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    February 02, 2007

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    Ernestine Fishburn

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Male, 50, Greensboro, NC

Posted August 16, 2011

I only lied to myself
When I said that
I would resist you
While my head said no

My lips just wanted to kiss you
And even when I wasn't near you
I could still feel and hear you
At night I even feared to

Lie down in my bed
Because I just might appear to
Be speaking your name even in my sleep
I tried so hard to ignore you
To pretend that I didn't even like you
But no matter how hard I tried to

You got under my skin and inside my head
Whether I was on my job or lying in my bed
Whether I was fast asleep or totally awake
You controlled my thoughts
Not much more could I take

"Ok." I said, in complete defeat
"I'm yours do with me whatever you want to."
With that superior air that is your alone
You looked at me and said
"Come and make love to me!"


Male, 50, Greensboro, NC

Posted August 04, 2011

Sweet Treat

What a beautiful treat
You look sinfully sweet,
I⿿m wondering, are you too sweet for me?
Because I find it hard to believe
I think you aim to deceive
So I might indulge in your forbidden calories
Seductively spread across that platter
What a tasty tempting sight
A beguiling enthralling Confectionary delight
With a savory scent that teases
Mouthwatering guarantees
To satisfy the appetite, scintillate and please
You⿿re a divine delectable delicacy
So richly smooth and velvety
Can I dip in my finger, and sample your cream?
You⿿re much too soft and subtle to slice
Shall I just scoop you with my hands?
You see etiquette and table manners
Need not be part of these dinning plans
I want to dine like I⿿m primal, Uninhibited like a animal
Sacrificial like and tribal, Unpretentious just natural
So can I
Slowly nibble on each morsel, Carefully catch all the falling crumbs
Will you
Let me Savor and appreciate each bite, like it⿿s my last and final one
I want to take my time feasting on you, no interruptions or rushing will do
I want to get lost in the joyful task of totally, wholly consuming you
Then when I⿿m finish and sorrowfully through
No fancy napkins or fine linens shall be used
To clean your lasting remnants, here is what I plan to do
One by one suck each of my fingers, to clean your sweet stickiness
Then lick the last of your flavor lingering and clinging on my lips
In a sweet culinary bliss, I⿿ll let the reminiscing begin
It⿿s Second only to the pleasure of eating you all over again⿦


Male, 50, Greensboro, NC

Posted July 31, 2011

The love I crave late at night
Is the only love that can satisfy
The hunger
The lust
The yearning I have inside
Only one woman in this whole world
Can love me the way I want
And need
She's got everything
From charm
To beauty
To intelligence and wit
OOOH...how I love this girl
She is the cream to my coffee
The sugar to my spice
The love of my life
She's sexy to me
And, guys, she smells soooo sweet
(She tastes sweet, too. Believe you me.)
She's my heart and soul
The only love I've ever known.
She's more than my lover
She's more than my friend
She's you
And I am yours


Male, 50, Greensboro, NC

Posted July 29, 2011



Male, 50, Greensboro, NC

Posted July 27, 2011

6 Days Without You

Sunday, I showered alone, missed your touch,
longed to have you soap my back, missed the way
your hands glide over my body, from my shoulders down
my back, as the water rains down on us

Monday, I masturbated to our favorite
love making songs....
it wasn't the same

Tuesday, couldn't stop thinking about your tongue, the
way it blazes trails of fire over my chest,
teasing my nipples till I shiver

Wednesday, wet and wanting,
wanting to feel the warmth
of your body as your muscles contract
around my fingers

Thursday, I thought for sure you would call baby,
but the phone never rang

Friday, I dreamed of fukking you slow and hard,
the sweet look in your eyes as you lie beneath me,
we climaxed simultaneously

Saturday, you come home. Sex.
Six days of longing ready to be released,
we showered, made love, touched,
moaned, groaned.....


Male, 50, Greensboro, NC

Posted June 22, 2011

10 signs of romantic interest
by Matt Bird

As anybody who's ever held a flame for another (that'd be the majority of you, I'm sure) can attest, there are few things more annoying than wondering whether or not the object of your affections likes you back. Every little nervous tic or gesture they make is carefully studied, yet each one just seems to add up to more confusion. It'd be nice if plucking petals off flowers and saying 'she loves me, she loves me not' really did work, as you'd at least be certain of the outcome.

Life isn't so simple, however, as thus those with fire burning in their hearts must still try and decipher the body language and actions of those they like. Fear not, however, as there ARE some signs that they might just like you back. See enough of them and it's probably time to ask them out.

1.) They smile at you. Simple as that. You make them feel good when you're around. I'm not talking a strained, indulgent smile, either, but an honest-to-god uncontrollable grin that just won't vanish from their face. You can make their bad days turn good again in a heartbeat.

