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    COFFEE_MALE

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  • Sex:

    Male

  • Dating Preference:

    Female

  • Relationship Status:

    Single

  • Last Login:

    February 01

  • Education:

    Some College Coursework Completed

  • Primary Job:

    Healthcare - Medical & Dental Practitioners

  • Location:

    Lawrenceville, GA

  • Race:

    Black/African American


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PLEASE TAKE MY POLL BY SIMPLY CLICKING ON AN "X" IN FRONT OF THE ITEM YOU WANT.  THANK YOU BEAUTIFUL.  Feel free to write me and tell me why you picked what you did and why. 

 HAPPY 2011 FOR THOSE WHO NEVER THOUGHT THEY WOULD MAKE IT HERE.  (well you did)  Congradulations!! 

 I want to wish everyone on BP that all change that is positive comes your way in 2011.  No matter the relationship, personality conflicts, or just the fact that your just a plain ole jackazz.  Hahahahaha!  We all deserve something good to happen. 

 

 Peace and love everyone. I'd like to meet some of the most down-to-earth people who are not carrying major chips on their shoulders. I don't think anyone has NOT had a bad experience one time or another with dating, and never assume you're the only one who has. Now you don't have to play hard-to-get with me.

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Ladies please stop being rude to the guys who try to be nice to you.  Just because he is not thuggish or overly macho does not mean he is fragile or metro.  it just means he is NICE!  You know!  Kind, Polite, Mature, Respectful!!  OK!  So please stop looking through your messages for the guy with the best lines.  Just because someone talks a good game doesn't mean he is good for you.  It just means he has had plenty of practice perfecting his game plan.

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Let me offer some common sense.  If you have a sexual nicname such as: Wet___, Cum___, 69 , or some other obviously inviting name, do NOT get upset when all you get is a bunch of hornly guys desperate for temporary effection that come a knocking.  It's your fault and not theirs for getting the "wrong" idea. 

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I admit that I am not much for talking about myself. So please ask if you want to know anything personal about me. I can tell you that I am not a difficult individual to get to know. I do have a good sense of humor, so you will certainly have a great time getting to know me. Quiet evenings, movies, ect...you name it. Lets do it! Do you like 80's and 90's old school hip hop and r&b music?~

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+++MENTAL NOTE+++ No men please. I am as far from being down with you as you are from planet Pluto right now. I've always say," Like 7up...never have...never will."

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It seems as though a lot of women are still taking that low road and waiting for Mr. Right to come looking for you. Well while you turn into dust waiting on that to happen, I'd rather take my chances with someone who isn't afraid to make that first move and believe me...the high road is a great way to go. If you want to flatter me, then bring it. I like a bold woman who isn't afraid to say what is on her mind whenever she feels, however, she knows that being bold does not mean being disrespectful or rude.~

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I like to date...DATE! D-A-T-E not just to sleep with you or one night stands or hit n runs. If I'm lucky, I may go on a quality date once a month. That does not mean that I got lucky. LoL! Even if I did get lucky, I'd be mature enough to at least call you the next day.

I think, for me, a great date would be someone who asks me out and actually shows me a good time for a change. (wishful thinking) I feel that if you see something you like, make a move and step up. Nowadays the rules of the game are much different so, if your still living in the old chivalry days...good luck.

Now if your tired of dating a lot of DUDS, just imagine how we feel when we are the ones who are actually PAYING to take them out also. That is why so many men don't spend alot of time courting as they used to. (just keeping things real) It doesn't mean that it's ok for you to settle at all. It just is what it is sometimes. ______________________________ ______________________________ ____________________________

I do find a woman who is funny, loves to smile, obviously intelligent, and not scared to tell a guy what she wants to be sooooo sexy. WOW!~ Now Dats Whats Up!____________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

Now, if you took the time to actually read my page and not just look at the photos, then by now you will either like or dislike what I have to say. It's ok either way. I think you are still beautiful in your own way. Just don't get it twisted and think that you'r so fine that I won't dismiss you'r behind. I am a real man who does not think with the wrong head.

