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Member Since:

September 29, 2000
Age:

43
Relationship Status:

Involved/Partner
Education:

Bachelor's Degree
Primary Job:

Healthcare - Social Services/Mental Health
Location:

Charlotte, NC
Race:

Black/African American

recent blog posts

It is what it is.....

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I don't require your approval or validation to make me the person that I am,
With every flaw, little quirk I have and the habits that some don't get about me have done just that, just fine
So it is what it is.
I am who I am, in all my splendor
From the top of my head to the soul of my feet and all that lies in between.
Love it or leave it because,
It is what it is.
They say what you see is what you get,
So if you see my attitude, or see the love that I exude freely and true
Just know that... (continue reading)

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I won't beg

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I won't beg you to love me and I won't beg you to stay,

I won't beg for some comfort at the end of a long day....

Won't put my heart on the line to make you stay in my life

I am fine being your friend instead of your lover or wife.

I have begged far to long to just make you a part of my world.

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LISTEN CLOSELY

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THE WORDS FROM MY HEART RUN DEEP BUT DO YOU REALLY HEAR WHAT THEY ARE SAYING? THEY SCREAM "I LOVE YOU, I NEED YOU, I WANT YOU"!!! BUT CAN YOU HEAR IT? YOU ONLY SEE ME FROM THE SURFACE BUT THERE IS SO MUCH MORE TO ME. YOU JUST HAVE TO LISTEN CLOSELY. MY TEARS, MY SMILE OR EVEN MY SOLEMN MOOD DOESNT SPEAK LOUDER THAN MY HEART DOES. IT SAYS "COME CLOSER, HOLD ME, KISS ME....LOVE ME" BUT CAN YOU HEAR THAT? NO, BECAUSE YOU SEE THOSE EMOTIONS AS ME ACTING OUT OR BEING MEAN. LOOK... (continue reading)

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Loving you

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We met so suddenly and its like we've known each other forever. We finish one anothers sentences, you pray for me harder than I pray for myself. You know I don't like ketchup on my fries and I know that your coffee has to be lukewarm before you can drink it. But why is this....because its love. You walk with me in the rain and I watch football when I really want to shop. You wash my hair and paint my nails, and dont care what your boys think about it. I pick up your shirts from the cleaners... (continue reading)

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I can only be.....

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So you think I am to dark to light, overweight or to thin but sweetheart I can only be me.
You dont like the shape of my nose or the sound of my laughter but thats just who I am.
Maybe my hips are to wide and my breasts to ample but they are what makes me who I am.....ME.
The color of my eyes and the twist of my lip,
The flow of my hair is who I am from my head to my foot.
You have a choice and an opinion to choose what fits your likes
So dont fault me for the stride in my walk or the bounce... (continue reading)

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Forgetting those things which are behind

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The Bible says we should forget the things which are behind and press towards the prize of the high calling in Christ Jesus. Then why do we live life on yesterdays mistakes, cares and troubles? We are supposed to cast our cares on Him because He cares for us. Be we forget that the troubles of this life come to make us stronger and to make us rely on someone who is higher than we are.
Okay so you are divorced or your children are running a muck...what is worrying about those things going to... (continue reading)

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TIME FOR A CHANGE......

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UPDATED 7/24/2010

Okay...I felt I need to make some changes to my page.

It seems that people really still don't get it. People come by and read my profile and out of all the things I wrote....they still dont get it. I don't need someone to validate me, nor to stroke my ego. I am me and I love ME. Stop basing who you think I am by what you think you see. Beauty is more than skin deep. What looks good to you, is not always good for you. I have gone through a huge transformation over the last couple months. I am ever growing and ever evolving!!! I have made mistakes that I know only God can judge me for. But the one true thing is that I am a loving person and if you give me the same respect, you will get the same respect. I have to say that just because a person has been hurt doesnt mean that they will reside in that hurt forever. We have to learn to love people through there hurt praying that they will be better people in the end. Without sorrow, you dont know how to appreciate the times of joy!!!! I am a 6`1", woman of class, sensuality, and style. I don`t have time for games, nonsense, or drama...Soooo, if you don`t bring any- you won`t get any! (Comprende For all the Brothas who slept on this Sistahs of Size (SOS), you may have missed out on a GOOD THANG!!!!! Everyone knows that bigger is always better..If Ya Don`t Know, Now Ya Know! This is a new day and I have a few things to say!!!! I am so tired of men on BP coming with the same lame, weak and tired lines. I am not a man basher but women are getting tired of being lied to, made promises that don't pan out or given excuse after excuse. If you can't come correct then say that up front and give us the option to decide if we still want to deal with you. There are some incredible men out there and it makes it hard for the real men to get an opportunity at love because so many women have been hurt that they don't trust men at all. People....lets be real about what it is we want. Its time out for games. Life is to short for all the nonsense.

Here are a few things to think about when dealing with people and life:

1)Each new day is a blessing, view it that way

2)Love is too precious and life too short to be taken for granted! (Ya feel me)

3)Never tell someone you love them, if you really don`t

4)A broken heart is like..a broken mirror. It is still usable in spite of being in pieces, but it`s never quite the same...ONCE BROKEN

5)Just because someone doesn`t love you like you think they should, doesn`t mean they don`t love you with all they have

6)Be careful with the heart of others. Stop pretending with people, if your intentions are not the same as theirs Leave them alone!

7)Value LOVE and LIFE, and your COMMITTMENTS, they are

8)Love hard and fight for what you believe even harder. If you don`t stand for something, you`ll fall for anything. AMEN

9)Even when you can`t be real with those around you, be real with yourself. Nothings worse then denying the truth to yourself

10)Be there when you think you aren`t needed; lend a hand to another when you really need one lended to you and love like its your last day on earth

I call myself Chocolate, because I melt in your heart and I leave an impression on your soul !!! (LOL PEACE AND LUV TO YOU ALL!!!)

Sagittarius - Your Love Profile

Your positive traits:

Your playful nature brings out the happy inner-child in dates
You're willing to take risks in love... and reap the rewards
You've got a killer sense of humor that gets talking with any hottie you meet

Your negative traits:

Sometimes your sarcasm comes off as biting and abrasive
You can be brutally honest, tactless, and truthful even when it hurts
You're such a free spirit that you find it hard to commit to one person

Your ideal partner:

Someone high energy who will pick up and out with you whenever
Is creative and fun - thinking of new adventures for the two of you
Is bold... and not afraid to tell you "I love you" early on

Your dating style:

Unpredictable. You never know how the night is going to end up.

Your seduction style:

Daring. You're always pushing to try something new in the bedroom.
Full of imagination. You've always got a new fantasy you're dying to try.
Spiritually driven. Sex for you can be an other-worldly act.

Tips for the future:

Realize that while freedom is great - sometimes a stable relationship is better.
It's not all about you. Focus on your partner's needs every once and a while.
Make up your mind about your partner, and stick to it. Your fickle will ruin things otherwise.

Best color to attract mate: Purple

Best day for a date: Thursday

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