I thought I
would change up my page a little and put up some info. that's not
too taxing on some people's brains...
Top 13 Questions I
Are you ready to
make it real? Just for you to proove urself right that you are
ready for this affairs.I like you and i wish to know you
--> OH! WoW! So what
you're saying is that you're going to give me the opportunity to
prove that I am ready for a relationshp with you... when all the
while, you've been approaching me with ideas of you wanting to get
HmMMmm! Now if I
was some weak-minded female... Looking for love... I would probably
fall for the reverse so called pysch. you're trying to load off on
me... HOWEVER... I am
If you were
really interested... you wouldn't try to run game... You would drop
the Big Pimpin appproach and you would come with some realness...
Let's try this one on for size... There are ample women on this
site who are looking for what you can an are willing to provide...
Try finding one of them and do what you do... because I am
Would you ever consider
NAW!... but what I
consider is broadening my thoughts on what it will take
for a man to be able to be the head of my household.... and to be
the man of my house... For instance... when I was in my 20s... I
was stuck on height... a man had to be so tall because for some
stupid reason, I associated security with height...
Just recently a close friend had to school me on the age gap
scenario... its not so much the age of the man... but the maturity
level and if he is able to provide the woman with that security
level and or sense of security that she needs to have... If he can
and he matches all of the other pre-reqs.. then age doesn't
11. If you aren't up on BP to
date, then why do you have a dating account?
Answer --> Other
than the obvious reason.. BECAuSE i
WANT ONE... It's so I can Look &
10. What is your ideal mate? What are you
Answer --> HmMm!
To tell you the truth... I am not looking for anything or anyone in
particular... what I am doing is WAITING... Patiently Might I
As for my ideal
Mate.... HmMMm! This could take a long minute... smile... but
honestly, someone who is as attracted to me as I am to him...
Someone who is a communicator... someone who is willing to give to
a relationship as much as I am... which takes dedication...
passion... and the ability to love and let God... My ideal Mate
isn't a control freak... but he's an in contol type of person...
he's strong yet affectionate... he knows how to keep me on my
toes... he's witty... smile... and is able to share some knowledge
with me... he doesn't have to be a brainiac... but he must have
some sense... and a brain... and knows how to use them
simultaneously!!! He has to be a man... just as I am a woman and
have no problem with being a woman for my man!!! And UmMMm!
Everything else falls into place and where they may...
9. Can I be your friend?
Answer --> Not
everyne knows how to be a friend... Tell me this.. what is your
definition of a friend... because in my book... friends do not
screw their friends... screw over their friends... nor do they
think about screwing with their friends > Please feel free to
replace the word Screw with another word... like one that starts
with the letter F and
ends in K and is
4 letters long
8. Are you from New York?
7. What's behind he Jersey?
Answer --> What in
the heck do you think... ME!
6. Why are you so bitter?
Answer --> HmMMmm!
Good quesion.. I never knew that I was.. HmMMm! Perhaps my dislike
of B.S. is rather thick.... and you are rather B.S.-ity... and I am
just reacting to your brand of B,S, HMMMmm! Yeah.. Perhaps that's
I am not bitter... I am a woman with a plan... Until the
RIGHT MAN for me
appears before me... I have no time for chumps.. and I know a chump
when I see him.. I am not judging anyone.. I just know what I
like.. and what is good for me... and until he who is good for me
appears... I am very protective of my body, mind and soul... and
where this woman won't put up with mess, I am sure there are plenty
of others who will... so if you are about running game... go find a
chica who's down for playing games... I am patiently waiting on my
REAL MAN thank
5. Do you like Poems because I would like
to share one with with
Answer --> If the
poem has anything to do with love. Nope, I Do Not Like
4. Can we exchange numbers because you
seem like someone would like to get to know better?
Answer --> Nope.
3. You're not really 36 are you?
Answer --> Yes,
really I am!
2. Does age really matter to
Answer --> Yes.
Age makes a difference as there aren't too many young men who are
successful when it comes to their careers, who can gain my
attention muchless, hold my attention. Also, I've met very few
young men who are able to communicate.. who are able to converse on
a level other than video games, rap artists, cars, clothing, dreams
of making mad dolla's, drama and sex.
