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Well, I have had the pleasure and blessing of celebrating my
42nd Birthday. Initially it was a bitter-sweet day for me because
of memories from my past. The day in itself was a wonderful day, it
was the year's that reminded me of someone and I guess I
self-imposed a cloud over that particular year. Since the day has
past, I can say that I am better...much better! I have had the
pleasure of meeting a new friend whom thus far is a really nice
person. But as in all situations with me I am in a constant state
of hmmm? Today at the get-together some of you from BP showed up
and some of you didn't get the chance. I am thankful to you all
just the same. There is one person in particular whom I really
wanted to attend but, circumstances dictated otherwise. Regardless,
it was what it was and I am still sittin' upon a
cloud..
I Believe That our background and circumstances May have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become. I Believe That no matter how good a friend is, they are going to hurt you once in a while and you must forgive them for that. I Believe That just because someone does not love you the way you want them to, does not mean they don't love you with all they have. I Believe That it takes a while to become the type of person you want to be. I Believe That you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see each other. I Believe That you either control your attitude or your attitude controls you. I Believe That money is a lousy way to measure your self worth I Believe That sometimes when I'm angry and I have the right to be angry, but that does not give me the right to be cruel. I Believe That it is not enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes you have to forgive yourself. I Believe That no matter how badly your heart has been broken, the world does not stop for your grief. I Believe That people you care about most are taken away far too soon. I Believe That life is far more precious than money. Consider being a little less selfish. As men, we are not banished from the kitchen. There is nothing wrong with fixing something to eat for that special someone. There is nothing wrong with us waiting on that special lady when she comes home from work. Doing the things that she normally does will not only benefit her but, it will benefit you. No I don't mean in a sexual way. Do you men realize that women consider it attractive for their man or any man for that matter to prepare a meal for them? I strongly suggest that you do these things for your lady without any expectation at all! Too many times we do little things in expectance for some type or reward...(usually sexual). Men stop being caught up into believing that making love to your lady is simply a back rub and jump on. There really is more to it than that. Take the time to place rose petals all over the room leading her to a candle lit hot bath tub full of soap and water. Take the time to give her a sponge bath, dry her off, and then give her a massage without touching any of the erotic areas. You will learn the benefit of doing these things. Ladies, feel free to do the same things to your man. We may appear to be hard but only you know who we really are when the doors close.
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