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You Are Not Independent You've Simply Changed Who You're Dependant upon.It's not unfamiliar for a man to hear a woman bragging about her independence. She may do so, while also requiring that her potential mate be independent himself. But is she truly independent and what is independence?Independence is simply, being able to do for oneself without having to depend on another for livelihood or subsistence. In one instance I met a young woman who was extremely anxious to leave the nest. She wanted... (continue reading)
Fear an ignorant man more than a lion.old Kurdish proverb... I feel like a lot of us do actually have a natural fear of ignorant people. And, at the same time so many of our fears stem from our own ignorance. Fear of the unknown....! That is why, I think that it is best that people try and educate themselves about different cultures and societies. This world has so many different people. It is estimated that there are about 6.7 billion people alive on this planet today. All of us separated by... (continue reading)
"If you want to be respected, you must first be respectable...."
SELF PORTRAITS :
I DO MY BEST TO PROVIDE MY FRIENDS AND FAMILY WITH THE TRUTH.... IN THE PROCESS I GET A LOT OF HATE IN RETURN.... I GUESS THE TRUTH HURTS.....
I SAY WHAT I MEAN & MEAN WHAT I SAY! IM A MAN WHO LOVES INFORMATION! SOME PEOPLE GET ONLINE ALL DAY TO FIND A SIGNIFICANT OTHER... OTHERS GET ON TO GOSSIP... I STAY ONLINE IN SEARCH OF NEW INFORMATION. I SEEK TRUTH, KNOWLEDGE, & WISDOM...
I am a mixed fella from Durham NC. Half Black Half Puerto Rican. I am A web designer, an Ebay Power Seller, a college student, a photographer, a Flea Market & Street salesman, writer, film maker, a hip hop music producer, and a FATHER.... You can say I do a lot. MULTI-TALENTED! I have a passion for learning new things... Ive been through several school situations where I received certificates and degrees. Recently i finished a class for web design. Now I plan to take my education further, & expand my knowledge in Law, journalism, & business as well. I am currently a English/ Journalism major @ NCCU. I am also interested in learning more about e-commerce, graphic design, & film
For those of you who dont know me personally, you will be happy to know that I have been in a battle with cancer for a while and it seems that i have won! It has had me sitting on the sidelines of life, & I am anxious to get back in the game. I have been through two treatments(Chemotherapy & radiation). Its been tough, but Ive been handling it. Just not as active as I used to be... Oh and yes, i still have my hair! LOL... Lets hope there isnt a rematch!
I think that traveling is my all time favorite past time. Like Diddy, and Ma$e, I been around the world! Well... At least i've been around North America. LOL. I vacationed in Canada. I been white water rafting in Alaska. Been snorkeling in Mexico. Of course Ive been to Puerto Rico, And i've been to quite a few spots here in the good ole U. S. of A.
I have an affinity for beautiful women... Physical beauty is a wonderful quality to have but, A strong mind should be your most beautiful asset. I like women from all spectrum's of the rainbow, but the woman for me has to be well grounded. She has to feel comfortable being expressive and creative. She should be able to tell me whats one her mind without worrying about hurting my feelings. A woman who is street smart as well as book smart. A woman who has goals and aspirations for herself. The woman of my dreams will be able to deal with an artists lifestyle. She will, of course, have to understand that i am a father who is committed to keeping my son happy(spoiling him LOL). She will be my best friend, an inspiration, The love of my life!
All that said, I havent really been taking time to look for a relationship. It just hasnt been on my list of things to do. But, if one just happened upon me, I wouldnt say no.
LETS MAKE A TV SHOW, A VIDEO, A MOVIE!
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CHI`S WORDS OF WISDOM: I FAIL OVER ,AND OVER ,AND OVER AGAIN, AND THAT IS WHY I SUCCEED!
WORDS OF WISDOM:
ITS BETTER TO BE THOUGHT OF AS A FOOL THAN IT IS TO OPEN YOUR MOUTH AND REMOVE ALL DOUBTS!
Paint a perfect picture....
Bring to life a vison in your mind...
The beautiful ones always smash the picture....
Always every time....
-Prince, The Beautiful Ones
I Been A few spots out of the country too! They didnt have a button for Puerto Rico, Mexico, & Canada. Ive been those places too! I made my own little red dots to show off my other travels.
I WAS BORN TO DO IT!
I DESIGN SNEAKERS FROM TIME TO TIME TOO...
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