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I have to say brothers and sisters, I am quite confused on what men want from their women. Is it a strong woman who can stand on her own; someone that has established herself and what you would bring would compliment that. Or is it a woman who will conform to what you want her to become? Is it a woman that believes in reciprocity, or one that is comfortable just taking from you? Well I am a strong, independent, intelligent, loving, giving woman and yet all of these seemingly great qualities... (continue reading)

This may very well be my last blog on here for a specific reason. In my past, I've always had this image of what I thought I wanted in the person that I decided to be with. I think we all do it. We envision that "perfect one," and then are disappointed when the person we do choose to be with doesn't measure up to the image that we put together. Well, I've had the blessing of having someone enter my life recently, and I have to say he is nothing like what I would go for. He's under 6 feet, 7... (continue reading)

Summer's almost over and will be grandly ended, at least in New York, with Brooklyn's Labor Day Parade... So after all of the whining up on random men and women, drinking until you can't walk in a straight line, talking to various people in hopes to get your summer grind on, what do you do after BP? Seriously, isn't it time to stop playing those sophomoric "player" games and step to someone with some realness? How I get approached on here sometimes, you can tell that he or she is... (continue reading)

I mean really. Come on now. Do I look that desperate that I cannot tell your picture was copied from the internet so that you can try to persuade me to talk to you! What the hell man! I didn't become a successful black woman to be used as a reason for Visa issuance! Stop it! If you can't get here on your own, then LEAVE BP ALONE!