EbonySparks415 Relaxing and getting ready for the kids' first day of school tomorrow...lovin' being Mama. - August 16, 2010 add/view comments (0)

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FIRST OF ALL...I AM A WRITER...SO GET YOUR READING GLASSES ON!

I am 100% real. Heard that before, huh? Well, this time, it's for real. I am honest, understanding and down to earth...I don't judge people and I don't believe in coincidences. My motto: Life isn't what you make it, it's how you live it! I'd love to network, build friendships and bond with people who have a good grasp on their lives and that aren't just "going somewhere" but actually can appreciate the space that they're in at this minute.

NOW TO THE DATING AND RELATIONSHIPS AND WHAT NOT...(OMG)

I have a good sense of humor and can laugh at just about any situation and usually do! I am a Scorpio, so I do everything to the extreme! I'm very blunt but I'm also very compassionate, and while I give it to you raw and uncut...I'll usually blow it off so you don't burn yourself trying to swallow! LOL. I'm very intelligent...and a little conceited about it. But I don't put anyone down or look at people differently. I'm just a constant thinker who loves to read, write and analyze the world around me. I'm also versatile, I can rock my chucks and my pumps in the same day and walk around with the same swagger. Not to mention WHOOP YOUR ASS at Madden on my XBOX 360 and do a bad %#&@$! victory dougie! LOL!

Being me is often being tons of people all at once...but I do it real well.

I am hoping to be blessed with an opportunity to meet a good MAN with a good heart. And I'm not at all embarrassed about my intentions on Black Planet...so yeah, I did just say that, and I do mean it with the utmost sincerity! LOL. I haven't been a girl for a very long time, and so I'll be honest in saying that I'm online looking to meet a MAN who knows how to appreciate a WOMAN and who can accept being appreciated in the same fashion.

I'm loyal and I'm trustworthy, I can be your best friend and the "best you've ever had". A true Scorpio, and I am very skilled in the art of taking care of my duties in and outside the bedroom, (yup, I said that too). I work everyday and enjoy coming home and taking care of my household. I also enjoy going out to eat, dancing and catching movies when they hit the theatres...but I'm not opposed to throwing on a football jersey and some slippers and kickin' it on the couch on the weekends.

When comes to down to it...I'm more interested in quality than quantity. I could care less how much money you have, what kind of car you drive or how big your house is. I'm more concerned about whether or not you are a good person and whether you want to grow and prosper with someone or just sleep with them. Either is your choice, I wouldn't dislike you more or less for your choices, but like I said...I'm a woman...and I can tell the difference. So just being yourself, keeping it real and treating me right is more than enough! ~smile~


LAST OF ALL...AND MOST IMPORTANTLY...
I'm a widow at 28, mother of 4 (one who is not biological, but is still mine) and lost the love of my life, who I was with for 11 years -- ON MOTHER'S DAY. I know right...seems like a lot for one person to handle and all that translates into is baggage for most men looking for a woman...but since I've gotta be REAL, I'm putting the cards down face up. My life ain't been no crystal staircase, so to speak. However, with all the obstacles I've faced, I do not consider my situation a burden or a "bag"...and so it should never be a burden to anyone who I meet. This inside info on everything that is me should just be a precursor to what I will and will not do or tolerate. Comprende?

I know what it feels like to be in love and to be loved. So I don't go for games AT ALL. Not just because I fall easily and hard but because I could probably play the game far better and you'd end up much worse off for the attempt. Bottom line: If you're in a relationship (even if you got an ex who doesn't know she's an ex yet), I'm not going to intrude, side-bust or creep for the sake of some company, incredible sex, money or friendly conversation. It's not worth causing anyone (even a complete stranger - even if you can't stand her) the heartache. Consider yourself notified...:p

P.S. I really don't talk as much as I write. :)

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