to her point of climax, and when she knows that she can reach that beautiful point with you she is more inclined to stay with you and not stray from you and/or leave you all together. Women need that emotional connection. They need conversation; open conversation. They need to feel as though they share an emotional relationship with us and not just a physical one. Plus you'd be surprised at how much you opening up to her turns her on sexually. When you open up and talk to her about your views on anything from your relationship, to politics, to social issues, your woman is immediately drawn more into you and her attraction for you becomes stronger, and the end result is- the sex becomes better.
Technique 2- The Anticipation Stimulation Technique
This technique is simple to master, as long as you are willing to invest the time it takes to learn and master it. The Anticipation Stimulation Technique is simply when you can provide enough non-sexual stimulation for your woman, that she then anticipates being close to you and sharing wonderful sexual experiences with you. There are an enormous amount of things that you can do to produce this type of stimulation in your woman. Open communication, again is an essential key and can cause your woman a stimulation that automatically makes her feel the need to be close to you. Acts of chivalry and romance work wonders as well. Anything from being the "perfect" gentleman to cooking dinner for her, bathing her in a nice bubble bath, giving her a full body massage after a long day, or taking the kids out of the house so she can have some alone, time to relax can produce a more marvelous stimulation than your routine and/or predictable act(s) of "foreplay". You have to perform acts that will let her know that you are in tune with her well being, and engaged in always being a part of it. Don't be so reluctant to do those things that she keeps asking you to do with her, that she enjoys doing; she's asking you for a reason. Come outside of your box and do those unexpected, extra ordinary things that will surprise her and definitely spark some physical stimulation as well. Read up and increase your knowledge when it comes to the things that the majority of women like and/or enjoy, outside of the bedroom. You'd be surprised at how much you may like and/or enjoy them as well. Cosmo, Essence, Glamour, and "women's only" magazines like them are not just for women only so use them as tools to gain information from the latest fashion crazes to something as simple as applying nail polish. This way you have more conversation pieces, you can even enjoy shopping with your woman, and what woman wouldn't be turned on by a man who takes the time to polish her fingernails and toes in a nice Rosy Future from O-P-I? It's a pinkish opaly color. Stay away from neons, orange tone reds, and any trendy tacky colors. J
How does this technique help out when it comes to sex you ask?
When a woman is stimulated by you outside of the bedroom, she is more open and inclined to perform better for you and with you inside of the bedroom. When your woman knows that you share common likes and interests, you are interested in and in tune with what she likes and likes to do, you are sweet, compassionate, and attentive without it having to be sexual, and you are open to learning new things with her and for her, she becomes more attracted to you because of your involvement with her. An involvement that's not just about sex.
The Bottom Line
Men need to evolve emotionally, and this is no secret. That evolution comes with us gaining the knowledge it takes to please our women beyond only sexual pleasures. We have to take hold of the tools necessary to be entire men and not just partial sexual ones.
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