DIVAINBLACK`S WORLD
*Don`t forget about the pictures at the bottom of the page! Much luv!*
***** THE INTERVIEW *****
Welcome. I am your host for the night and I know alot of you want to know more about that DIVA-IN-BLACK. Well I am here to help. I will be asking Ms.Diva a slew of questions, and she has agreed to open up "some of her world" to you. So sit back and enjoy!
Host:
How are you doing today Ms.Diva. I mean I can call you Ms.Diva and all, right?
Diva-In-Black:Just trying to hang in there...and you know Ms.Diva is just fine. Or you can call me by my other nickname which is "E" which is short for my real name, Erica. But whatever you wish hon.
Host:Alrighty the "E". Well, I am feeling the pics that you have up on your page. Nice!! Why don`t you describe what you look like in detail because a picture can only tell so much.
Diva-In-Black:Aaight, if that is what you daddi. First off I am a fully loaded African American sista. Stand 4 feet 11 but I am goin to go ahead and round that bad boy up to 5 feet even.Extremely light complexion, full figured. Before I even move on, let me break this down real quick on the term "full figure" because I hear that, it tends to be used too loosely..i will drop a dime on some sistaz who I THINK, are full figured to give you an idea of what i am talkin about..full figured meaning chunky women who carry their weight nicely and are attractive, IN MY OPINION...MIA X from the NO LIMIT squad, KELLY PRICE-Singer in Whitney Houston`s video, Missy Elliot-Now I know you know who she is, Queen Latifah-down to earth sista but she is tall, the OLD VESTA WILLIAMS-older woman who sung that song back in the day CONGRATULATIONS,(Gurl can blow by the way). Anywayz, enough of that. I believe I exude sex appeal but also realize beauty is in the eyez of the beholder so you would have to judge. I also have natural hazel green eyes, naturally long reddish sandy brown hair, and a decent smile! I have one tattoo and a tongue ring. There I think that will cover it all.
Host:Gotdamm gurl, I didn`t think you were going to go into a novel about your appearance. The only thing you failed to mention is how big your breasts are. So...how big are they?
Diva-In-Black:Uuummm, they are a none-of-your-damm-business cup size. Do you like?
Host:Oh I see, so now you are trying to play the private role on a brotha huh?
Diva-In-Black:Naw baby boy, it`s not like that. There`s just a time and a place to talk about my other anatomy and this isn`t it. Ya dig?
Host:(laughing) Alright, alright. You are something else. Okay, so you make it known that you are into cars and video games. Tell me a little bit about that.
Diva-In-Black:Now we are talking..this is MY kind of subject!!! Yes I consider myself a kid at heart (thanks to my father, LOVE YOU DAD). And ever since I was a lil girl, i have always been into cars and motorcycles. I had a MATCHBOX and HOT WHEELS set and my father always rode me on the back of his bike. Video games were the same way. I remember playing on my daddy`s COMMODORE station and then I got my first ATARI. I have traded the HOT WHEELS for my 2000 Black Mitsubishi Eclipse, that I am still in the process of customizing. Right now I have my Kenwood Excelon MASK tape unit (too tight if you know what it is). 10 disc CD changer for the trunk, Four 6 1/2 Polk DB speakers, my 500 watt MTX amp (going to upgrade), my two 10 inch MTX subwoofer (going to upgrade those as well)!I will then add fender trim, and last but not least, my RIMZZZZ! Of course rims require HELLA loot so...
Host:Damm gurl, are you trying to do it like that (laughing). I bet you be rollin. I also heard you actually have "DIVA-IN-BLACK" going across the front of your windshield. Is that true?
Diva-In-Black:Oh no doubt daddi. Got that put on some months ago. I like it and I don`t care WHO thinks it is ghetto. Yeah but I like my music to be up when I am ryding. Although I have to be careful now because I just recently got a ticket for my "amplified bass" being too loud. Isn`t that some %#&@$!. A cop has nothing better to do but to pull me over for that.
Host:Diva trying to disturb the peace huh...okay so you also said that you like video games. What are some of the games you have played?
Diva-In-Black:Oh yes the video games. Well I love the PLAYSTATION. I am waiting for that PLAYSTATION 2 to come out so I can continue playing some of my favorite games. I have played and beaten Silent Hill, Resident Evil 1 & 2, Tomb Raider 1,2,& 3, Metal Gear Solid. I have played Syphon Filter (i believe that is how you spell it) but never finished it. I can whoop much %#&@$! on the racing/driving games. That is my thing. I am not much into the sports games. But I tend to like the longer games that takes days to finish EXCEPT for that FINAL FANTASY..HATE IT!
Host:I see, well I bet you couldn`t beat my backside in those games...nevermind. So onto a more serious topic. What is your take on relationships amongst the brothaz and sistaz?
Diva-In-Black:Sometimes I feel as if I should be a relationship counselor because this is TRULY my topic. Let me first say this...my views on this isn`t something made up. I am the way I am today because of the hurt, lies, and deceit that I went through yesterday. I learned from it. In saying that, I honestly believe that every relationship will not have the chance to be a healthy one without an important ingredient...COMMUNICATION. Sure honesty is important, trust, the willingness to be spontaneous, but all of that is %#&@$! if your partner cannot open up his or her mind and tell you how they feel or express to you what they expect. We aren`t mind readers. Time is against us. We don`t have the time nor energy to be trying to play the psychic game on how or what you are feeling or thinking. Here is a hypothetical and example, Say my man is not as attracted to me as he once was and that the passion is gone. Now on my end I maybe thinking everything is rock-n and roll-n, right? But my partner isn`t feeling fulfilled for some reason. So instead of my partner sitting down and talking to me like GROWN PEOPLE SHOULD DO, he decides to look elsewhere to feel complete. To get what he is missing at home. To cheat. Now not only is HIS actions hurtful, selfish, and deceitful but it did not help the situation in the long run but worsened it. How was I suppose to know that there was a problem there without him talking to me about it. We could have solved it but I was NEVER given the chance. No I may not have liked to hear that my man maybe getting bored of our relationship but I would have RESPECTED him for his honesty and we could have moved forward. In that scenario, the man took the easy way out rather than rectifying the problem. Instead added on to it. Another thing we have to be aware of in relationships is the feelings of the person in which we are involved with. I would think that if you with this person, then there must have been SOMETHING that made you want to be committed to them. So must do your part to be passionate, caring, loving and fun. Don`t be afraid to express yourself, no matter what. Swallow your pride and learn to GIVE. We as black people put more emphasis into our cars, and clothers, and bling-bling(n) jewelry than we do our loved ones which is purely FUCCED UP to me. What I am trying to say is a good way to deal with relationships is this..ask yourselves `HOW WOULD I LIKE TO BE TREATED IN A SITUATION LIKE THIS?` You will hear your internal answer, and then I would hope you would give the same amount of decency to someone than you would yourself, or your mother, father, sister, or brother. It really isn`t that hard. I have more thoughts on this subject but this is good for now.
***IT WILL CONTINUE WHEN I COME BACK TO LUNCH.. ***
A quote I like: Communication is the Key to Life Without it You Have Nothing - Erica
Why my friends like me: Because I make it easy for them to talk to me. I open myself up as much as possible towards those around me. Allowing them access into my realm..my world! Allowing them to feel my very essence..and always keep it real. Sincere. Let it be known that it is alright to feel. I am a communicator...and if allowed, be a true friend but believe me IT HAS TO BE RECIPROCATED in order for it to be validated!
Extra Love From that
DIVAINBLACK......