2.) They maintain eye contact at all times, usually in conjunction with the smile. People who don't have much regard for you will avoid your eyes, especially if you make them nervous or otherwise uncomfortable. That said, you may be making them nervous because they like you, as well, so don't instantly dismiss those who look away shyly.

3.) They touch you. It doesn't need to be constant physical contact, but just little brushes and back pats. If they stroke your arm then you're probably good to go.

4.) They allow you to touch them. They won't flinch away and will happily allow prolonged physical contact. Most people instinctively move away from a foot that gets too close, so if that DOESN'T happen they may just fancy you.

5.) They laugh at everything you say. Most jokes coming out of your mouth will probably be horribly lame, but if somebody likes you they'll chuckle anyway.

6.) They'll happily make plans with you whenever you like. Pick a day and they'll do whatever they can to accommodate you. If they lack interest they'll blow you off completely, which should be enough to warn you off the trail for good.

7.) They'll start to appear wherever you go. Not necessarily in a stalker-ish sense, but they'll learn your timetable and mysteriously begin popping up along your route. The more you see a person outside the usual places the better your chances.

8.) They become inquisitive. They'll ask all about you, down to the most trivial details. If you really like them back then return the favor as amply as possible.

9.) They attempt to share your interests whenever possible. If you like movies, they'll suddenly share your passion. They're trying to engage you and spend time with you by doing this, so don't hold back. (It can't hurt to discover some of their hobbies, as well. Relationships are all about give and take, after all.)

10.) And last, they look fancied-up every time you see them. You could be going out for a coffee but they'll still try to appear spic and span. Their hair will be tidy, their clothes unblemished and stylish, their skin gleaming like a baby. This part applies more to females than males, I've noticed, though plenty of men will go to great lengths to impress a lady as well.

All of these signs can work in reverse, as well. If you want to show somebody you care for them beyond the norm, spruce yourself up. Laugh at their jokes. Ask lots of questions. Maintain eye contact and experiment with your touching. With a bit of effort you may just have a boyfriend or girlfriend in the near future.


Male, 50, Greensboro, NC

Posted June 19, 2011

7 Keys to Better Listening

Being a great listener can win you friends, improve your marriage, boost your business profits or advance your career. It can make people feel so good about being with you that they⿿ll literally follow you anywhere.

1. Listening is NOT a passive activity!
2. Listen for unspoken fears, concerns, moods, and aspirations.
3. Good listening requires great wisdom.
4. Listen to others with respect and validation.
5. Listen without thinking about how you⿿re going to respond.
6. Listen for tell-tale signs of impending trouble.
7. Listen with positive regard for people⿿s strengths & abilities.


Male, 50, Greensboro, NC

Posted June 18, 2011

4 Tips For Unconditional Love
By Robin Downes

Unconditional love becomes possible when you practice cultivating these four states of mind:

1. Friendliness or loving kindness is the heartfelt wish for the well-being of oneself and others.

2. Compassion is a virtue ⿿ one in which the emotional capacities of empathy and sympathy (for the suffering of others) are regarded as a part of love itself, and a cornerstone of greater social interconnectedness and humanism

Ranked a great virtue in numerous philosophies, compassion is considered in all the major religious traditions as among the greatest of virtues.

3. Joy is an essential spiritual practice growing out of faith, grace, gratitude, hope, and love. It is the pure and simple delight in being alive. Joy is our elated response to feelings of happiness, experiences of pleasure, and awareness of abundance. It is also the deep satisfaction we know when we are able to serve others and be glad for their good fortune.

4. Equanimity ⿿ is one of the divine states. It is also considered as one of the steps to enlightenment. In this state, there is no fear. The ⿿I⿝ is vanquished, all actions arises from the state of equanimity, fully aware and fully present, and thus completely keeping with the situation

These four tips are the qualities of true, authentic, and unconditional love.


Male, 50, Greensboro, NC

Posted May 14, 2011


A man walking along a California beach was deep in prayer. Suddenly the sky
clouded above his head and, in a booming voice, the Lord said, "Because you
have tried to be faithful to me in all ways, I will grant you one wish."
The man said, "Build a bridge to Hawaii so I can drive over anytime I
The Lord said, "Your request is very materialistic. Think of the enormous
challenges for that kind of undertaking. The supports required to reach the
bottom of the Pacific! The concrete and steel it would take!
It will nearly exhaust several natural resources. I can do it, but it is
hard for me to justify your desire for worldly things. Take a little more
time and think of something that would honor and glorify me."
The man thought about it for a long time. Finally he said, "Lord, I wish
that I could understand my wife. I want to know how she feels inside, what
she's thinking when she gives me the silent treatment, why she cries, what
she means when she says 'nothing is wrong' and how I can make a woman truly

The Lord replied, "You want two lanes or four on that bridge?"


Male, 30, Greenville, SC

Posted April 18, 2011

Hey, beautiful. I just, wanted to, say hi, and thanks! For being so, sexy! lol ~*Muah*~

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