Hello BP,
Thanks for reading my page. Let me say that I am a L-A-D-Y and I don't care to be referred to as "sweety", "sugar", "baby", "honey", "sexy", "shawty", "ma" etc. If you do, you may not get a response from me. READING is fundamental. Take a moment and read before addressing anyone, especially if they took to time to write a personal note. Obviously, they want to share something off top.
Just a "Hello, how are you? My name is..." is sufficient. I know there are many women who respond to such so called terms of endearment. Well, all women are NOT the same and for this one, to be greeted by someone, that I don't know, in such a way is a perturbation. Keep in mind that the approach that worked for one woman isn't guaranteed to work for the next. Now if you can write with correct grammar, understand subject-verb agreement, know that a complete sentence has a subject and verb, feel free to leave a note. Note: I am not critiquing typos, that is common and I understand that many think faster than they type. (Just wanted to clarify this.) Please note that there is no "Dating" tab on my page. I am not here to get dates. To be honest, I have never really dated and realize that for many dating translates to sex. I am not on BP for neither. I don't mind corresponding with people, exchanging views and opinions, I enjoy reading many blogs that are posted here. If you are on my page and you think you may be interested in CMoore, READ my page, look at the pics, pay attention to the music on my page, peruse my blogs...then send a note if you so desire. I tend to read my notes and if the notes are respectful, I peruse the page to assess the vibe the person gives off. However, if you are from Nigeria, Ghana, etc., I am not interested...please stop trying to IM me. I don't care for IMing and seldomly will accept them. Be sure to sign the guestbook. Be blessed!!
Below was posted Wednesday, March 19, 2008:
This year has definitely been a new beginning for me. I am short one sister and I have my moments dealing with the loss. I don't want to sound as though I am preaching BUT it may not be a bad thing. If you are reading this, please be sure to "manage your relationships." Don't let your significant other control you, demean or abuse you. I know it sounds crazy because (to me and possibly to you too) if someone is controlling, demeaning or abusive...that person SHOULD NOT BE anyone's significant other. Many of us can not see the forest for the trees.
My sister was brutally murdered back in November 2007, right after Thanksgiving. The suspect is an ex-boyfriend. She was 35 and had one son. I will never forget the 2:08 am phone call from my mother, "you have to come back home because your sister is dead. He stabbed her and set her house on fire." I had just left her home in Louisiana on a Saturday and found out she was murdered the next day.
My family and I are doing okay. We are standing on God's Word and we are prayerfully asking that HIS justice is served. I am just wanting to get the word out to women and yes even men.... Insecure people are dangerous, controlling people are not able to love ANYBODY. When TRUE love is present insecurities and control issues cannot be present. The ailment that many of us silently suffer from is a distorted perception of what love is. This distorted perception has allowed too many of us to connect with people who ultimately play a hand or (in too many occurences) are the hands in our physical, emotional, spiritual, mental and sadly mortal demise.
Love yourself enough to know when to walk away. Know that God loves you and if you truly want LOVE, first SEEK HIM. Don't blame yourself for another ADULT'S actions. You can not help someone who is unwilling to help themselves or to the point that you are damaged in your efforts to "help". I would also like to ask you to pray and ask God to SHOW all of US what LOVE is, we obviously have it TWISTED.
God is,
C
