main photo

    Chef4days

contact me

  • Sign Guestbook
  • Report Abuse
  • Block Member
  • Report Spam

personal info

  • Member Since:

    January 28, 2004

  • Sex:

    Male

  • Age:

    54

  • Relationship Status:

    Widowed

  • Education:

    Vocational

  • Location:

    Winston Salem, NC

  • Race:

    Black/African American

  • Zodiac:

    Aries


schools

This member hasn't added any Schools yet.

Recommend this profile to your Facebook friends.

personal message

HELLO,

Welcome to the world of the Chef4days. I am just here to add some flavor to the Planet. If you need to savor my flavor, hit me up with a note.

Everyone is welcome to the table as long as you remember proper dining etiquette.....no elbows on the table, no smacking,lol..... ......no licking the plates,lol...........etc....et c...
I don`t mind sharing recipes, cooking techniques, tips, what have you.I am a Chef/Caterer/Chef for hire. This is what I do!

***To see photos of me...........LOOK AT MY LINKS!!

For a closer look, email me or IM me. Leave a note and I shall oblige you with all of the essentials.
IM`S:
Yahoo
chef4hire2001
AOL
slow2burn4
Hotmail
chef4days
BON APPETIT!

form method="get" action="http://finance.groups. yahoo.com/subscribe/chef4hire" >












Subscribe to chef4hire




name="Click here to join chef4hire"
src="http://us.i1.yimg.com/us. yimg.com/i/yg/img/i/us/ui/join .gif">

Powered by finance.groups.yahoo.com




A little about me...
To all of the men on here posing as women, you need to stop the MADNESS! There are many of you here dressed as women and wish you all would man up and stop perping! I am a FOR WOMEN ONLY MAN!
I contradict myself. I am large. I contain multitudes.-Walt Whitman. Why no pictures in your profile???? No Picture, no response. A picture is worth a thousand words. Also, I think it is important that you have at least one recent full bodied picture in your profile. Afterall, you should be happy with whoever you are. Flaunt it! I love the life I live and I live the life I love!NO FLIRTS!By the way, I do drink wine. I am not a lush. If that is too "sinful" for you perfect women, well, I tip my glass to you! Lol. I love you all regardless. I love the arts; especially the visual arts. I am an artist. I write, draw, paint, cook,photograph life as I see it.I play chess. I listen to all music. I like to make you laugh. I love stimulating conversation. I am not a conformist, I am a free thinker with free will. I am an idealist/realist. I stand alone, yet I am not alone. GOD IS MY SOURCE!I am an avid reader and a prolific writer.

What are you looking for in a partner?
I am looking for something real.I have casual because that is what a relationship is before it can get off the gound. What is wrong with friendship? Contact me if you really want to know me! Please read my profile where it says "NO FLIRTS". If you send one, I may not acknowledge it. I prefer your own personalized message.Intelligent women, read where I say "NO FLIRTS!" I have had rebuttals to my no flirts. If you must flirt to break the ice, why not follow up? Hmmmmm...............I think you should use an ice pick to break the ice! Lol, I thought you'd like that one.

I'd just like to add...
Lol!Come on and allow me to get to know you. To know me is to know love itself!I am not perfect, but I do strive for perfection. Don't lower your standards but don't raise them so high that they can't be met. Expect to have only what you are willing to be or can give equally. Also, if you bookmark a brother, could you at least speak?
WOMEN Please don't fall for these okie doke Scams by these African Men (or any men) . Don't send the money! There are women on here doing the same things. Models' pictures and sweet messages etc.. CON GAMES! If they win your confidence(heart), they can get anything else. I have not been burnt because my mind and spirit direct me. DON'T EVEN TRY IT, Full Force won't buy it!!! Lol, you know who you are. Remember the song "POISON" by BBD? I don't fall for a BIG BUTT and a SMILE. Bring the substance!

CIAO BELLA!


Please be true to yourself and you shall have plenty of blessings. Being true is being true to your creator. I choose to serve my Lord now and forever. All that was broken has been fixed, all that was old has been renewed. I am rejuvenated through JOY!


No more pain
No more drama!


Motto

I play it cool
and dig all jive.

That`s the reason
I stay alive.

My motto is
as I live and learn.

Dig and be dug in return

-Langston Hughes

All the notes from the crazies must cease!

I am not looking for a Wife, Drama Queen,nor one that has too many issues with no answers.



FOOD FOR THOUGHT

I am a well seasoned veteran in affairs of the heart. I am sure you are as well. We`ve all had our share of life`s ups and downs. Don`t be bitter about the results of the choices you`ve made with your life. Put it all together and be honest about the mistakes you`ve made. Don`t blame anyone but yourself. Be optimistic and grow! Move on an drop the heavy load at file 13. In other words, put the trash in the trash can. Don`t go digging in garbage once you`ve discarded it. Be careful of what you trash and what you treasure.
Don`t forgive a person and then throw it in their face later. God never does this. We were made in his image so don`t say well, "Iam only human"! You and only you can be responsible for your actions. So, respond instead of being reactionary! Love yourself and God and you`ll never mistreat others. The golden rule comes from a golden spirit!



To respond is positive. It`s always easier and quicker to react than respond, but the wise option is to respond!

Failure is an event, not a person.

PROVERBS 10:9
TITUS 3:2
ECCLESIASTES 3:1
JAMES 4:2
REVELATION 17:14
ISAIAH 49:6

send note

You must login or register in order to send a Note.

comments from my friends

You need to be friends with Chef4days in order to leave them a Comment.

In the meantime, you can always sign their guestbook.

Comments (0)

Comments Options
Sort comments by: