I met a man who was completely forgettable. I spoke with him and remembered nothing. A mutual friend told me that he thought the two of us should meet. Mr. Forgettable didn't register on my radar, but I liked his persistence, and as opposed to all of the afore mentioned "confused" individuals that I have previously blogged about, Mr. Forgettable seemed to know EXACTLY what he was looking for, hell, and it was me. He is intelligent, eloquent, and elegant. He is thoughtful, kind, loving... (continue reading)
For the past 2 years of my life I have attracted nothing but divorced/divorcing men who were heartbroken, destroyed, bitter and damaged over previous relationships. Initially, it seemed like a good thing in as much as I had just experienced the devastating end of a relationship with a man that I had intended to spend the rest of my days with. I thought we had something in common.
You could definitely say that I am indecisive when I ordera meal. I feel compellled to examine the entire menu before I make a choice: I don't want to miss out on something truly unique and special. However, when it comes to my relationships, when it comes to who I want to share my life with, at the age of 38 years old, I know exactly what I want and I have no problems saying so. After all, if I don't say what it is that I want, how can anyone ever... (continue reading)
If I don't know where I am going, any road will take me there and I have never been the type to just wander aimlessly. One of the most difficult aspects of dating is keeping my focus on exactly what it is that I want. It amazes me how good, something bad for you can feel. Without focus, it is easy to settle for a relationship that can devalue or diminish who I am, simply because that ephemeral feeling of falling in love takes over. I choose not to fall in love. When it is right, I purposely jump... (continue reading)
The beauty of dating is that it can definitely help you to know what you like and don't like, and based on my recent limited experience, I can tell you very clearly what I am not. I have always thought that I was NOT a high-maintenance woman in the sense that I am relatively laid back as far as almost everything is concerned-with the exception of love. When it comes to love, I am extremely demanding: straight up Ultra High Maintenance.
The search for Mr. Right is a pain in the azz when there are so many Mr. Wrongs who think they are slick. Of course I recognize that my Mr. Wrong could be somebody else's Mr. Right and that is all good, it's just the filtering process of initial attraction and then perhaps...compatibility. Everything that is good to you is not necessarily good for you :-) What is important is treating others as you would like to be treated: even in relationships! What goes around comes around.... (continue reading)
