Charmcity_Maturity I kno God never gives me more than i can handle but Damn..sometimes i wish he didnt trust me so much. lol - March 29, 2011 add/view comments (2) |
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Take a minute to read the page. Whats up Blackplanet. My name is Nate. Im not new to BP but I stepped away for about two years and now Im back to see whats new on the Planet. Im just here to pass some time by when I cant find anything on tv and I dont feel like reading another book, or going out for a night on the town. Hopefully I can make some new friends on here while Im at it. Im 28 years old, no kids, no girl, and no drama. I stand at 6'1 and I weigh 220 lbs. Im from Baltimore. I live alone (just purchased my first home last year) and Im just a cool, laid back man enjoying the blessings God has given while doing my best to show him Im appreciative. I take nothing for granted. As Ive gotten older and started taking the time to really try to understand women, Ive noticed that their past experiences are the major factors in molding them. Though it may be necessary, it is also unfortunate. A lot of women are coming into relationships with baggage and unnecessary drama because of what the previous men in their lives did. This is really making it hard for the good men out here. We now have to deal with the trust issues, the reinforced walls they have up and the comparisons to your dumb azz. Lls. Remember that 90% of women with this baggage and drama are so because they dealt with a man that was unable to step up and do what was needed of him as a man. The other 10%....well...I cant really call it. There are some crazy azz women out here. Lol. There comes a point in the interaction when one realizes that he isnt able to provide certain things. If you come to this conclusion and its something thats important to that woman that you cant provide, let her go homie. Why give yourself a headache dealing with her slick comments and questions when you dont need to? Save both of you the trouble and let her move on. We (men), myself when I was a younger man included, need to realize that we need to respect our women and treat them like the Queens that they are. Our black women are birthing our future generations and even if she can't recognize it yet, she's still a Queen and its still on us to show them their due respect. There was a point in my life when I wasnt ready or able to accept my potential. My only saving grace was that I refused to be the person the jealous haters wanted me to be. I knew I was a King but theres a certain maturity that comes with that throne that I didnt feel I was ready for. Now that I have it, I can honestly say...the crown aint as heavy as I thought it would be. I mean this...Im not here to preach to anyone. Truthfully, most of whats written is me putting myself up on game and life. I never really had anyone in my life that I respected enough to take advice from on matters like this. I damn sure respect myself so I figured who better than I to have a sit down with and drop some knowledge while Im at it? I know what its like to lose something special by being too blind to recognize. At 27, Im still dealing with the results of my actions at the age of 21. I'll tell you what though, it will never happen again. My past has also molded me. I love women with a passion. One day, I'll be blessed again with her (the woman thats right for me). And when that happens, youll see an update to this page. So what's up with the Screen name? Its pretty simple. Baltimore's nickname is Charmcity and your experiences is what make you the person that you are today. They should mature you. My City and my experiences has helped to shape and mold me just as much as my mother has. A parent can do their best to instill in you all the morals and principles they can, but its on the individual to decide if they're going to exhibit those qualities and apply those teachings when they are out in the streets. Ive had the chance to learn from my family teachings, school teachings, and street lessons. If those cant develop a mature and intuitive man, theres is no hope for him. Life...life is truly a blessing. Im happy with the man Ive become and the man that I will be. I love to see the smile on my peoples' face when they look at me. Your family is always going to love you but when they appreciate you...thats a special feeling. You see the tip that Im on. My screen name and my words on this page say it all so Im not going to rap you all to death. I just wanted to give you some insight into the man you're seeing all over this page. If you would like to converse and get to know more about me, hit me up. If not, I'll see you around the Planet. Peace |
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