There are three words in the English language that are way overused and cause way more trouble than they should in a relationship..."I LOVE YOU". Me personally, I love alot of people. I love my kids, my mom & dad, my grandmother, my dearest friends. But I ask you this, should those three words really be used for the woman that has come into my life & totally taken over my heart & soul??? True enough I do love her, but my feelings run much, much deeper than that. Should I say those words to the woman that gives me butterfly's when I see her face or utter her name? Should I say those words to the woman that I would pretty much do anything for (within reason)? I don't think so. I am "In Love" with her! Being "In Love" with someone is a totally different feeling all together. Knowing that person is there for you in every capacity is not only comforting, but it really puts your mind at ease. Those of you old enough to know what it is to truely be in love know exactly what it is I'm talking about. But for those of you that are scratching your heads and saying to yourself that they are one in the same have never had the experience yet.

I've been told by older men & women in my life (talking about those that are 55 & older), that you only get one maybe two true loves in our entire existence on this planet. I've been "In Love", but for whatever reason my love wasn't being reciprocated. We are no longer together, but some of those feelings still remain with me to this very day. So my question to you is.... Was I truely "In Love" or did I just "Love" her???? Don't just answer this question, but let me in on your own personal experiences as well....I look forward to hearing from you all....Peace & Blessings......Cin

Now ladies, if you know me then you know that I only write blogs about my experiences on this here Black Planet. My latest gripe has to do with all the extra stuff that yall have put on your pages. I mean how many comments can you copy & paste in your personal message spot??? If it takes you more than three seconds to view your page once you click on the "view my page" button, then you got WAY to much shit on there. No one wants to wait for all four of your slide shows, the music, the kissing booths, & the "un-official" guestbooks to load before they get to know what you're all about.........Oh wait.......That's my page!!! Yeah I know. I got way to much crap on my page. No lie, it took me 8 minutes to finally view it one time, but I blame that on the cable company....(LOL). But sometimes patience has it's privileges. My goal is to make everyone that takes the time out of their busy lives & schedules to view my page an enjoyable experience. If this blog has put a smile on your face then I've done my job, Peace & Blessings to you all.....Cin

Alot of women ask their significant other why or what they were thinking about when they lie & cheat. Well I'm here to give you a males point of view, seeing that I have experience in this area..........

YEAH RIGHT!!!!!!! I'm not about to lose my MALE MEMBERSHIP CARD (smile)......Cin

I know that this one is gonna ruffle a couple of feathers, but it has to be said. Now alot of women have been saying on their pages that they are INDEPENDENT & that they don't need a man to help them with anything. That got me to thinking, how can a woman with three kids, a car note, a mortgage or rent payment, & all the other bills manage to stay truly INDEPENDENT while making just under $30,000 a year???? They say they're single so the kids father or fathers aren't around, and apparently aren't kickin' in on some of the expenses. My question is HOW do you do it??? No child support, no government assistance & still manage to do what yall do. Now, if you're getting a check from somewhere other than you're job my question to you is are you truly INDEPENDENT??? These are just my observations, please feel free to comment & speak the truth......Cin

Now ladies, I know that some of you like to take alot of pictures, but DAMN!!!! Please be aware of what's around & behind you when you do. I know that some of you really don't care, you just think that you took a really cute picture. But if you're going to post that "cute" picture on your page please learn how to edit & crop it first. I'm not being mean, I'm just saving you from alot of undo criticism..... Just think about it.....Cin

Now listen ladies, I know that some of you are going through some things, and some of these no good ass brothas are out here treating you like shit. But honestly, do 1/2 of you have to use her song on your page???? Now don't get me wrong. I love Mary J. just as much as the next, but this song is driving me up the F*#@!N wall. If you love Mary J. & know her history then try adding some of her old songs to your page. Just Fine is Fine, but please, try and be original. If you think I'm not telling the truth then do a search from a males point of view and listen for yourselves....Cin