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IN CASE YOU SEND ME A NOTE AND I DONT RESPOND THEN SEND ME ANOTHER ONE BECAUSE MAYBE I DIDNT GET IT... DONT SEND ME A FRIEND INVITE UNLESS WE HAVE SPOKEN OR U REALLY KNOW ME... IM NOT WITH DRAMA OR ANY OTHER BS..

Whats good??.. I am from NJ but at the moment i'm in TN.. I'm so ambitious! I like Movies, Music, Poetry/Spoken Word, Cooking, Reading, History, Sports, and a few other interesting things. Im charismatic, funny/silly, laid back, cooler than freddy jackson sipping a milk shake in a snow storm, and open minded. I love to have fun. You wanna know more about me or jus wanna say hi, then hit me up!

The woman is the best gift a man could ever have. It is the woman who makes the man complete and for her I am thankful. To the beautiful black woman, I salute you, appreciate you and thank you for who you are, strive to be, and all you've done. Your value isnt determined by a man.

Nothing is easy in life so you gotta work hard at what you do. THE MIND IS A TERRIBLE THING TO WAISTE. LIFE IS NEVER EASY, IT IS FILLED WITH UPS & DOWNS, WHAT YOU GO THROUGH CAN MAKE YOU OR BREAK YOU. REMEMBER WHO YOU WERE, REACH FOR WHO YOU WANNA BE, AND NEVER FORGET WHO YOU ARE...DREAMS ARE FOR THOSE WHO SLEEP.. SET A GOAL, BEGIN MAKING THAT GOAL HAPPEN, AND WATCH IT WORK!




GOOD BLACK MEN:

Good Black Men are indeed all around us. We pass them on the streets,
in the malls, and at work. Most we can't see because we don't know what
a good black man really looks like. He usually isn't flashy enough or
rich enough to turn our heads. He might not wear a suit or push a
Lexus. He might not have a body like Tyson with a Denzel face. But, as
you mature, you realize it's better to find someone who's got your back
rather than someone who turns your head.

A good black man doesn't agree with everything you say all the time. He doesn't just tell you what you want to hear and do the opposite. He doesn't declare how sensitive, sweet, caring, sincere, etc. he is (he
won't have to because it shows). He has his own opinions and yours may
clash, but he doesn't have to degrade you to prove he's right. He even
admits at times to being wrong, especially if you are willing to do the
same.

A good black man is not going to meet every item on your checklist. He
is human with frailties and faults mixed in with all of his wonderful,
strong attributes. He needs your love and respect. He needs to feel
that you don't live to catch him doing something wrong so you can
declare, "Aha! I knew you were a dog!"

A good black man isn't insecure about his woman having great
achievements. In fact, he is her number one supporter and becomes disappointed with
her when she begins to lose herself, especially for the sake of not
hurting his feelings, or only wanting to make him happy. His happiness
comes with seeing her excel in her dreams and accomplishing her goals.
For as she excels and is exalted, a good woman will bring her good man
right along with her.

A good black man doesn't necessarily give you a huge birthday or
Valentine's gift. He shows his love in the ways that are comfortable to
him. Don't judge him by TV standards. No one is really living a fairy
tale. You'll miss out on y our own fairy tale by buying into the myth
that our black men are no good. It's just not true.

A good black man is a man of his word. He says what he means and means
what he says. His word is his bond. He never leaves you wondering if
he is going to call or show up - he is dependable.

A good black man has a love and a heart for his Higher Power. As his
relationship and love with that Higher Power grows so will his
relationship and love with and for you grow.


PEACE