SOoOoo! though I do not necessarily have
a cut off... Its still something that I factor in...I am simply not
one of those older women, cougars, who is seeking and searching for
a younger man to make her feel like Stella... as I have no desire
to have a LIKE Stella
Moment! Just a true love moment that hopefully lasts a
1. So why are you single?
Answer--> I am
single because I have no men in my friendship poole who I feel
comfortable enough with to date. I mean, sure there is one or two
in the poole.. but I don't know if they are really feeling me and
if they are really really REALLY interested in dating
SoooOooo! I am focusing on other things,
as I should be, until I things come around and to the point that I
feel like dating a partiucular MAN... and then HmMMmM! Yeah..
whatever... But UmMMm! Back to my second love.. LAW SCHOOL!
Oh! and then
there is the game play that goes on... a woman has to invest
TOO much time these
days to figure out if a man is really feeling her... or if he is
justing putting in extra and over time to TRY to feel here... Up and Down and all
around and what not...
Now, me personally, HmmM! I do not have any desire to ride that
particular brand of bunk until the wheels fall off... So I tend not
to even put my foot out there for the testing of such waters...
Because when a guy friend tells me that he likes me.. HmMMm! I tend
to allow his own words to save or sink him... If he likes me... he
will wet me know... if he is feeling me.. he will let me know...
and if he is wanting to go beyound friendship... I shouldn't have
to ask because it should be apparent to ME as... ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN
And besides... anything worth having is worth working for...
SOOoOoO! if a woman
comes too easy... trust me... she is probyyably too easy.. or very
easy... however you prefer to perceive it... BUT, if a woman shares with you... the
man... what makes her feel comfortable in this thing called...
PURSUING A WOMAN...
then that woman, like myself, just gave you, the man, one hell of a
tip... there is something to be said about security in a
If a man demonstrates a too carefree of an attitude as it pertains
to his desires to be in a steady relationship with that woman...
she WILL BE TURNED
OFF!!! Because security means a lot to us... We
just don't want our man for an evening or a year... we want him for
a lifetime... or what seems like a lifetime... he he he... hence,
the reason behind a man pursuing her like she is a catch and a
prize because a woman like us are just that... A Catch & a
Prize... We are a rare breed and aren't willing to settle for just
any man... or what presents himself to be a man, but in all
actuality is a little boy dawning grown man attire and what have
But anywho.. I guess I am single because no man has yet to step to
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Lately, I have
been over in the forum area... HmMMmMm! Pretty interesting subjects
going on... pretty interesting talking going on... pretty
interesting communication styles...
here's a list of my favorite Forum Topics
Paternity test : should she get
Why do men watch porn when they
are in a Relationship?
Events > Local
Immigrants Deserve Bail For Crimes They Have
Families & Home >
How old is too old......to live
with mom and dad?
When a Man is Disrespectful,
Who's to Blame?
Do Black women
want a black man after he has slept with a white
The Fat White Girl Trap (y'all
need to take heed)
Ok..Fellas why have unprotected
sex if you don't want kids???
Why r all guys
focused on sex? What about getting to know a female
When is it justifiable to hit a
Should Prostition be
Is there a difference between
a bytch and a brat?
Relationships > Free
What can you really do, if
you catch them cheating?
Any childless man
who "steps up" to raise another man's kids is a
BabyDaddy in jail and wants to
get married but Im scared.
Why do women still
want men to chase when they out number us 7 to 1
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smile... if you want to know anything in particular... send me a
note... if you do not receive a note back from me...
1) You probably wrote
something I found offensive...
2) You are probably
too young for the kind of talk you're trying to engage me in... and
I am not even going to dignify your comments...
3) You've probably
demonstrated that you lack the ability to master the English
language... and since I do not speak Ebonics... or text message
ebonics... we have absolutely NADA to talk
4) Just because I am
in law school, it doesn't mean
personally know how to fix our legal situation...
... Even if I could help with your legal situation, I am NOT going
to personally risk my bar card on assisting you with your legal
... I am currently rolling in bank or will be rolling in bank in
the near future, so all of you MALE
GOLD DIGGERS... you and your Back Hoe's need to
find other territory to dig up... Though My ground is furtile...
you are not diggin in it...
5) Writing me and
making it obvious that you've only viewed my pis... HmmMm! you've
demonstrated that you're not that really interested in getting to
know me.. So I am not too interested in getting to know
6) I am not too much
too interested in adding anyone to my friendslist who doesn't have
TEXT on ther page...
so if you write me asking me to make you my friend.. and you have
nothing for me to read when I come to your page.. guess what.. I
will not respond to your note.. and I will not be adding you to my
7) I do not respond
to hate notes.. so if you want to get a rise out of me... HmMMm!
Don't even waste your time.. because more likely than not.. I will
only put you on blast...
Take Care of You.. and I'll Update this in a few days or