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looking forward to a great exciting year in 2012





My original statement on here that STILL stands true:
Sitting here at my computer trying to think of something whitty, charming or just interesting to say to everyone here on Black Planet, but to no avail am I able to. So fvckit! I mean lets face it. No matter what I write about me or how I feel about things I could be lying. Just like most of the other chatters do, especially THE MEN!!. So take me at face value. I am a female that sits on her computer on occassion and chats. Not one to be taken seriously. I have a life, I live reality, I chat to excape from it.

First let me say I`m not vain nor stuck up. I do not get nearly the amount of notes that some of you think I do. However please if you want me to respond say something intelligent. Just saying I have nice legs or something similiar may not get a response back from me. Please don`t get offended if I don`t respond. I just can`t respond and act like I`m interested in every note I get. *smile* Also if your looking for a hook-up, well I`m not her. I come to BP to chat and make friends not to HOOK UP as so many think this chat site is used for. I have meet a lot of people from here but as friends. So if it is frienship your looking for that is great, if your looking for a "GOOD TIME" I may not be the one for you.

My PERFECT MATE *knowing that no such man is around*

1. 6`2"+ The more + the better
2. BLACK *maybe that should of been first*
3. Must be between 40 to 50
4. Must be physically fit, that means ACTUALLY GOING TO A GYM and WORKING OUT not talking. I love a man with arms and a nice chest.
5. Must not be hairy, I can`t stand a hair man.
6. Has children. I`m NOT having any more for NO MAN!!
7. Make a decent income. Meet me half way. I don`t need you to support me but at least be able to support YOURSELF and still be able to be able to go out and enjoy life. AND YES there is nothing wrong with a man actually being able to afford to take me on a trip. I`m worth IT!
8. Be outgoing!!! I don`t want a couch potato, a video game expert or a remote control junkie!!
9. A man who is able to have fun!! I like to enjoy life not dwel on the problems of it!
10. A man who is romantic. I want a man to surprise me with something out the ordinary. I shouldn`t HAVE to tell him I want to feel special. He should want to ALWAYS make me BE SPECIAL in his life
11. Must be HONEST!!! let me repeat that as most men don`t relate to that word. HE MUST BE HONEST!!! that is tell the truth. At this point in our lives we are to old for games.
12. He should be willing to do his half in the relationship. Meaning if I COOK FOR U, and I can cook!, then get up off the sofa and do the dishes!! I shouldn`t have to ask you to do them or for that matter do them myself!
13. A man who wants to go out and live life, I love to go dancing, concerts, movies, camping, rafting, sporting events, plays, bowling, travel, just ENJOY LIFE basically.
14. MUST BE SINGLE and not dating everyone on BP or anywhere else. I need a man about ME. If you can`t give your all to me then I`m not interested!!!
15. Live within DRIVING distance. NOT FLYING. I want a man who can be there when I need him. So he better be able to get to me when I do make that call. NOT a month, not a week, not 2 days and not even 2 hours LATER!




Ok I give up with all the questions. So here`s a brief summation of me. I am 5`8, 5`11 with heels. I live in Vallejo, CA. I don`t travel to meet men. I have 3 kids, son 31, daughters 26 and 23. So YOUNG men even though I am very flattered with the comments please do not think that I would even consider anything with you. I have a rule I live by, If your closer to my son`s age than you are mines I don`t date you. Also men please don`t send me notes telln me what black men like and don`t like.I was raised in a black family from damn near birth, I am very familiar with what the brotha`s like. Everyone in my family is black except for my step-mothers and one step sister. I have 17 brothers and sisters that are mixed. So save all those bullshyt lines for some other white women *smile*. Watching my brothers and cousins over the years I think I have itpretty much figured out.
I do Accounting work for a living. I Enjoy watching football, going to sporting events *NOHOCKEY OR WRESTLING*, dancing, going to concerts, movies,working out, bowling, swimming, going to the beach, camping and basically just living life and all it has to offer. I will do alot as long as it does not have a risk of my life envovled..like miss me with that bungy cord shyt and deep sea diving with the sharks..my skin may be WHITE but I`m not even close to being that stupid! lol







11/19/03

My Gastric Bypass Surgery - I was alot larger than I am now. On July 22, 2002 I had Gastric Bypass Surgery. I lost 38 pounds on my own by dieting from March 25 to July 22. I have lost another 139 pounds from July 22 to today, 11/19/03. So in all I have dropped 177 pounds from a size 28 tight to a size 10 very comfortably. Over half of me. The surgery was a huge help in me loosing the weight. However I do work out 6 times a week andI watch everything I eat. The surgery alone can not do it all. It still has to be on the individual. I am putting this on my page because it was an interesting experience going through the weight loss and seeing how I am treated by others now that I have lost the weight. Ifanyone is interested in learning more about the procedure or have any questions for me about it I would be more than happy to share with you. I am proud of what I have accomplished in the last year and a half. I know many others are embarrassed to say they had to have surgery to loose their weight, butnot me. That was me then,this is me now!Like me or don`t,thats your choice. I WILL ALWAYS LIKE ME.











BTW don`t ask Am I really devious and what makes medevious. I won`t tell you because the only way to reallyknow how I`m devious is to know me...and thats only if your lucky enough to ever get that chance. Or unlucky enough LOL





One thing to know about me is that I am an advid football fan. My Sundays & Mondays are scheduled around football games. Saturdays and Thursdays also when there is a game on TV. San Francisco 49ERS are my team. DON`T HATE!





Please do not leave me any voice messages. I never check it, nor do I call anyone elses.






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