I see quite a few black women on this site asking that when you leave a note or comment for them that we respect them. I pose this question though...Isn't respect earned???? I hear people say on a daily basis that you have to earn they're respect.....

I believe respect is primarily based on a woman's character, rather than her accomplishments. If a woman is loving, kind, loyal... (continue reading)

I've been on this site now for a couple of years, I've seen hundreds of profiles & read alot of interesting things. The one thing that I keep seeing is that women on here want a man to keep it "100" with them, meaning that they want straight up honesty about everything a guy tells them. Is he married, does he have a girlfriend, does he have children, is he gay? That's all fine and dandy, but I think that you women should do the same in return. I've noticed that quite a... (continue reading)

There are three words in the English language that are way overused and cause way more trouble than they should in a relationship..."I LOVE YOU". Me personally, I love alot of people. I love my kids, my mom & dad, my grandmother, my dearest friends. But I ask you this, should those three words really be used for the woman that has come into my life & totally taken over my heart & soul??? True enough I do love her, but my... (continue reading)

Now ladies, if you know me then you know that I only write blogs about my experiences on this here Black Planet. My latest gripe has to do with all the extra stuff that yall have put on your pages. I mean how many comments can you copy & paste in your personal message spot??? If it takes you more than three seconds to view your page once you click on the "view my page" button, then you got WAY to much %#&@$! on there. No one wants to wait for all four of your slide shows, the... (continue reading)

I know that this one is gonna ruffle a couple of feathers, but it has to be said. Now alot of women have been saying on their pages that they are INDEPENDENT & that they don't need a man to help them with anything. That got me to thinking, how can a woman with three kids, a car note, a mortgage or rent payment, & all the other bills manage to stay truly INDEPENDENT while making just under $30,000 a year???? They say they're single so the kids father or fathers aren't around, and... (continue reading)