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NO! I do not have a nicname for my ipod nor my GPS unit. I especially don't name my D__K either!

 

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I have learned from personal experience that love is something that everyone wants...yet no one truly understands. I still know, however, that in order to maintain it you must be willing to learn how to compromise and forgive. (A lot) lol.

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OK. I know this is going to offend most of you, but this is important for me to tell you. I am not religious. I am spiritual, however.

I know I am going to get a lot of needless comments from plenty of peanut factories for saying this, however, it is what it is. You are not going to say any magic words to make me into something I am not. Most likely whatever you think of I have heard it already.

I do understand that if its a path you must follow, then I will gladly get out of the way. I respect and whole heartedly understand. I have given up love to let someone follow their heart because I am totally selfless. I will again if necessary.

 

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There is nothing worst in this world than someone who is FICKLE. I would rather get hit by a speeding train than to fall for a woman who needs to sleep with around in order to find herself. Most likely they need a real live psychiatrist, so please get one. (ok...maybe not a speeding train...I'd settle for a speeding Nurf football instead) lol.

 

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I notice more so than ever that people are starting to make their pages private. I feel that if you can't openly share what you have to say, then what is the point in having the page. Just block those who you do not want to view you.

I personally do NOT like having to ask for permission just to check you out. Especially if you come to my page to view me and you have a private page, I will not respond. It makes my life much better.

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If you talk to each other on the phone and then after a month or two passes by and you have not spoken to one another again, most likely you either did not WANT to take time or did not have enough intrest in the convo to get a friendship going. So, do NOT get angry if you text them and they don't remember you. Duhhh! We all want to be significant in other people's lives. So if You want them to remember who you are, then how about You calling too. Your fingers work just fine too I'm sure.

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**BREAK GLASS IN CASE OF EMERGENCY!!!!**

This is what it would read on some of your foreheads but, its only visible to your ex boyfriends or flings that are still calling you months or sometimes even years after the relationship is over. It's their way of keeping you on their virtual waiting list in case they run out of sex partners. So who is on your waiting list?

 

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 Everyone is just a little bit shallow sometimes, so we look for people who are attractive in our own eyes; however, it does not mean that if you are model material that everyone you meet will find you attractive in THEIR eyes.

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OK....after a long break....I'm back again with more of my wonderful insight on dating. 

Well...let's start off with women who seem to have what I call a "male mentality."  I mean those who feel getting aback at men by feeling all men are dogs, so they want to dog men back.  What is the point of that?  Not all men want a diffrent women every night...personally I want one women for a lifetime....ever night of my life.  Can I git a whoop!  whoop!   

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If you still "SORT OF" like your EX, and your running into another room to talk to him every time he calls because your afraid he will get mad at you if you dont answer his every call, then its obvious that you DO NOT need to be out dating other men.  We are not stupid you know.  Some of us have been that "EX."  Duhhh!!

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I understand that this economy has been a total %#&@$! but, It still doesn't give any woman the right to ask a man for a loan after you only went out on one...I said it...uno...(1) date with him.  Only in GA.  WTF?!!?   I had it happen to me on three occasions. I simply tell then "NO," and follow it up with a "please delete my number" right after it. Talk about pathetic.  Hell!  You better buy ME dinner and tell me you love ME first...lol.

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I see the gold diggers are coming out of hibernation how.  They discriminate against people who do not have a job, or are in dire straits.  Keep in mind that some of those people are YOU!  So don't assume that someone is trying to shack up with you because he is not wealthy and still wants to holla.  Broke people get horny too, so don't be so damn stingy with it.   Break him/her off a piece and help them regain their confidence.

Hahaha! Just kidding! Be "selective,"  but not so stingy that you overlook you knight in shining armor who just may just need to shine his suit up a little. 

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Now can someone please tell me who it is that women will not respond when a guy has something nice to say just because your not interested but, if you don't like something he says, you cuss him out like he stole your wallet?!  Try being nice to him even if you think he is a troll.  That same troll might be rolling nice in his Mecedes or BMW and roll up just when you are taking his order at the drive thru.  Smart azz...

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