"A generous spirit helps us to realize that our actions are always bigger than what we see with our eyes...it creates ripples of goodness beyond ourselves" RR
I am into thinking outside the box...
shooting pics worth looking at...
seeing what`s what with all 6 senses...
and listening to what`s not being said...
I get stimulated by good convo.
I get turned on by a generous spirit.
I get excited by creative pursuits.
I warm up fast when a man is real.
I hum from inside when I`m feelin it.
MY PATH
I follow the path of the peaceful warrior. I am open to attracting someone who is willing, able and turned on by the thoughts and actions of embracing the core of what makes me me... a strong, intelligent, passionate woman...not necessarily an ideal combination for every man, but moreso for the man who stands apart.
MY CREATIVITY
One of my most creative, exciting and intense passions is photography. I certainly have others that rank up there but the creative process of photography inspires and excites me. I have a website showing some of my work so if you are interested in checking it out just let me know. I love to shoot edgy, contextual, sensual photography.
THE DIFFERENCE
Knowing the difference between a girl and a woman--that`s the difference between a boy and a man....and a man realizes the difference as he becomes fully realized himself, and acts accordingly.
DEATH OF THE SOUL
Compartmentalization of any of the intrinsic aspects of self...physical, emotional, mental, spiritual...fragments the fullness of who we are holistically and how we are created, blinds us to the spiritual depth of being and the essence of our humanity. Compartmentalizing ourselves or others dissolves intensity and intention of focus which has the opposite effect of empowering our core values and connecting us with each other on all levels. It causes such a being to become bitter and a hater of that which he fears. It also commodifies particular aspects of a human...like skin color or body parts and renders soul-less those very aspects of beauty. A man`s energy is oppressed and often an unrepairable gap is created between the sexes with the one-dimensional, misrepresentation that porn and our porn culture markets, which one great man put succinctly "porn is a rapists view of women" and another man put controversially "porn is a white man's industry." Erotica, on the other hand, in its essential creative and god given expression, generates kundalini energy which is wholly integrated with all aspects of humanity--the physical, sexual, emotional, mental and spiritual. And with erotica's deepest, most natural passion and holistic core value it will manifest as an inspiration and gift within human interaction and connection. Chemistry is just the start. Authentic connection cannot be manipulated by industry nor marketed to make us believe we are lacking. It has become elusive in our society.
AN OPEN MIND
The beginning of freedom is the realization that you are not the thinker. The moment you start watching the thinker a higher level of consciousness becomes activated. You then begin to realize that there is a vast realm of intelligence beyond thought....thought is only a tiny aspect of that intelligence. You also realize that all the things that truly matter-- beauty, love, creativity, joy, inner peace, higher and deeper levels of connection-- arise from beyond the mind. You begin to awaken....
WHAT I APPRECIATE IN A MAN
I appreciate a man who is self-secure, intelligent, deep and passionate about life. I am not about the chase, the stockpile of material goods, stature or the stereotype but rather the substance, integrity and compromising what doesn't really matter for the good of what we are building together. I match what I seek in a man. All else follows...
AN OLDER WOMAN
I am what might be considered by some, an older woman. Let's take a look at some of the popular stereotypes of older women. According to popular belief we are: independent, know what we want sexually and how to get there and if we haven't tried it yet, its definitely on our list of "must do's", have fewer hang ups, know how to offer support or 'have your back'. We are more confident, walk our talk, know how to face a challenge, know how to talk straight. We know what we want and are less likely to settle or put up with BS because by now, even though we can state we know what we want with a strong degree of certainty, we can even moreso avow with certainly that we know what we don't want. Yes, we realize that when we stop smiling some of our laugh lines still remain. Yes we know that our bellies are not what they used to be but we also know our bellies are beautiful, womanly and an incredible erogenous zone. In fact, our whole body is one big erogenous playground. Because by this time we refuse to play the role of 'parts'...we recognize we are the whole enchalata. And at this point you can be sure we want to play adult style. Yes, we are done having children and yes we are VERY happy about that. When we work out, we do so for the joy and health of it, not to compete with our younger sisters for we know that they will never be able to compete with our heightened sense of sensuality and sexuality and we respect their naivety because we were once in their shoes. We have an uncanny skill of locating missing items. We possess an innate 6th sense. We can kick your butt with just a look. We can tell you what you need to hear without drama...and you'll listen. Our expectations are higher and more fine-tuned but so is our tolerance and our ability to understand a less evolved level of consciousness. We don't need to pick fights, we simply stand our ground. We can make suggestions that make sense. And yes, we can be underestimated by our 20something sisters and overlooked by our 20something brothers. We've either known for some time or have finally accepted that for some things, being with a younger man just simply makes good sense. And for some younger men, they've come to desire the realization of the unequivocal difference between a girl...and an older woman. We welcome you...if you can step up to the plate.
ON BEING BLOND
I guess it was time for a change. Even tho sometimes I miss my dark hair I am happy with the change. It's all forward moving!!!
"success is not something you can chase after--it is something you attract by the person you become"
"sometimes the majority only means that all the fools are on the same side. "
"The art of sex is the art of controlled abandon...our bodies learn to speak the language of the soul" PC
"Whether we are desperate and have nothing to lose or if we are full of enthusiasm for life, the unknown reveals itself, and our universe changes directions..." PC
Always leave a person in a better state than when you met them.
Peace Within.
This is a little something I read today...thought I'd share it as it is truth. It was written by a male too which to me is encouraging.
"Everywhere you look there are things telling you when, why and how to have sex. There's a whole technology of sexuality everything from advice columns and late-night phone sex ads to the annual sex polls put out by the alternative weeklies, not to mention Internet porn. It exerts an enormous pressure and like most technologies it distances you from yourself. Just a few months ago, a writer for New York magazine complained he was finding real sex increasingly difficult because porn was making such a din in his head. He had to go cold turkey before he could make significant, uh, progress.
I know what he means. I've no problem with porn per se. But there's no doubt it deadens the imagination and supplants your native instincts. Such is the power of its industrial-strength imagery that it forces other, more personal thoughts from your head. Before you know it, you're performing somebody else's script."
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